#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method # Recently, Chinese skier Gu Ailing not only won the gold medal of the Winter Olympics, but also her high IQ and high emotional intelligence also shined, becoming the envy of other people's children. What has attracted more attention is her family education, especially her tiger mother Gu Yan.
Gu Yan is a senior student at Peking University, a master's degree in biology from Auburn University in the United States, and an MBA from Stanford University. More than 20 years ago, Gu Yan became the chairman of Beijing Oriental Weibo International Information Technology Co., Ltd., the first company in China to introduce a US venture capital mechanism.
There was once a tiger mother who was very similar to Gu Yan named Cai Mei'er (Picture 6), who was a doctor at Harvard University and a professor at Yale University. With her parenting experience, "Tiger Mother Battle Song" has sparked a worldwide debate about the way education is done in the East and the West.
But Gu Yan is different from Cai Mei'er, she combined the advantages of Sino-US education to cultivate Gu Ailing. Her education is important in two ways:
First, respect the child, cultivate her independence, and let the child make his own choices
The freestyle ski jump is a sport chosen by many boys, and Gu's mother did not choose it for Gu Ailing at first. But seeing that her daughter likes it, I respect her choice. In this competition, Gu Ailing was once behind, and Gu Ailing suggested choosing a stable action with a low difficulty coefficient, but Gu Ailing did not listen to her mother's words, chose a highly difficult and undoed action, and decided to let go. The decision was on the daughter,000, and as a result, Gu Ailing succeeded.
Second, always be your child's friend and high counselor, but will help your child make life planning
In Gu Ailing's growth path, Gu Yan is always caring, guiding and advising, but in the life plan of joining chinese nationality, Gu Yan, a master of venture capital, helps her daughter make the wisest choice. Leaving aside whether it is patriotic or not, avoiding the domestic competition of the United States is like a cloud of masters, and undoubtedly making a plan with a greater chance of winning. No wonder some people call Mother Gu Ailing's "wisdom brain.". And we should reflect on the problems that exist in the mainland's concept of education from Gu's education.
