A friend's daughter talked about a boyfriend from the countryside. After the old couple knew, they didn't quite agree. In the old man's concept, the daughter of the city is still the best boy to find the city. They are afraid of knots

A friend's daughter talked about a boyfriend from the countryside.

After the old couple knew, they didn't quite agree. In the old man's concept, the daughter of the city is still the best boy to find the city. They are afraid that after marriage, their living habits will be different, their values will be different, and there will be contradictions. I am also worried that the young man's parents do not have a retirement salary, the burden on their daughters in the future, and they are worried that after having children, the relatives will not have time to take the children.

But the daughter said that she liked the boy very much, and felt that the boy was very safe, unlike the boys in the city. Most of the boys in the city are only children, and there are many problems with them, and few of them will do housework when they return home. At work, many of them are high or low.

Unable to resist the daughter's soft and hard bubbles, the old couple had to agree to go first and observe how the young man was. This observation, the old couple also liked this young man.

Although the young man is not handsome, he can be diligent and sweet-mouthed, and he is also very good at living a life. Every time I went to the girl's house, I didn't ask my aunt and uncle not to talk. Seeing that there are housework is rushed to do, picking vegetables, stir-frying, brushing dishes, everything is very sharp.

After a period of understanding, this young man studied communications in college, after graduation, he applied to work in a communication company, the income can also be, he worked for a few years to buy a house with a loan, and there are deposits, the old two have changed the old concept, and now they are very satisfied with this young man, not only are people good, but also very good at living, unlike some urban children, they can earn a lot of money.

After observation, it is ready for the daughter to get married next year. The house the young man bought was far from the city, and her family had a house, so she let her daughter tie up in her own house.

My friend asked me if I wanted a bride price for the young man, and I said; if it was my daughter, I would not ask for a bride price, as long as my children were doing well, the bride price was not important, and happiness after marriage was the most important.

My friend agreed with my opinion very much, saying that then don't give a bride price, if the man has to give it, I will give it to the children after marriage, we have retirement salary and can't spend it, and what do we want the children's money to do.

The girls in Zhengzhou City do not have the custom of asking for a bride price, and their parents are also very enlightened, as long as two young people really love each other, the woman will not only not want the bride price, but also accompany the dowry with a high price.

Parents are not going to change their old ideas, don't care where the people are, as long as they have good character, are motivated, and have a sense of responsibility for the family.