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On the fourth day of the Chinese New Year, early in the morning, my uncle called me and said, "You hurry up and talk about your aunt, she and her daughter-in-law quarreled again, I can't hold back, you come over to help me persuade him."

author:People on the road

On the fourth day of the Chinese New Year, early in the morning, my uncle called me and said, "You hurry up and talk about your aunt, she and her daughter-in-law have quarreled again, I can't hold back, you come over to help me persuade them." "My sister-in-law has diabetes and was hospitalized four times last year. The daughter-in-law is not a fuel-saving lamp, the person is tall and tall, and she will never admit to doing things and talking.

At that time, four or five years ago, my brother also graduated from college and went to work in a factory in the south, and after a year of work, he felt that the factory was not suitable for him to "show his grand plan", and then went to his parents' construction site to work.

His parents were working on the construction site at the time, and of course he couldn't find a suitable job on the construction site, so he helped small workers on the construction site. Later, when it was time to speak of his daughter-in-law, his parents went around entrusting people in the village to tell him about his daughter-in-law.

About 100 blind dates, most of the situation is that people do not want him, in fact, I also introduced him to a white-skinned and beautiful female college student, and as a result, people ignored him for half a day. The female classmate said to me, "Who are you going to introduce me to?" I'm not a channel with him. "That means that just after half a day of talking, people can't get along with him, and indeed my brother can't speak."

In this way, I met his current daughter-in-law, when people wanted a bride price of 450,000, in 2015, 450,000 which family could take out so much cash? At that time, I also lent him 50,000 yuan to marry his daughter-in-law, and then Bought things to set up a banquet, all of which cost 520,000 yuan. There is no way, people have eaten my brother, you don't give money and don't get married, and my brother is anxious to marry his daughter-in-law.

My brother's sister-in-law is still a "buy one get one free" type, what does it mean? Even marrying a daughter-in-law and having a child, but fortunately it is a girl, and everyone still likes it.

After the daughter-in-law marries home, she is like a baby, who cannot be beaten, scolded, and said. "Three no's", I went back to my mother's house at every turn. I have not been married for five or six years, and I heard that I returned to my mother's house on the first day of the New Year this year, because I was fighting with my mother-in-law.

What is it? Since it cost 520,000 yuan to get married before, their family only had 120,000 yuan, and all the other 400,000 were borrowed by relatives, neighbors and friends. Then my brother worked in other places, and he earned tens of thousands of yuan every year, plus my aunt had to take medicine for diabetes, in fact, he didn't have much money in a month. The money owed to others, the year of the monkey, Ma Yue has not yet paid it back.

My aunt quarreled with his daughter-in-law and said: "You look at you, just marry you to spend the dowry spent 450,000, we don't have your dowry in the whole township, when you come, you will not bring back a point, now the whole family is paying you back, the first day of the New Year, still go back to your mother's house." ”

"What happened to me going back to my mother's house?" I don't want to see you, sick of myself, and talk about others. A month to take medicine has spent hundreds of dollars, but also the head of the family, I want to use money, but also to apply, if not have children, I would have run to the south to work, I don't want to see you, is spent the bride price of 450,000, that is what you are willing. The sister-in-law crossed her hands at her waist, a fat body of flesh, and was lying across the center of the hall, her face full of disdain.

When I went to his house, both of them were still angry, I was thinking, it is someone's housework, in fact, I don't want to take care of it, but the old uncle called me over to give me face, then I will mediate, in fact, the most important thing is to pay back the 50,000 yuan I owe me, I don't want anything else.

Because I know that his daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family is 450,000, leaving 250,000, she brought 200,000 yuan, the 200,000 yuan is on the daughter-in-law's card, no one will give.

What is going on in the family, the 200,000 yuan does not move, and it is said that the child buys a house, which is nonsense. They don't pay back their debts to others, and then they keep their money in the bank and eat interest. Are you saying that the daughter-in-law here is a fuel-saving lamp?

So I said to my sister-in-law: "What quarrel do you have in the New Year's Day, on the first day of the New Year, you don't stay at your mother-in-law's house, go back to your mother's house, you are doing this wrong, you look at our customs, Chinese New Year's Eve, the first day of the New Year, which woman will be in the mother's house?" As long as there is an in-law's family, they are all in-laws' houses for the New Year. ”

"When I saw my mother-in-law, I was angry, and every day I went to other people to say bad things about me, saying how I was not good or bad, except that she took medicine every day. After the Spring Festival, I went out to work, and she took care of the children herself. The sister-in-law said.

I said, "It's right to go out and work, pay back your accounts, and strive to pay back my 50,000 yuan this year." Husband and wife are bent on profit and money, and when the Spring Festival is over, you all go out to work to pay off the debts. ”

I said to my aunt again: "In the future, I will pay less attention to the affairs of young people, talk about this and that every day, see what is good for you, you still have diabetes, last year you can get a stent, take care of yourself later, don't talk about other people's words." "My sister-in-law doesn't say a word.

"It is difficult for a clean official to break the housework." My aunt said that this year I put my 50,000 yuan, they worked to pay it back, the rest do not care, I mainly listen to this sentence, of course, do not want them to quarrel.

In fact, the current second-marriage family, the third-marriage family are quite a lot, we must learn to tolerate, like my uncle's family, this kind of spending 450,000 to marry a daughter-in-law, it is not easy, but also can not be used to him at any time, let her learn to tolerate and live. Of course, when the mother-in-law must also be less verbose, after all, it is different from the young people's ideas.

Most importantly, give me back my 50,000 yuan, and I am short of money. [Cover your face]

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