I think it's mostly luck. I am a poor man, and after countless tribulations and luck, I can barely get enough to eat and drink. I've looked at a few cases (smaller bases, possibly by chance), and many

I think it's mostly luck. I am a poor man, and after countless tribulations and luck, I can barely get enough to eat and drink.

I have investigated some cases (the base is small, there may be accidental factors), many children who could have gone to college, but because of some unexpected factors, missed the opportunity to go to college. For example, self-disease (leukemia, uremia), serious illness of both parents (lung cancer), bankruptcy of parents... Admittedly, it is true that some elites in a difficult situation can still turn over, but we are only talking about ordinary people here.

I live in a small mountain village, when I was a child, I was always with fireworks and firecrackers, and the average child needed to go to the workshop to help his parents when he was 3-5 years old, and he did the right thing directly at the age of 6. Some old people are lucky enough to take a charcoal stove (a small stove in the stool) to the workshop in the winter – I have seen it dozens of times.

From childhood to adulthood, every year there were workshop explosions in the town, severe, the whole family was destroyed, slight, unrecognizable. When I was a kid, there were always one or two kids in every class who had been blown up, and no one wanted to play with them.

However, in the dozen or so cases I have heard, none of them are caused by the elderly bringing charcoal fires...

It wasn't until later that there were too many casualties that the rectification began. A few years ago, my classmate's grandfather was bedridden, not to the extent of precariousness, and with a roar 2 kilometers away, he left.

Everyone is an ordinary person, if you encounter a similar mutation, what chance of turning the tables is left?

In addition to fireworks, we always drive mountains and quarries there, and some take shortcuts to gamble in border provinces, and have been evading debts and throwing children to relatives.

Originally, there were many relatives, and their children could not go to high school, and they could still manage the children of relatives to go to high school? Excellent grades may be a shortcut, but in our place, the teachers can't keep up, whether it's the level or the morality of the teachers - just like me, a child who is a non-committal person, is slapped several times a year by the teacher. Some teachers' knowledge reserves are ridiculously narrow, so outrageous that I don't want to say more.

On the first New Year's Day of high school, the director of teaching checked discipline, and when I caught anyone who was not disciplined, I was sitting at the door reading a book, and when the director of education came, someone snatched my book away, so I was slapped.

Someone cheated on the exam, the note was thrown at my feet, and the teacher came over and slapped me twice.

Because I was a junior high school day student, so my grades were average (the first day student in the whole grade), to the high school residential school, every exam had an improvement, only the kind that could not be retreated, so the classroom teacher reasonably suspected that I made a small copy.

In addition, I have been euphemistic (believe me, I am often euphemistic just a questioning look, there is a trainee teacher from the city who understands my eyes in seconds, checks the information when he goes back from class, apologizes and praises me the next day) to remind some teachers of their knowledge mistakes, so although some of my subjects are regarded as the hope of the whole class by the "folk", they are never too late, but it doesn't matter, the college entrance examination is hot!

Fortunately, I was optimistic and did not autize because of it.

Money is always stolen inexplicably, and the law of survival at that time was basically mutual theft (I did not ha ~). Less than a month after the start of my sophomore year of high school, I bought ten pieces of laundry soap, not to mention other supplies, and someone stole tm's underwear. Of course, there is a better way, that is, to wrap the soap in a clean plastic bag and put it in the suitcase, but I was too stupid to think of this operation at the time, plus there is cleanliness, and the source of the plastic bag is not as easy as it is now. This once affected my learning and mental health, I was already poor, and every three to five years, either the meal card was swiped, or the Xinhua dictionary was stolen.

At that time, many students were addicted to the Internet, Internet cafes all night, met netizens, dropped out of school to work, and some people fooled me to go, in fact, I really wanted to go (part-time), because of various reasons did not go. While my concentration is okay, it can also be said to be good luck and not being tempted enough (I am occasionally tempted and then make the wrong choice).

There are 3 girls in the village who gave birth to children at the age of 13, 15 and 18, and I sometimes wonder, I don't look attractive, plus I have not developed for a long time, and I have not opened up in that regard, which leads to the whole person being stupid and stupid, is it also luck?

At the same time, it wasn't too ugly, so I wasn't under much pressure. I still remember one time I met a few boys on the road with a fat girl, and after the boys greeted me, they laughed wildly, I don't know if others know the meaning of that smile, but I'm sure they were laughing at the size of my classmates, because this happened more than once.

In addition, when I went to graduate school later, I also had the blessing of luck, that is the last word.

But I did not go all out like my classmates in graduate school (although I also worked harder, I still had a lot of regrets, no more effort), the first contact with the life of the north, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, the first time I got relaxed, the first time I lived a life of initial food and clothing, I began to be a little happy, did not work overtime every day like others.

Although he woke up a few years later and began to work hard, he had missed the best opportunity to struggle. I think this is because no one (mainly the elders Ha) told me to take the opportunity to turn over, so I didn't turn over later.

A few years later, a junior failed the graduate school and wanted to transfer to my institution. I asked the teacher of the admissions office on WeChat, just had a quota, and asked him to quickly submit his resume, but he said that he had not eaten yet, and when he finished eating, the quota was enough.

This is more or less different from what I did back then.

I didn't get in that year, but in the absence of a penny, I borrowed money to interview (transfer), and the transfer institution was very good for me, and everyone was not optimistic about me, including myself. I was very angry at the time, I just wanted to see what a better place was like, how people there do things (the real idea may be sprayed, at that time I was actually a little less satisfied with the current circle).

Either way, I think luck accounts for a big part of the reason.

Does luck exist?

Heaven has given the poor patients (homozygotes) some room and space to turn over.

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