There is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time.
In the age of confusion, adults will become "sandwich cookies". There are old and young, and they dare not get sick and dare not fall down, because once they fall, the whole family will collapse.
Therefore, adults are like Superman, in addition to going to work is to deal with all kinds of chores in the family. The biggest wish for adults is that the family is healthy!
When you are sick in your later years, who takes better care of the "daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law"?
As soon as you get older, your body begins to go downhill. When it is learned that his body is not useful, the old man is even more sad. Because this means that it has become a "drag oil bottle".
Not only can not help their children to take care of children, they have to take care of work and family at the same time, this kind of pain the elderly have experienced, they all want to help their children, less guilty.
In addition, you may also have the risk of accidents at any time. If the legs and feet are not bright, even if you walk normally, the risk of wrestling will rise sharply, let alone go out for a walk.
If you really encounter yourself lying in bed, you can only seek the help of your children. After all, the elderly take care of the children and grow up, and the children have the obligation to provide for the elderly.
But if the old man has both a daughter and a daughter-in-law, should he ask the daughter-in-law to help or the daughter-in-law to help? After all, girls are more suitable for taking care of people than boys.
100% of the elderly will prefer a girlfriend
Don't say that the old man is sick, that is, when the old man is physically tough, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an age-old problem, and no one can handle it perfectly. The mother-in-law is afraid of provoking the daughter-in-law to be angry, and she will hide far away, let alone when she is sick.
Therefore, even if the daughter-in-law is closer to herself, the old man will still prefer the daughter. Because there is a blood relationship, smashing the bones and connecting the tendons, when you are angry, you can immediately reconcile as before. But after all, the daughter-in-law is a person with a foreign surname, and it is not as close as her own family.
Daughter-in-law will be more attentive than daughter-in-law
As for the degree of caregiving, the daughter-in-law's performance will definitely be better than that of the daughter-in-law. Because the girl will be pampered and proud, taking care of good or bad, parents can not be picky, even if it is not well taken care of, parents have to endure.
But the daughter-in-law is different, the daughter-in-law is afraid that after she can't take care of herself, there will be a gap between them. Although people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, the daughter-in-law will look at her husband's face and be more attentive.
The obligation to care for the elderly should not have been so clearly demarcated
Girls, daughters-in-law, when they learn that the elderly need to be taken care of, they will immediately lend a helping hand. After all, feelings are exchanged, you are good to your daughter-in-law, and when you need to take care of it, your daughter-in-law will not be ambiguous.
It's just that there is mustard in the old man's heart. I feel that if I make my daughter-in-law feel unbearable in my heart, and if I say it too deeply, I will be rejected. Instead, it became creepy. But the best solution is to cooperate well. Whoever has the time will take care of it.
It's like a daughter-in-law who usually goes to work, so she just goes to work to take care of it. My daughter has time on the weekend, so she comes to take care of it on the weekend. There is no need to push the work of caring for the elderly to one person.
After all, everyone feels tired sometimes, just let a person take a big package, it is inevitable that there will be complaints in the heart. Everyone cooperates with each other, which is the best portrayal of everyone's profit and loss.
Parents take care of the elderly and lead by example in educating their children
Parents are more practical than talking on paper
Children are the shadow of their parents, and when the elderly are sick, the appearance of parents busy in front of the bed will be deeply engraved in the child's mind. Let the children realize that their parents are very filial.
When your parents are old, you must take care of your parents like your parents take care of the elderly. But if the parents do not support the elderly, the child will become very indifferent.
Such behavior can also become the capital for demanding children in the future, after all, what they do not want to do to others. If you want others to treat you, you can treat others in the same way.
Traditional virtues need to be passed on
After going to school, there will be content in the textbook that promotes traditional virtues, and there are countless classic stories about filial piety, such as lying on the ice to seek carp, using the body to warm the quilt...
These are theoretical knowledge, and children can internalize their own spiritual cognition, and we must not yet. But if parents teach by example, the situation will be very different.
Filial piety comes first, and if a person is not filial piety, any good quality will not stand. What's more, if even his own parents didn't care, how could others dare to have a deeper relationship with him?
Today's Topic:
How is your relationship with your mother-in-law? If your mother-in-law is sick, will you take care of her? Will it be taken care of without complaint or will it not be taken care of at all?