Text: Flower blossom tide
Xiao Wu's annual salary is very high, almost 300,000 yuan in hand, it is reasonable to say that the life between him and his wife should be very harmonious, but Xiao Wu does not dare to tell his wife his true income, the fundamental reason is that he is afraid that his wife will use all her savings on her family. But until the eve of the brother-in-law's marriage, a phone call from his wife completely made Xiao Wu tear up and regret not being the beginning.
Xiao Wu's concern is not unreasonable, the wife is the eldest in the mother's family, there are two younger brothers behind her, when marrying his wife, all the dowry taken out by the Xiao Wu family is withheld by the wife's mother's family, as a down payment for the wife's eldest brother's wedding room.
In this regard, Xiao Wu naturally did not have any words of rebuttal, but as a wife, she did not even question half a sentence because of this decision of her parents, but instead accepted it with a tacit attitude.
From that moment on, Xiao Wu began to be wary of his wife in his heart. After all, in that environment at that time, women blindly subsidized their mother's family after marriage, regardless of their husbands' feelings. So for so many years, no matter how high Xiao Wu's income is, he has been hiding something from his wife, and the salary given to his wife is always a fixed amount that cannot be moved, and the rest, Xiao Wu has specially deposited into a card.
And the wife, for so many years, has never had any doubts about her husband, and she often asks whether her husband's usual pocket money is enough.
Later, the wife's second brother also reached the age when he should get married, and on the eve of the marriage, the wife made a special phone call to Xiao Wu, and carefully discussed the matter of the gift to Xiao Wu.
Because Xiao Wu was still in the field at that time, he really couldn't get out, and naturally he couldn't rush home in time, and the content of his wife's phone call completely changed Xiao Wu's understanding of his wife for many years.
The meaning of the wife probably means that she knew that because of the bride price at that time, Xiao Wu had a very bad impression of her mother's family, and at that time, when she heard that her parents wanted to leave the bride price as a down payment for her brother's house, she was also very angry, but in that environment at that time, her wife had no way to change her parents' thinking. Therefore, she can only choose to remain silent.
After getting married, the wife tried everything to follow Xiao Wu's heart, and rarely had too much involvement with her mother's family, but her wife always felt that Xiao Wu's heart always had a little estrangement from herself, thinking that she always thought of her mother's family.
When Xiao Wu heard this, he carefully recalled the bits and pieces that his wife had done to himself for so many years, and then suddenly realized that he had been blinded by that incident, turned a blind eye to his wife's efforts for so many years, and even so childishly thought that his wife was toward her mother's family.
Of course, the purpose of the wife's call to Xiao Wu is naturally more than this, mainly for the sake of xiao Wu's brother-in-law's marriage, how much gift money should his family take, and his wife's meaning, all of which are decided by Xiao Wu.
When Xiao Wu heard this, he burst into tears in an instant, it turned out that what he thought his wife was facing his mother's family was just his own thought, but in fact, his wife's heart was all on himself.
Immediately, Xiao Wu decided to return home immediately and see his wife. He wants to report his annual salary to his wife again, and then everything is handed over to her for safekeeping, for his wife, Xiao Wu is remorseful at the beginning, why was his vision so short-sighted at that time, so long, the wife must have been under a lot of pressure, as for how much gift money the brother-in-law has to pay for marriage, all this is all up to the wife to decide.
Conclusion: Xiao Wu has always thought that his wife is towards her mother's family, so even if his annual income is very high, he is still hiding from his wife, and finally if it were not for the fact that his brother-in-law was going to get married, his wife and Xiao Wu said this, maybe Xiao Wu's view of his wife would continue forever.
It is precisely because of his wife's words that Xiao Wu completely woke up: it turned out that his wife's heart had always been on himself. Xiao Wu was very ashamed, and regretted not being at the beginning, but it is conceivable that for so many years, his wife has been carrying a lot of pressure alone.
In fact, there is no obstacle between husband and wife, after all, two people can be regarded as a real family, have the experience of the cottage, we should understand that when couples encounter misunderstandings and misunderstandings, they should find ways to actively solve, perhaps, what you see, and the actual situation, is very inconsistent.