I am 38 years old, yesterday I went out to Nanjing, and what I didn't expect was that I met my first love, and after that, she asked me to go to her house. When I entered the house, I was frightened by the natural environment of her life

I am 38 years old, yesterday I went out to Nanjing, and what I didn't expect was that I met my first love, and after that, she asked me to go to her house. When I entered the house, I was frightened by the natural environment of her life. She was originally the owner of a business. Why did you fall to this point? Later, I gave her money, but my wife found out...

My name is Xiao Tao. I am a rural person, since I grew up in a poor family, my parents spent all the savings in the family for me to study, now I am a little bit of a small achievement, my wife dream is a neighbor village, we have been married for 20 years. After graduating from college, I met Mengmeng in the process of working in the city, and that was it, of course, everyone became acquainted, gradually became lovers, and finally, we got married.

After getting married, everyone worked hard, through two years of hard work, I and my wife discussed whether to start a business or buy a house, and finally, we decided to open a business in Wuxi, since then, our business has been open for 8 years, and now we live a rich life

Once, my wife said to me: "Husband, my brother's life in his hometown is not very good, and he still needs to accompany the elderly at home, the elderly body is not very good, the burden of the younger brother is also very large, my father said he wants to open a shopping mall." That way, you can fill some living expenses at home and want to borrow 150,000 yuan from everyone. I only have one little brother. I, the sister of my own, have to help him anyway.

She said, "I'll give him some money, okay?" I understand that it is not easy to make money, but everyone can take 150,000 or take it, I have a good idea, we can ask the little brother to make an IOU, when there is money to return to everyone, that can also be a little pressure for him to work, so that he can earn money more diligently.

My wife is very measured, the brother-in-law is very good, at home has been doing car repair teachers, in the case of everyone just started their own business, he did not say anything immediately withdrew more than 30,000 yuan of money to everyone, therefore, I said to my wife: the brother-in-law tends to be stable and concentrate on doing one thing is a good thing, his life will become better and better, in fact, this money is not for me to care at all, but people, or to give some work pressure.

As a result, my wife said that I am a person with a very big overall concept, in fact, my wife is a virtuous wife, she has helped me a lot in the case of my own business, has been silently supporting me behind me, yesterday, the brother-in-law brought some native products back, communicated with me a lot of business methods, in fact, the most important thing to do business is honesty and trustworthiness.

I took my brother-in-law on a tour of my business, and then went to the city to buy some tonics for my mother-in-law. Before I went home, my wife told my brother-in-law that she must be diligent.

After the brother-in-law left, a customer in Nanjing asked me to talk about a deal, I went out in Nanjing, we talked about trading at the dinner table, after the talk, the customers said they want to send me, I said, no need, you are busy first.

When I came to the restaurant gate, I found a boy crying at the restaurant gate. She said she couldn't find her mother. So I went with the little boy to find his mother. To my surprise, the mother of the child, my first love, Shen Hong.

She was my college classmate and my first love, and we were in love at that time. We worked together after graduating from college and got married not long after. As everyone knows, her parents don't like me very much.

Since I was from the countryside and my job wasn't very good, everyone had to break up.

After separating for a while, I think that the road of life is boring, and after a long time, I understand that she has long been married to a business boss in Suzhou, let her clean the enterprise herself, I thought she managed very well, which is why I chose to start my own business.

But I didn't expect people to meet in this way. She looked very old. I could tell that her life wasn't very good.

Shen Hong told me that she now works in this hotel. This boy was her child. She usually brought him to work with her, usually forbade him to go out and mess around, and today, when she was still at work, she couldn't imagine that he would run out on his own, she searched all the restaurants, and the unexpected thing was that the children were with me.

She happened to be out of work, I asked where she lived, I sent you, she said that living in the suburbs is a bit far away, the boys said they had to transfer a few buses to get into the house, Shen Hong had no choice, only got into my car.

She lived in an old residential area in the suburbs, and when she entered the house, the children were already asleep. I helped her carry the little one up. As soon as I walked in the door, I was scared silly. It wasn't like a home at all, there wasn't a better home, she said it was the old room where her husband had been.

Seeing her life now, I was very uncomfortable, and she said heartbrokenly: Initially, my relatives and friends said that I was very happy and married to a boss. After that, the business went bankrupt, and the house was sold to pay back. After that, my husband had advanced liver cancer, and he died not long after, and now only everyone's mother and daughter are left.

I said I had other things to do, so I left first, and I took out a card and said to her, "The card has more than 100,000 yuan." Although this kind of money can not make you start again, it can make your mother and daughter's life stronger, she refused, I said, this is also the classmates to help you, I firmly believe that everything will be fine, I gave her the card, I left.

After I returned home, I suddenly received a short message, I looked, it was Sent to me by Shen Hong, she said: Thank you for your 100,000 yuan, the result, was seen by my wife, I said that I have nothing to do with her, only classmates help each other, but my wife does not trust me, therefore, at night, she slept in a separate room with me.

I'm sad, isn't it right to help others? Or am I doing it my way wrong?

@ Qingtong Heart I think it is okay to help others, but it can't help people who hurt their lovers, even if they help, they must tell her clearly in time to not make her uncomfortable.

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