Men and women are inherently different,
But they are equal.
Only the two partners stand in the right place,
will find that sense of balance.
Without balance, there is no good partnership.
01
Why look for a partner?
Why should a man look for a woman and why should a woman look for a man?
Because they are not complete, even though they are an individual in their own right.
The word "man" only makes sense when thinking about "woman"; Similarly, the word "woman" only makes sense when thinking about "men."
When two people come together and enter a relationship, what does a man have to know about a woman?
Men need to recognize:
Women are another part of him,
Make him a complete part;
And women have to be in men,
Also recognize this:
The other person made her more complete.
Only when a woman recognizes that a man is a man and acknowledges that he is as he is, can she recognize herself in a man;
When a man recognizes that a woman is a woman and acknowledges that she is as she is, he can recognize himself in a woman.
In the end, two people will become one on a higher level and be happy.
02
True love is mutual approval of each other
As they are
So what does love between a man and a woman mean?
They appreciate each other and agree with each other as they are.
Men and women are completely different. When I approve of another person as he is, when I vibrate into love for him, when this approval comes from the mind to the soul, he will feel the vibration of this approval and respond to it with his vibration.
When he enters into the same vibration as I am, I will incorporate within him as he is, the difference between him and me, and I will gain abundance in this approval.
Here, we can explore what "growth" is.
Growth means:
I take something new into it,
These new things became part of me.
In this way, I grew.
And in this way, through my acceptance of the other person as he is, I have also grown in the relationship.
When I accepted him in this way, he became a part of me, and I became a part of him.
03
The order of men and women
Men and women are not the same, but they are completely equal.
When both partners acknowledge this, their love has a greater chance.
In the interaction of partners, if one party has the same behavior as the parents, or as the child submits and depends, it will lead to a crisis in the partnership.
If one partner, in order to satisfy his or her own need for belonging, looks for a way to get along like a child to his parents, then the order of the partnership will be disturbed.
Eventually, people who bear too much anticipation will back off and leave.
For example, a wife says to her husband:
"If you leave, I'll kill myself." Without you, life would have no meaning to me anymore. ”
Then this man will definitely leave and this partnership will definitely fail.
Because no one can bear this burden.
If one of the partners,
Think that you have to educate each other,
Let the other party meet all their own requirements,
This is what he learned from his parents.
Then in the other person's mind, the safest way,
It's about getting rid of this person.
04
Giving and receiving in a partnership
There is an exchange in every partnership:
One person gives, one person receives;
The receiver gives again, and the giver receives again.
In a good partnership, one partner gives a little more than he just got, and the other accepts and gives just as much more than he himself just got.
As this continues, good interactions increase.
When one of them wants to find an independence and thinks that the other may not be the right person, then he will become less receptive and give less.
That way he can retain his freedom, a freedom to change partners.
If in a relationship,
A man's mind is not yet mature,
Not yet completed growth,
And the other person has to pay for it,
Then the relationship cannot be balanced.
Without balance there is no partnership,
It's an iron law.
The same applies to the case of a person who marries out of pity for the other person, and the poor person will leave because he cannot balance giving and receiving.
In a partnership,
Everyone can only give to each other,
Something that can be accepted and rewarded.
Give the other person what they really want,
And only give so much that the other party can accept,
This is an important quality.
05
When sexual relationships are built on respect for each other
It's only going to work
The premise of a happy partnership is a sexual relationship.
For a partnership, this is decisive. Through sexual relations, there will be a special bond between men and women that cannot be unraveled in a deep sense.
Only sexual fulfillment will make men and women a couple, and only it will make a couple become parents.
When sexual fulfillment is affected, such as because the man or woman has been sterilized before the relationship, then there is no special bond, even if both partners are willing to have it.
If the sexual relationship is successful,
Then this is a unique and special achievement.
Without any human achievements,
More in tune with the order and abundance of life than this,
Sex makes us more comprehensive,
Take responsibility for the whole world.
In a sexual relationship, everyone in the partner can be hurt the most. It can only succeed if the sexual relationship is built on respect for each other.
When the balance of giving and receiving is achieved, the partnership can be perfect.
In a partnership, the most important balance between giving and receiving is the realization of sex.
In the realization of sex, everyone gives and everyone accepts at the same time.
If one person wants to take it in the realization of sex and the other person desperately gives, then the partnership is already in danger in the bud.
Two people must ask and give equally.
The one who takes is in a lower position, because he shows the lack of people, the small;
And the person who gives is in a higher position, then he shows that he is a giver, a big one.
But then the partnership is basically over.
That said, two people want to make sure they have a good balance:
Both people must admit that they are lacking, and both people must admit that they can give their partner something special.
This is the fulfillment of a true love.
06
Men should learn to respect their wives in their fathers
Women should learn to respect their husbands in their mothers
A woman who thinks she is better than her own mother, a woman who does not approve of respecting her mother, has no respect for men.
She doesn't understand men and basically doesn't need men.
How a girl has the ability to be a woman,
And can you respect and have another man?
When she recognizes her place in the family,
It was when I was younger than my mother.
Of course, this also applies to men:
A man who does not respect his father and thinks that he is a better man than his father to his mother, then he has no respect for women.
How a boy has the ability to be a man,
And can you respect and have another woman?
When he recognizes his place in the family,
It was when I was younger than my father.
That is to say, men must learn to respect their wives in their fathers, and women must learn to respect their husbands in their mothers.
What happens when a good son of a mom marries a good daughter of a dad?
A good son of a mother is untrustworthy for a wife, and a good daughter of a father is also untrustworthy for a husband.
They have little respect for each other.
When there is a relationship between a good daughter of a mother and a good son of a father, they have a chance.
If the husband has a place among the men and the wife has a place among the women, when they meet, they are no longer teenagers, but men and women.
It's powerful.
successful partnerships,
Must come from a real man,
And a real woman,
They must first,
Arrange the order in your original family.
Man respects his father,
The woman respected her mother.
Women respect themselves and fully respect that the other person is a man who needs what she needs and can bring "integrity" to herself.
Men respect themselves, and fully respect that the other person is a woman who needs what he needs and can bring "integrity" to himself.
In this way, our partnership will be long-lasting, happy, and bring wonderful nourishment to both parties.
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