Last year, my daughter was admitted to the second middle school in Aksu Region and was assigned to the small tip class. Originally, the whole family was full of confidence in her, but after a semester, her daughter's performance was difficult to say...
It is said that children who enter high school should go to a higher level in terms of mental maturity, enthusiasm for learning, and learning ability, but the daughter seems to have done the opposite, and she feels that she is not as good as the third grade in all aspects.
A total of three exams were held last semester, the first time although there was no particularly excellent subject, but the good two passed; the second time was after the division of arts and sciences, her mathematics and chemistry were not passed; the third time, that is, the final exam of the previous year, chemistry barely passed 60, but mathematics still failed.
Several consecutive failures also greatly hit her self-confidence. What she often says is, "Compared to my classmates, I am a scumbag!" ″
I was heartbroken and I hurt her! You know, she was at the top of the junior high school and has always been in the top 6 of the class.
I feel that she is not learning in the right way and learning inefficiently. Obviously, the time spent on learning every day is very long, but the effect is not good.
In order to let her overtake in curves during the holidays, I reported online classes for her in numbers, things, and chemistry, and even in order to supervise her, I listened to classes and did homework with her.
To tell the truth, she is quite hard, in addition to eating, sleeping, almost all lying on the table to do problems, the whole holiday, rarely go out.
However, I don't know how much she can accept, but she is now studying the next semester's course every day.
Sometimes, looking at my daughter, who has said a lot less than before, my heart is very tormented. My husband and I are both college students twenty years ago, both have gone through a hot high school career, we want our children to put a lot of enthusiasm into learning; but the truth is that she seems to be a lot worse than we expected...
What to do? Is it to continue to "force" her learning, so that she is more depressed, or to go with the flow?
After my husband and I have thought it through, of course, we are forced to admit and accept reality, and even more so, we are reconciled with our children and ourselves. Let some time ago popular a view, "scum are here to repay the favor"! Children with poor learning are more likely to live with their parents when they grow up, while children who have achieved success in learning will have a wider world with a high probability!
Forget it, instead of torturing each other for learning, it is better to accept the mediocrity of children! In fact, if you put aside your academic performance, your daughter is still relatively well-behaved!
As for the study, I still went on as usual, but I told her: We can accept any results in the end, but I hope you can go all out without pressure, don't leave yourself regrets!
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