Men calling you "wife" does not necessarily love you, dare to call these 3 titles, is true love

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Since ancient times, the titles of their other half have been various, just like men in ancient times generally called their wives Jingren, chaff and niangzi.

Many times, from the name a person calls you, you can see the relationship between you and the distance between you.

The way a person calls you hides his love for you, representing how much he loves you.

A man calling you "wife" may not necessarily love you, but if he is used to shouting at you with these 3 titles, it means that he already loves you to the bone.

01

madam

Calling the wife too cheesy, calling the wife too official, calling the dear too greasy, calling the object too vain, it is better to take the surname, call you Mrs. Sheng, this is the romance that belongs to the reader.

Recently, I changed my first impression of a professor who teaches philosophy at a university.

Who would have thought that on the surface it looks like a serious "old antique", but behind the scenes:

Lady left, lady right, lady let how to do, mrs. not how to do, that mouth is always inseparable from the two words mrs.

I was fascinated by the class, interrupted by the sudden ringing of the mobile phone, and I was angry about who called at the critical moment, and when I saw that it was the lady, I immediately became smiling and squinting.

"Although the school rules that teachers are not allowed to call during class, but this is the lady's phone, sorry, I have to go out and pick it up."

The daily state is not "Madame made me a bento today, hey, you don't have it" or "It's cold, it's nice to be able to wrap around the scarf made by Madame!" ”

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In stark contrast is the now common "fast-food love".

Add weChat to each other, become a couple in a few days, start calling your wife, you think you have found true love, but what awaits you is to pin, cancel the top, delete the blackout. At this moment, "wife" is just a word he casually said, and the title of "wife" has long lost its original ritual and solemnity.

Men who like sweet talk like to use such a title to pull in the distance between the two people.

So use your heart to feel his love for you, don't lose your calm and sanity because of his "wife". He doesn't necessarily love you by calling you that.

02

wife

The Chinese dictionary explains the meaning of lover in this way:

Lover refers to the person you love, refers to the person who cares most about the hearts of both men and women, who can selflessly pay for it without asking the other party to reciprocate.

In the TV series "Parental Love", it can be said that this word is vividly expressed.

As an officer, Jiang Defu and the rich lady Anjie are simply a talented woman, a match made in heaven.

In the eyes of everyone, they are a natural couple, and under the introduction of the matchmaker, they fall in love and get married.

Some people say: The marriage of Jiang Defu and Anjie is the most beautiful look in love.

But Anjie and Jiang Defu's marriage can be said to be stumbling and going through many tribulations, but fortunately they love each other.

Feelings are long-term, and when faced with difficulties, they are willing to sacrifice themselves and grievance themselves for each other.

It can be seen from the salutations they call each other, and when they introduce themselves to others, they all call each other in this way.

"Hello, this is my lover, Jiang Defu."

"Hello, this is my lover, Anjie."

Lover, lover, you are the loveliest and the one I love the most.

In men's hearts, the title of lover is not easy to call people like this, they will only call people who share happiness and hardships with themselves, share the wind and rain, and decide to grow old slowly together.

Although the meaning of "lover" is the same as that of "wife", the lover is a special one compared to the wife, and it is more formal and thoughtful.

If a man calls you a lover, then you should secretly rejoice.

He's telling you that you're not just the one he's on the tip of his heart, you're the one he's going to be working with for the rest of his life.

03

Yakuza

Wang Tongyu's song Yatou is sung like this: My obedient bad, is a sweet wound in my heart, you are right, you are wrong, anyway, the rules are set by you.

The song reminds me of an interesting thing that happened before.

During the Spring Festival of 2015, my cousin drove me and my sister-in-law to visit relatives for the New Year, and on the way, he did not know where to take out two bags of candy and throw them in the back seat.

Said: "Boring on the road, for your two little girls prepared sweet candy" At that time, I was still wondering, I have a little girl on the car, where is the second little girl? My cousin looked at me with doubt and explained:

"Your sister-in-law is also a little girl, don't look at your sister-in-law is almost thirty, in fact, she still hasn't grown up, and she needs to buy her candy from time to time."

In my eyes, whether your sister-in-law is thirty or forty-five, by the age of one hundred, she is a little girl. ”

After saying that, my cousin and sister-in-law looked at each other and smiled.

Yeah, people who don't love you will turn you into crazy people, and people who love you will turn you into children.

The title of the itself carries a touch of pampering and at the same time a little bit of pity, in his heart, you are the stupid, who will never grow up and need his care.

He is willing to treat you like a child and take good care of you.

Men call you a, which means that you are weak, that you are petite, that you need him to protect you, and even more that you need him to take care of you.

Yatou has never been a simple, ordinary title, but a sweet, affectionate title. If you're called that, then steal the fun.

04

A title may be a few words, a trivial thing, but it is not easy to be willing to take the time to make a meaningful title that belongs to you.

Although some titles are ordinary, the person who calls them is attentive and from the heart, which is an expression of love.

In the relationship, the emotions that the man wants to express are reflected in the small details of his relationship with you.

So if a man calls out the above 3 titles to you, it means that he really loves you.

Life is short, fate is not easy, if you meet such a person, please cherish it!

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