"Monogamy" first appeared in ancient Egypt and Europe. Our country has been in practice since 1912 and was formally established on May 1, 1950.
The phrase "we have lived together" often appears in film and television dramas or spoof programs, and most of them are people's jokes with some irony.
No one wants to have a "third person" to intervene in their marriage in various ways, but in real life, it is difficult to escape the accident, there is such a special family that has caused great controversy, women live with their former husbands and current husbands, and can get along well, how do they do it?
With her ex-husband can also remarry, what is the charm of this mother?
The heroine of the story, Zhou Yuying, is an ordinary woman, and in the early years, she married and had a baby step by step, and lived a very happy life.
Husband Mr. Liu works as a carpenter to support the family, all the money earned is handed over to the family, Zhou Yuying is only responsible for taking the baby with peace of mind, although there is no great wealth, but this sense of solidity and security also makes Zhou Yuying very satisfied.
However, not long after the stable life, the 5th year after the marriage of the two, the husband fell from more than ten meters away at work, and his life was saved, but his legs were unconscious, and even sitting was a problem. The top pillar of the family fell, Zhou Yuying thought for a long time, and after crying, she resolutely decided to support the family alone.
It is very hard to take care of husbands and daughters, to go to the fields to do farm work, and to be busy alone. Husband Mr. Liu could not bear to see the young Zhou Yuying dragged down by himself like this, persuaded her to remarry, and deliberately angered Zhou Yuying and wanted to drive her away, but Zhou Yuying never thought of giving up.
Zhou Yuying is busy day after day, not knowing that the next period of happiness has quietly come to her side, her diligence, conscience and feelings for her husband are looked at by xiao Zhao, a foreigner, and the idea of marrying her home is born.
Zhou Yuying did not take it seriously at first, after all, his own situation was there, and he did not think that anyone would want him, but Xiao Zhao proved with practical actions that he could accept all of Zhou Yuying.
Three people have lived under the same roof for 16 years, and now what?
Mr. Liu learned that his wife can take another step forward, although he did not give up but did not stop, in order to let his wife and Xiao Zhao change their names and be together, Mr. Liu also took the initiative to propose a divorce, let Zhou Yuying and Xiao Zhao get a marriage license, and then the three of them officially started a new life.
"Don't be ashamed", "That person is a liar", "Definitely not long", even Mr. Liu himself feels that Xiao Zhao will not live long. This particular family was questioned too much from the beginning, and no one expected these 3 people to spend 16 years.
16 years later, appearing in front of the screen again, Zhou Yuying is no longer young, Mr. Liu has white hair, xiao Zhao's eyes also climb wrinkles, the only constant is that they are still very happy.
The rumors still exist over the years, but they don't have much impact on them. Zhou Yuying said that as long as the outside world does not think about it, it is better, and he has the responsibility to take care of his eldest brother (Mr. Liu).
Not only did they get along well, but they also worked hard for years to get into a new house. Today's happy life is indispensable to the three people to tolerate and help each other, and everyone has made an effort.
The happiness of three people is not easy, and it is done and cherished
Marriage is not easy, and it is even more difficult to live happily after remarriage. There are many people who remarry, but there are very few families who live with their ex-husbands and current husbands after marriage.
From the beginning of some absurd practices, to now live happily for 16 years. Through all kinds of gossip, everyone also saw true love and responsibility in them.
Watching his wife remarry and take the initiative to give up his position, Lao Liu's love is to let go and complete; he does not care about Zhou Yuying's past, wholeheartedly good to her, Xiao Zhao's love is acceptance and tolerance; and Zhou Yuying can still insist on taking care of her ex-husband for many years in the face of gossip, and it is not easy to maintain the current home.
Although this model of family does not need to be encouraged and learned, it does not have to be maliciously slandered and broken up. Xiao Zhao and Zhou Yuying are now a legal couple, and the two men can get along like brothers, and perhaps for the three of them, this is the best ending.
Remarriage is not a child's play, and the mother should not give up on herself with her baby
Remarriage with a husband is after all a minority, and there are too many women remarried with children. Anyone who has experienced a failed marriage wants to be better, but while they are happy, they must also consider their children.
1) With children can not be settled
Some people once said that divorced women with children were not wanted, which once led to women losing their hearts, thinking that it was okay to find a similar person for the second marriage, and they lowered their requirements. But if you think about it, it is precisely because of the children that the second marriage cannot be settled.
It is not that the stepfather must be allowed to spend how much money to spend on the child, but only when the restructured family is good and the conditions are not so bad, women have the energy and conditions to protect the child.
2) Accept reality: It is difficult for stepfathers and stepmothers to see themselves as if they were their own
Tu Lei once said in the show that it is difficult for the stepmother and stepfather to do it, and they can't respect each other as if they were their own.
The reality is that a person can be very gentle and generous, but it is difficult for both men and women to face children who are not related to themselves, and it is difficult to truly regard children as their own. Being good to your child is a basic requirement, but don't expect too much.
3) Remarry and have a baby Don't ignore the big treasure
For children, half-siblings are completely different from their own siblings.
Many people have another child after their second marriage, so the role of stepfather and stepmother inevitably has some bias towards their own children and other people's children.
If you consider having another child after marriage, don't ignore the big treasure around you, otherwise he will be like an outsider in this new family, with no sense of belonging and no sense of security.
Sugar Mother's heart words:
There are many beautiful love poems, but the happiest one is the hand of the son, and the son grows old. Husbands and wives are still the original match, but remarriage can also be happy until old age.
【Today's Topic】How do you see the lives of these three people?