I'm an older leftover woman, 38 years old, yesterday I was on a blind date with a man who earns $2 million a year, we felt like we could talk, I went to the bathroom once in the middle of the meal, waiting for me to come back

I'm an older leftover woman, 38 years old, yesterday I was dating a man with an annual income of 2 million, we felt quite talkative, I went to the bathroom once in the middle of the meal, and when I came back he was already paying the bill and suddenly said that we were not suitable. I asked him why, but I didn't expect that what he said next made me stunned and incomprehensible...

My name is Bingbing, 38 years old this year, in the eyes of everyone, I am an old leftover girl at this age. My job is to be an executive at a company with an annual salary of more than 300,000. I am still relatively satisfied with my appearance, and when I was studying at school, others called me a school flower. Although I am 38 years old, I am not in a hurry at all, because I can't see the shape of my face at all. Because my figure is still relatively well-proportioned, 1 meter 63 weight 92 pounds, usually basically a shawl hair, I can't see that I am almost 40 years old.

In fact, my current mentality of not looking for a boyfriend is influenced by my ex-boyfriend. From acquaintance to acquaintance to love, it took less than a month. When we were about to graduate from senior year, we both lived together, and the happy time was always very short, because we were in the south, he was from the north, his parents could not let him come to the south, and my parents did not want me to marry into the provinces. Such a beautiful relationship stranded.

I'm not in the mood to talk about boyfriends since we broke up. I think it doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend or not, it's good to live alone like this now, but my parents disagree, and take turns brainwashing in my ear every day, saying that you are almost 40 years old. No longer looking for a boyfriend is really an old girl. To be honest, I am very disgusted that adults always urge marriage, do I think women must get married? Do you have to have children? Will you be given a pension when you have a child? Now there are many elderly people living in nursing homes.

Parents every time I was angry to death, especially my mother for my marriage is really broken heart, usually avoid her nagging I do not go home, almost the New Year's day the company holiday has to go home, this is not just yesterday just arrived home, my mother told me, on the road met one of her old sisters, told me a blind date, told me to go to meet him at night. To tell the truth, I am particularly disgusted by blind dates, but seeing the white-haired old mother, I can no longer let them break their hearts, even if I don't like to meet once, but their wishes are still there.

Before going out, I didn't deliberately dress up, just casually combed my hair and put on a light makeup, wore a red trench coat and went out. I don't think I need makeup because I certainly don't have a fight with him. Besides, I am still very sure and confident in my own appearance. How else would it be called a school flower when you were a student? When I got to the restaurant, I walked directly toward the boy across from me. I knew in my heart that from the moment I entered the gate, his gaze had been wandering away from me, never leaving me.

I think he must have been very happy with my first impression. Sure enough, as soon as he sat down, he directly praised me, you look pretty. How to say it is that kind of faint beauty, and there is always a faint melancholy in the quiet. I liked this temperament, and then he asked me to order a few dishes that I liked, and I ordered a few dishes that I liked to eat, a bottle of red wine, plus a few desserts. The two of us had a great chat during the meal, and I found that I also developed a good feeling for him during the conversation.

He's really handsome, and I'm a good look. His looks conquered me first. Instantly left the ex-boyfriend behind. Halfway through the meal I suddenly went to the bathroom in a bit of a hurry, said hello to him and got up, and as I walked, I felt that his gaze had never left me. I think he must have been obsessed with me. Unexpectedly, when I came out of the bathroom, he was already paying the bill and closing the account.

At that time, I felt very confused, really puzzled, just so good how did it change in an instant? Besides, the dessert that has just been served has not yet begun to eat, so expensive things let it be wasted? I just wanted to ask him what was going on, but he suddenly said to me: Let's do it today, the two of us are not suitable, let's disperse. I looked at him in amazement. Trying to speak but being blocked by his words, he asked me, how old are you this year?

I said I'm 38, is that a problem? It turned out that my mother told him that I was only 30 years old this year. And suddenly he asked me another question. Say that you have lived with a man before, and seeing his inexplicable reversal, I am a little less afraid. I angrily scolded him: What age is it now, it is the twenty-first century. What's wrong with cohabitation? Cohabitation is not illegal, right? It's not a strange thing. I didn't expect that his next words would leave me stunned and incomprehensible. He was proud to analyze with me the reasons why we were inappropriate.

Although I have a good impression of you, I think that a man with an annual salary of 2 million can definitely find a better woman than you, why don't I go looking for a little girl? Girls younger than you are waiting in line for me in the back, why should I grab a second-hand goods, I must have been kicked by a donkey in the brain, right?

Two: But then again, even if I could accept you as an old girl who is almost 40 years old, I can't accept that you have had a boyfriend before, let alone that you have lived with him. You are not my dish at all, today is a waste of my time, after saying the angry departure, leaving me there stunned...

I really think it's ridiculous, I just want to ask how can there be such a strange man, is the two of us really not suitable? Is cohabitation before marriage really unpopular?

[Heart]: From the perspective of a bystander, it is indeed inappropriate for the two of you, perhaps the three views of your love are inconsistent, the two of you do not understand each other at all, only through blind dates, where can we talk about understanding? Both of you should find a like-minded person, marriage can be long-lasting, especially girls have many advantages, you have to let the other party feel your advantages first, the other party can accept you unconditionally, although the man's words are very blunt, a little hurtful, but it is indeed the truth, before marriage cohabitation There are many men can not accept, so women still have to be conservative, to know self-love, so that they can have enough dignity in marriage! #情感 #