One day in 1940, 20-year-old Zhang Ailing was taking a bath in the bathroom, when suddenly her mother broke in and checked her body inch by inch like crazy, and she did not expect Zhang Ailing to be hysterical

One day in 1940, 20-year-old Zhang Ailing was taking a bath in the bathroom, when suddenly her mother broke in and examined her body inch by inch like crazy, and she did not expect Zhang Ailing to shout hysterically: "What are you doing?" Get out! ”

Happy people are always similar, unfortunate people have their own misfortunes, Zhang Ailing once complained about her mother: "My mother has kissed so many men's chests, but she has never kissed my cheeks." ”

A complaint tells the lamentable mother-daughter relationship between Zhang Ailing and her mother, Huang Yifan, who was born into a famous family and was the granddaughter of Huang Yisheng, the admiral of the Seven Provinces of the Yangtze River in the late Qing Dynasty.

However, such a daughter-in-law in a former Qing mansion was deeply influenced by the May Fourth new wave, hated feudal etiquette, opposed foot binding, and when Zhang Ailing was 4 years old, she was angry and "ran away from home" to go abroad because she was not accustomed to her husband, drinking, and packing her second milk.

After the mother left, the father found a stepmother for Zhang Ailing's sister and brother - Sun Yongfan, the daughter of Beiyang Premier Sun Baoqi, and Sun Yongfan's arrival did not bring maternal love to Zhang Ailing's sister and brother.

Zhang Ailing once said that the days when Sun Yongfan married were hellish, and Sun Yongfan often instigated her father to beat her.

But four years later, her mother returned, Zhang Ailing wanted to go to her mother's place for two days, before leaving, she said a word to her father Zhang Zhiyi, Zhang Zhiyi was smoking a big cigarette and did not hear what Zhang Ailing said casually.

Zhang Ailing thought that Zhang Zhiyi heard clearly and went to Live in Huang Yifan for two days, and when she returned home, the whole family thought that she had been abducted by the bad guys, Sun Yongfan raised her hand to beat Zhang Ailing, Zhang Ailing instinctively used her hand to block Sun Yongfan's slap.

As a result, Sun Yongfan told Zhang Zhiyi that Zhang Ailing was going to beat her, crying and asking Zhang Zhiyi to teach Zhang Ailing, zhang Zhiyi did not carefully ask questions this time, and started to beat Zhang Ailing to half death

Zhang Ailing hated Zhang Zhiyi and Sun Yongfan because of this incident, and after half a year, she broke off relations with him and went to find Huang Yifan, although because Zhang Ailing's relationship with her mother was not very deep.

However, Zhang Ailing was still extremely dependent on her mother in the early stages, but for her mother, her daughter was more of a burden.

In the early days, the mother was very attentive to her daughter, and she cultivated Zhang Ailing as an aristocratic lady, and would let her learn to paint, play the piano and so on.

However, her mother herself has no income, she only relies on the wealth of her ancestors to squander her life, and usually travels around the world, plays cards and gambles, and no amount of money can support it.

After the outbreak of the war, prices soared, and her mother's life began to be tight, plus every month Zhang Ailing needed to ask her for money to study.

So the "dark" side of her mother began to slowly erupt, and Zhang Ailing slowly felt extreme pain, because every time she had to endure her mother's yin and yang strange tone and look, which was very painful for Zhang Ailing, who had gradually had her own thoughts.

This is also gradually sowing a seed that Zhang Ailing does not like Huang Yifan, for Zhang Ailing, she feels that her mother does not love herself, but loves money more.

Or to say that Huang Yifan herself does not have a mother's preparation and a reasonable way to educate her children, which is also reflected in an incident after Zhang Ailing became an adult, because of this matter, Zhang Ailing and Huang Yifan can be said to be a complete "face turn".

Zhang Ailing herself is smart, when she was studying at the University of Hong Kong, her life was overstretched, and the kind teacher Frans gave her 800 yuan in the name of scholarship.

She happily took it home to show her mother, full of thought that she would praise her, who knows, but Huang Yifan thought that her daughter had an affair with Teacher Frans.

When Zhang Ailing was taking a bath, suddenly her mother broke in and examined her body inch by inch like crazy, but she did not expect Zhang Ailing to shout hysterically: "What are you doing?" Get out! ”

From Huang Yifan's point of view, as a mother, she is very wary of the budding love of her adolescent daughter, and she may feel that no matter what means are used, no matter what means, she must suppress her daughter's dangerous good feelings for the opposite sex.

For Zhang Ailing, this is nothing more than a great shame, and since then, the little love for her mother has disappeared.

As for the 800 yuan, as soon as Huang Yifan turned around, he lost it at the card table. Along with the loss, there is also the already precarious mother-daughter relationship.

Zhang Ailing secretly vowed that in the future, she must return the money used by her mother to train her before, and later Zhang Ailing became famous overnight with her work "Love in the City", and her writing fees also increased day by day.

Finally she had savings, this day she took two gold bars and handed them to her mother, and said a lot of kind words, and her mother was not polite and directly accepted it.

After this time, Zhang Ailing rarely contacted her mother, as the saying goes: a happy childhood can cure a lifetime, and an unfortunate childhood needs a lifetime to heal.

And Zhang Ailing has not been able to heal herself in her life, her career is very successful, but the road to marriage is very bumpy, and what should have been a brilliant life ended in loneliness.

The famous Zhang Ailing met Hu Lancheng and felt as if it had taken her life's luck to meet him, but Hu Lancheng did not really love her.

On the occasion of leaving, Zhang Ailing gave him her own 300,000 yuan of manuscript fees without reservation, just like the love she gave, Hu Lancheng took the money to Japan to find his "paradise", Zhang Ailing was just a passer-by for him.

Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng completely broke up, and later met LaiYa, an American writer, Zhang Ailing and Lai Ya were thirty-six years old when they were married, Lai Ya was also more than sixty years old, and soon after marriage, Lai Ya suffered a stroke, and Zhang Ailing's life was extremely embarrassing.

In fact, there are nine times out of ten things that are not satisfactory in life, and many times we are powerless to change the status quo, only by being frank and looking down on some can we get by.

Just like Liu Xiaoqing, she has experienced so many ups and downs, but she still lives a dashing life, has experienced three marriages and still believes in love, and now at the age of 69, she is still insisting on exercising, which is really not simple.

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