The ninth day of the first month of the first month is the big day of my second marriage, before the marriage I discussed with my ex-mother-in-law, took her to get married together, who expected that the wedding just ended, she actually repented, determined to leave. I rushed up and hugged my ex-mother-in-law's heart-rending heart-rending heart and lungs, crying out in pain, unwilling to let go of her hand for a long time.
I am 32 years old, my mother died of illness when I was 5 years old, and my father remarried a year later. The viciousness and arbitrariness of my stepmother became a psychological shadow that I would never forget all my life. I didn't want to share my miserable upbringing with others until I went to work as an accountant in a company after graduating from college and escaped from the family that caused me pain.
I got married 7 years ago, my husband is a Language teacher, tall and handsome, gentle personality, is a super warm man. The in-laws are all retired cadres of the organs, low-key and easy-going, and they have always been very harmonious with their in-laws after marriage.
Usually, no matter what housework, my husband and in-laws rush to do it, but I want to intervene but I never have the opportunity. When I was in my mother's house, my stepmother's difficulties and insults, and in the in-laws' family, their family spoiled me like a little princess, and my in-laws regarded me as my own daughter, and my girlfriends were envious of me.
In the first year of marriage, I wanted to take the exam as an accountant, and I got the support of my husband and in-laws, and I discussed with them not to have children for the time being. But it was this decision of mine that made me regret it all my life, and later I was full of self-blame and guilt in the face of my in-laws.
I never imagined that a nightmare was coming, a disaster that would devastate me and bring my happy life to an abrupt end.
In the fall of 2015, my husband rode an electric car to school when he was hit by a large truck that was going backwards. After a week in the intensive care unit, unfortunately he was gone. I hugged his cold corpse and passed out crying.
When I am awake, I do not speak, do not eat or drink, just cry, and no one can persuade me. I was immersed in the past, and every bit of it was his good. Such a good man will definitely not be touched for the rest of my life, so how willing I am to let go.
The father-in-law originally had high blood pressure, and after learning this unfortunate news, the sudden cerebral hemorrhage also left. The top pillar of the family is gone, and the mother-in-law cannot withstand such a huge blow, and she is also admitted to the hospital. At that time, I felt that the sky was about to fall, and this warm and happy home said that there would be no more.
I was alone with the help of my neighbors, handling the aftermath of two people, when I was desperate to cry at home, I really wanted to go with my husband, but I couldn't still be my mother-in-law lying in the hospital.
My mother-in-law's illness healed, I took her back from the hospital, I hugged my mother-in-law and cried and said: Before you were my mother-in-law, from today on you are my mother-in-law, I will definitely take good care of your son's old age. She sat down on the ground crying and collapsing.
Five years have passed like this, I just want to take good care of my mother-in-law, and I have no idea of remarrying, and my mother-in-law has persuaded me many times, but I am still indifferent.
Last summer my mother-in-law said to me: Girl! I know you don't want to abandon me, but I can't always drag you down! I felt guilty, and I could live a few more years as a 75-year-old woman. If you're not going to get married yet, I'll run away from home right away.
Last winter, my mother-in-law entrusted someone to help me introduce a second-married man, and I heard that this man's wife died of cancer, and during his wife's illness, he not only took good care of her, but also borrowed money to treat her, which sounded a little respectful and touching.
The first time we met, I felt that this man was particularly kind and sincere, and I directly told him that I could not care about your material conditions when I got married. But my only request is that I have to take my mother-in-law with me when I get married, and you must be kind to her in the future.
But the man in front of me was very willing to accept, as a second-married woman, it is also a blessing for me to meet such a kind and generous man.
On the ninth day of the first month of the first month, I got married with my mother-in-law, but on that day, my husband's sister said to me sneeringly: You see that there is a marriage and a former mother-in-law, is this called buy one get one free?
My temper suddenly came up and I was ready to go over, but my ex-mother-in-law stopped me, saying that she was going as my mother's family. My former mother-in-law also prepared a dowry for me, with a bank card of 400,000 yuan and a gold ring.
When the former mother-in-law took it out, relatives and friends were dumbfounded, and after the wedding, the former mother-in-law said to me: Girl! I am relieved that you are married, I hope you will live happily in the future, and I still have to go back to my hometown to live.
My husband also came up and said, "Mom, this is your home!" Later, we will teach you, don't you go?
Our husband and wife persuaded for half a day, and my ex-mother-in-law still disagreed, and I knew that she did not want to disturb our new life. But she is a 76-year-old man, what is the matter with who can take care of her! #Emotion#
I finally couldn't beat my ex-mother-in-law, looking at her fading back, my heart was broken, and I cried a lot... (Netizen)
It is said that the most difficult thing in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in this complex relationship, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often make chickens and dogs jump because of small things that are chickens and dogs. If you want to live in harmony between the two require tolerance, tolerance, understanding and generosity, this way of getting along is also an extreme practice.
In this article, the husband unfortunately passed away, and the daughter-in-law waited by her mother-in-law's side for 5 years to take care of her. But the mother-in-law is not willing to drag the daughter-in-law to take the initiative to find a partner for her, so that the daughter-in-law can start a new life, the daughter-in-law is afraid that after she gets married, she leaves the family and has no one to take care of, and takes the initiative to take the mother-in-law out of marriage, but the mother-in-law finally chooses to leave.
Although the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law live in different eras, different living environments, and different living habits, they love the same person. The so-called mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is only a by-product of their own marriage, there is no direct interest relationship, but there is mutual restraint. If the mother-in-law treats the daughter-in-law as a daughter and the daughter-in-law treats the mother-in-law as a mother, is this relationship still so difficult to get along with?
Summary: As long as the heart is full of selflessness and great love, what kind of relationship to get along is not necessarily difficult.
