Mother Mother, gone peacefully. Brothers and sisters have been separated from their kind, loving mothers from yin and yang! No one treats us like children anymore... Stubborn thinking always feels that the mother is still adult

Mother

Mother, gone peacefully. Brothers and sisters have been separated from their kind, loving mothers from yin and yang! No one treats us like children anymore...

Stubborn thinking always felt that the mother was still there, as always, on the kang waiting for me to go home for the New Year. In previous years Chinese New Year's Eve I would bring some vegetarian food such as tofu vegetarian chicken gluten to my mother back, but this year I did not dare to touch it, and only instructed my children to purchase eight treasure rice, shrimp tail squid flower shell beef brisket and sheep neck to bring to my brother and sister-in-law. Preparing clothes for the new year for the mother is also a habit, this year is no exception, in November the end of the epidemic in Yinchuan I bought online, worried about the epidemic repeated express delivery stops, early prepared this purple embroidered plum blossom cardigan coat, black embroidered pants, the mother only looked at this set of clothes and could not wait for the New Year to wear. The underwear, shoes and hats that my sister bought were used one by one on the two days when my mother was ill. Every year, a thousand yuan red envelope will be prepared for the mother, and this year the red envelope is wrapped for the child. The child said, Mom, the package for Grandpa is good, Grandma can't receive your red envelope this year. In an instant, my heart tightened, my mother could no longer use my money to honor her old man, the last time I gave my mother money was a week before she died, and the mother of that meeting was in good spirits, still talkative and still deaf.

I remember when my father was alive when I was a child, every morning my mother would make a bowl of egg soup for my father with boiling boiling water, put a little green onion drops or two drops of oil into it, and the fragrant egg soup my mother would never drink, only the top pillar of the family Father had. There are few laying hens in the family, every month my mother will give me a piece of eight cents to go to the neighbor's six aunts' house to buy her eggs, and I always fart upside down a basin to spend money happily, when I meet a small partner, I don't forget to show off, my mother let me go to the six aunts' house to buy twenty eggs.

Academic problems I am the epiphany late stupid child, the middle school entrance examination re-reading days are also stressful, thin and thin my mother is very distressed, the year of the gold list title from May my mother will give me an egg boiled in white water every morning, when I come back, the egg will be on my simple desk (sewing machine), grateful for my mother's partial food I was admitted to the teacher's training that year.

On the issue of work, my mother is rarely in charge, that will be my sister-in-law is still alive, their family is in the Rujigou coal mine, the eldest cousin has coordinated with the mine kindergarten, the two-way selection form is two copies of the sealed contract waiting for me to sign, the mother changed her mind, dead or alive did not agree to me to go to Rujigou to work. In this way, the daughter of the second uncle and my cousin asked me to contact my cousin and arrange for me to work in Yinchuan. And my later husband was assigned back to his hometown, and after the engagement, he was so embarrassed that he did not dare to mention the transfer to his cousin, and his mother took me and my husband to throw the problem of transferring the son-in-law to his nephew. It was my mother who opened my straight life path, and her old man and her nephew were the nobles of our family.

In life, the mother did not preach too much to us, and the husband and son always did more and said less. There are few wise people among rural old ladies who always regard their daughters-in-law and son-in-law more seriously than their sons and daughters. My husband often said that the most successful thing for a mother in this life is to educate her children to be kind. When I arrived at the elderly mother missed her relatives, she always nagged her mother's family during the New Year's Festival, and one year during the New Year, my husband and sister escorted my mother back to her mother's house, my two uncles had long passed away, and my mother's nephews were not seen in Beijing and one in Shanghai, so I sent my mother to my mother's cousin's house as a guest. The appearance of the mother and sisters meeting each other was engraved in my memory, my aunt would be about 93 years old, my mother was about 86, and the white-haired old sisters touched their heads and cried with joy, and ten fingers clasped each other to help each other into the house. My sister and I felt the warmth of our mother and relatives with tears in our eyes. The two times I sent my mother back to my mother's house, I sent my mother to pick up my mother in the afternoon, and the mother who returned to her mother's house was happy like a child, and that memory was the longest and most precious in the eyes of my mother.

Everything seems to be yesterday! With the strong financial support of the eldest sister, the brothers and sisters celebrated their mother's 90th birthday in a red-hot way, the mother celebrated her 90th birthday for the first time, blowing candles and cutting cakes to make wishes, receiving birthday gifts from her children for the first time, accepting the joyful prostrations and red envelopes of 13 grandchildren for the first time, and distributing red envelopes to 10 grandchildren (currently 14) for the first time...

Li Yan Late at night during the Spring Festival in 2022