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Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

On April 1, Hao Shaowen officially announced the good news of the successful marriage proposal on April Fool's Day.

Seeing the child star who "grew up together" get married, many netizens sent their blessings, and at the same time could not help but be curious about the identity of their fiancée.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

Although Hao Shaowen stressed that he was just an "ordinary person who is trying to live", netizens still couldn't help but "break the casserole and ask the end" and constantly ask "who is it".

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

Soon there were media reports that Hao Shaowen's fiancée was named "Lin Ningrui", although she was 2 years younger than Hao Shaowen, but she already had a 7-year-old daughter and was a single mother.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

And for this "stepdaughter", I can feel that Hao Shaowen is a love from the heart.

A few days ago, the spring light was just right, Hao Shaowen took his fiancée, 7-year-old stepdaughter, and a cute puppy, and the whole family was distracted by the spring tour, and everyone's face was full of happy smiles.

Watching the family photo, the interaction between Hao Shaowen and his stepdaughter is the most eye-catching, he and his fiancée are closely snuggled together, and the little girl lies directly in Hao Shaowen's arms, intimate with each other, you can see her infinite trust in her stepfather.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

On the little girl's 7th birthday, Hao Shaowen also solemnly held a birthday party for her, as a stepfather to welcome and take good care of, when the little girl felt shy, she would also cling to the edge of Hao Shaowen's shirt and rely on it very much.

I have to say that although Hao Shaowen has no previous experience in marriage, he can be called a "model stepfather" and has no reservations about the love of his stepdaughter.

In real life, after the breakdown of parents' marriages, many children will be greatly hurt, and when parents establish a new family again, it is easy to act resistant.

As the "stepfather" of the child, how to integrate into the child's life and create a better family environment for him is of great importance.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

The breakdown of the marriage hurts the baby greatly, and the performance of the "stepfather" is crucial

I remember seeing someone asking a question on a certain hu before: "How much does a parental divorce hurt the child?" ”

Some netizens replied that they were not confident when they grew up, inferiority complex and sensitive and fragile, and some netizens answered that they envied those who had good original families and a sunny and cheerful grin, and more netizens said that "there are many tears, but most of the time they hide from crying, hold back their cries, and dare not cry."

Indeed, when parents divorce, the most innocent are the children, and the ones who are hurt the most are often the children.

But just like Hao Shaowen, if you can meet a good "stepfather", it is tantamount to a redemption for the child.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

For example, the famous "Emperor of Shadows" Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing, before he was with him, had a marriage with Yu Chengqing and gave birth to a son.

And Qin Hao regards his son as his own, never skimps on his care, and has expressed his love for his children in public many times, and now the two are in a sweet marriage, Yi Nengjing has given birth to a daughter, and the family is harmonious and happy.

Another example is Fan Ming, the "Xing Catching Head" in "The Tale of Wulin", who is also a famous "model stepfather" in the entertainment industry, whose wife is 6 years older than him, and who has had a failed marriage before, with a son.

Later, with the consent of the stepson, the couple gave birth to a lovely daughter, Fan Ming treated the two children equally, and the stepson was influenced by Fan Ming and grew up to be very good, and when he grew up, he chose to join the army and become a soldier.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

How to reorganize the family, how to reduce the harm to the baby?

First of all, stepfathers and stepmothers should respect and understand their children.

For some children who are less adaptable and have deep feelings for their biological parents, it is easy to feel resistant to the "stepfather and stepmother" who reorganize the family.

Even some of the more extreme children may think that the marriage of their biological parents broke down because of their stepfather and stepmother.

When reorganizing the family, the stepfather and stepmother should respect the child enough not to force the other person to change his mouth and force him to integrate into the new life, but also to fulfill the responsibility of parenthood and use love and companionship to make each other closer.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

Secondly, the creation of a family environment is also very important.

Children in single-parent families are sensitive and place more emphasis on the marital relationship of their parents than ordinary children.

Therefore, in the new family, parents should create a harmonious and warm family environment for their children, give their children a sense of security to the greatest extent, and a harmonious and stable family relationship is the basis for the healthy growth of children.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

Finally, parents should not interfere with a child's connection with their biological parents.

After rebuilding the family, some parents are eager to delete the "files" of the ex-husband's ex-wife, and the new spouse is also secretive about this, refusing to let the child contact the biological parents again.

In fact, for the child, the blood relationship between the biological parents can never be broken, and forcibly severing his connection with the biological parents can easily bring disastrous results, which will not only have a profound impact on the cultivation of his personality, but also may turn against the parents and children and go astray from then on.

Hao Shaowen and his second wife, Chunyou, interacted with his stepdaughter brightly, and the "model stepfather" could not be wrong

epilogue:

The breakdown of the marriage of the biological parents is very harmful to the child, and the performance of the "stepfather and stepmother" largely determines the future happiness of the child.

Finally, I hope that every parent can manage their own marriage, and single parents "polish their eyes" when looking for a new spouse to give their children a good environment for growth.

Today's topic: What do you think of Hao Shaowen's choice?

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