A friend said that there are dozens of divorced couples in his small mountain village of nearly a thousand people, regardless of the authenticity of this, whether there is an exaggeration, but the divorce rate in today's society is getting higher and higher, this is a fact, no one will deny it.
Recently, I saw on the Internet that the civil affairs bureau of a certain place had just gone to work in a long line, all of which were going to divorce. Now young people regard marriage as a child's play, like a family, the man's marriage, the old and young have a lifetime of hard work and savings, and they say that they will leave.
Although advocating freedom of marriage, but marriage should not be a child's play, a village of nearly a thousand people, divorced there are dozens of pairs, indicating that this village is in the world, divorce will also be contagious, there is a kind of learning, with the first pair there is a second pair, the third pair, no longer ashamed of divorce, but will feel fashionable, which shows that the village has a problem of ideological concepts, is bad!
Now people have too much desire for money, materialization is too strong, everywhere for money as a condition, money and you, no money to divorce and re-find, can be described as poor couple Pepsi lament, especially some material women would rather sit in the BMW car crying, rather than sitting on the back of the bicycle laughing, listen to what values this is. A mountain looks over a mountain high, if you have such a mentality, can you live with peace of mind? Definitely not, if you have the opportunity, you will definitely climb another branch, and it is too easy to divorce now, so these people have no fear.
Now the lights are red and green, tempted more, both men and women, now chat platforms, dating platforms, easy to open a house, not husband and wife rent is also easy, which has caused infidelity empathy and love in an endless stream, which has become a common problem in the whole society, the sensitivity of both parties in marriage life to sexual life, is beyond imagination. Once mutual trust is lost in sexual life, the essence of marriage changes, which is human nature and nature, and thus leads to higher and higher divorce rates.
The traditional culture of the mainland advocates: ethics, morality, morality and morality are the development needs of human society, this is the real culture of human society, and in recent years, it has been influenced by Western foreign ideas and concepts, and its "sexual" openness and "desire" openness have seriously corroded the ideological concepts of the younger generation, making some people now forget the traditional ethical concepts of the older generation. There are thousands of reasons for divorce, but this is the main culprit of the rising divorce rate in society!
With the development of social economy, marriage is no longer for survival, nor is it a necessity, both men and women can make money through their own efforts and live decently, especially women can support themselves independently, do not have to rely on men and live, they awaken, from the stove to the society, the initiative has, but also equality and freedom, but the traditional old idea of male superiority and female inferiority still exists, which is the conflict between new concepts and old concepts, so it leads to a lot of contradictions. It is reported that 70% of divorce cases are now filed by women, which is proof of this.
Now the concept of marriage has changed, the concept of home has weakened, and young people's sense of responsibility and tolerance has become weaker. When marriage is free, divorce is voluntary, and more and more accepted by people, when feelings come to an end, divorce is their first choice, which is the decline of responsibility, the lack of it, and the result of the confusion of free thinking concepts. There are nearly a thousand people in a village, and there are dozens of divorced people, which seems to be a bit exaggerated, but it also shows from the side that people now treat marriage as a child's play, and there are more divorced than married, which is not a good phenomenon, you say yes? (The picture comes from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact the must delete). This article is original by Youtaobang, welcome to pay attention, take you along with long knowledge! Xiaobian throws bricks and leads jade, welcome everyone to express their opinions in the comment area, thank you!