The bride price is a thing that many people will experience, and it is also a problem that is more commonly talked about, in the eyes of some people, the bride price is a must, after all, this is a custom and a face, and some people will feel that as long as two people get along, it does not matter if you do not want the bride price.
Although the bride price is a polarization problem, it is mainly based on the negotiation of two people, you are willing to want, others must be willing to give, others are willing to give, you have to be willing to do, and the one who is willing to meet each other is the best.
There is a shortage of a hostess in the grain and oil store
Wang Jingxin, 51 years old, divorced, annual income of about 100,000 yuan, housing situation is 150 square meters, in fact, Wang brother is opened for more than ten years of grain and oil stores, he does not have his own house in the city, now living is also rented small two-story storefront, the first floor is used to put grain, the second floor is the place to live.
To say that the sale of Brother Wang is still good, this is not a few days ago the goods are almost sold out, which is back on the full room of goods, the scale is quite OK, talking, a customer to open the mouth to ask for 50 bags of rice, which has to be said to be really refreshed knowledge.
I used to hear that buying vegetables in the north is a big bag of buying, buying less will be beaten, did not expect to buy rice is also dozens of bags of hoarding, this is really the old iron slippery ah, after a period of busy work, Brother Wang only opened his mouth, he said that his family is also in the countryside to live by farming, and later for his son to move to the city to open this grain and oil store.
It turned out that Brother Wang was smarter when he was a child, but he didn't like to study well, he always skipped class, and later found that his son was also very smart, considering that the education in the city was better than in the village, so he moved to the city to let his son have a good education, and then slowly he also opened this grain and oil store.
Nowadays, the business of the grain and oil store is getting better and better, the son also has his own career, Brother Wang has relaxed a lot, he feels that there is a boss lady in the store, because he guards the shop by himself, he can't do anything, if there is a boss lady guarding in the store, get rid of the rent of 40,000 a year, the net income is not a problem, he himself drives to various villages to sell grain, and the income will increase a lot.
The reason why he had this idea was also because Brother Wang once drove to the countryside once, and he sold more than a hundred bags of grain in one day, and in his opinion, this business can also be done.
In order to be busy with business over the years, Brother Wang did not have any special interests, did not smoke or drink, but liked to listen to love songs, you want to ask him why he likes to listen to love songs? That's not because he has been hurt by love, young does not understand the meaning of the song, old is already in the song, he feels that many of the lyrics are writing himself.
It turned out that Brother Wang had two failed marriages, the first paragraph was that the ex-wife met with netizens, so after the collapse of the agreement to divorce, and then Brother Wang also met an object on the Internet, the second marriage also continued to start, but unfortunately the good times are not long, may be the other party's pampering habits, always love to play a small temper, just a few months ago, Brother Wang and the second marriage also completely said goodbye.
During this time, Brother Wang also wanted to understand a lot, he felt that people are at this age, must live happily every day, so he contacted the red lady to introduce him to a like-minded object, and spent the rest of his life in peace.
For the requirements for mate selection, Brother Wang also has clear standards, the age can be one or two years younger, you can also be one or two years older, but you must be cheerful, a little temperament, can help him do business, two people are happy, don't always be angry on the line.
Knowing the requirements of Brother Wang's mate selection, The Red Lady introduced Duan Fengzhen, who temporarily worked in Changchun, 48 years old, divorced, no housing, in short, nothing.
The eldest sister is an honest person
Duan dajie is generally looking for a job in a domestic agency, mainly engaged in cooking for some units with only five or six people, and when she finds a job, she lives in the place of work, and if she does not find it, she will temporarily live in the group rental house provided by the housekeeping company, if there is really no place to live, she will go back to the mother's house in Jiutai to live for a period of time.
This is not the eldest sister some time ago the body is not very comfortable, so I rested for a while, and now that I am in good health, I came to the housekeeping company again, the purpose is to meet a suitable job.
Duan Dajie said that she especially longed for a sweet relationship, because in the past marriage, she had never been treated well.
It turned out that Duan Dajie was a caesarean section that year, and after the end, she was a little cold in terms of physiology, and at that time she also jokingly told her husband that no, you can't go outside to find it, which once thought that her husband really went.
However, although Sister Duan is sad in her heart, but considering that it is her own reasons, she will also turn a blind eye and maintain her life with her husband, mainly because her husband is still taking care of the family, and every time she finishes pulling the calf with others, she will come back, otherwise she will not continue to live with her husband.
I thought that this physiological problem would never get better, but I didn't expect that it would be naturally good later, but the husband's heart could not come back, running out all day, and ignoring the family, the most important thing was to always pick the problems of Duan Sister, considering that the child was still young, Duan Sister also endured this already broken marriage.
Until 2018, when the child grew up, Duan Dajie divorced her husband, she thought about not wanting anything, a light body is also very good, but after several years of wandering, Duan Dajie found that she did not have a root, her heart has long been tired, so she wants to find a partner for herself to marry.
Looking for the other half's requirements, Duan Dajie also knows that her conditions are not good, so she does not require the man to have everything, as long as the character is good, the personality is good, the two people can get along with each other, and the second half of their lives will be on the line.
In this way, Red Niang felt that Sister Duan and Brother Wang were of the same age and had good personalities, so she introduced the two together, so could the two people rub out the spark of love? Then Red Niang took Sister Duan to Brother Wang's home for a blind date.
I'm afraid she's drifting
After the two sides met, Sister Duan's first impression of Brother Wang was quite good, bluntly saying that it was very good, and the people were good, but where was the good? Duan Dajie is a little shy and does not know how to express it, it is not difficult to see that Duan Dajie is a good family woman.
And Brother Wang's first impression of Sister Duan is also good, looks quite charitable, has an eye rim, can continue to talk about it, and then he took Sister Duan to visit his home, for a time Brother Wang also came to occupational diseases, and even began to introduce the varieties of grain, which made the red bride too anxious.
At the moment the red lady also gave an assist, people Wang big brother will do business, a year to get rid of the rent can also earn a hundred and eighty thousand, this is not the lack of a boss lady to guard the store, after the end of his own he went out to run to make some money, may do it, this is a big money and small money are earned, if you are looking for a deal, you are also doing it yourself, after all, it is to work for yourself.
After visiting Brother Wang's home, and hearing the red lady say so, Duan Sister recognized Brother Wang more, she frankly said that it was very good, it can be seen that Brother Wang has a business mind, for Brother Wang does not have a house in the city, Sister Duan also does not care at all, living here is also very good, as long as people are good.
After taking the seat, Brother Wang truthfully informed his marital status, two marriages, the second paragraph was divorced not long ago, at this time Duan Sister was a little worried, she did not want to find a family but also to find a second, since she was looking for the kind that could finish her life, she was older and did not want to toss back and forth.
In fact, the failure of marriage, two people are problematic, it is impossible to be a person's problem, Duan Sister's concerns are also understandable, the current red lady also persuaded Duan Sister, Brother Wang actually does not want this, if people can get by, they will not divorce, so in this regard, everyone understands each other.
Listening to the words of the red bride, Duan Dajie also felt that it made sense, and then she also talked about her marital status, divorced for more than 3 years, anyway, now divorced from her ex-husband, I don't know his situation, I have never been in touch, as if he is still with the previous woman.
In this regard, Brother Wang did not mind the marital status of Duan Dajie, he was also quite satisfied with Duan Dajie, frankly said that he could see that Duan Dajie's personality should also be quite good, and he could continue to go down everywhere, he also gave Duan Dajie 80 points, and the remaining 20 points were slightly shorter.
This almost didn't choke the red lady, Big Brother Wang, you are not tall, you hate people for being short? The two of you stand together and match ah, are so old, tall and short does not matter much.
At the moment, Brother Wang also recognized the words of the red bride, we do not give her a full score is afraid of her pride, so old and do not want children, height is not important, the main two people can get together on the line.
In this way, the atmosphere of the blind date is relatively mild, there is no dispute at all, at this time the eldest sister remembered one thing, that is, since she found it, that is, to get a license, if you can get along well, when will you get a license?
Brother Wang also agrees with Sister Duan's point of view, as long as you can get along well, it must be licensed, do not get a license to count which door, but there must be a process of getting along, can not be hurried to get a certificate, after a month or two is not suitable and divided, it will be troublesome, if two people are suitable, you can get a license at any time.
Duan Dajie learned that Brother Wang had the meaning of receiving a license, she also put her mind at ease, since she talked about this piece, Elder Brother Wang also asked Duan Dajie the question of whether to give a bride price, Duan Dajie did not think about it and answered, no, there is no such idea, but if you want to give, do not give it.
Listening to Big Brother Wang is simply happy to blossom, the heart also has the bottom, the reason to ask this question, Brother Wang is also afraid of like other old ladies on TV, open mouth to 200,000, that is how scary, in the eyes of Brother Wang, he can not accept the bride price, the two people together money are put in a piece of flowers, what to do with the bride price.
Now that I have received a reply from Duan Dajie, Brother Wang's favorability towards Duan Dajie has risen, bluntly saying that he can now give Duan Dajie 95 points, and the difference of 5 points is to reserve some leeway, I am afraid to give her full score she floated.
In this way, both sides have no problems, but also satisfied with each other, blind date will naturally succeed, as for how to develop in the future, it will take two people to run in, but afterwards Brother Wang also invited Duan Sister to dinner, he also learned that others sent Duan Sister a bouquet of flowers to play a romantic, this Duan Sister is also touched no, presumably both are sincere to live, should not be worse.
It's just that such feelings always feel that something is wrong, one seems to be for not wanting to drift to have a home, one seems to have no idle emotional life, in short, it is to take what you need, maybe life is like this, a hundred people, a hundred things, creating a variety of life.
What do you think of this blind date? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions and give different voices, thank you.