Text: Flower blossom tide
Dowry and dowry have been an eternal topic since ancient times, and whenever there is a talk of marriage, these two things will certainly be mentioned.
However, there are thousands of people, and some people have a relatively indifferent attitude towards the dowry, not asking for an amount, but hoping that they can live a stable and happy life in the future.
Wei Wei resolutely did not ask for any dowry from the in-laws when getting married, even if it was opposed by her parents, but Wei Wei still insisted on herself, since marrying into the in-laws, the mother-in-law was like a daughter to Wei Wei from beginning to end, and Wei Wei often sighed: The original persistence and choice were correct.
When Wei Wei was very young, he heard a lot of beautiful marriages about the bride price and talked about collapse, in Wei Wei's hometown, because the thinking there is relatively old, every time there is a daughter in the village, he will open his mouth to the man's family to make various requests, and the bride price is only one of them.
Later, as She went out to study, her thoughts were no longer confined to the land of the family, and she knew that although the dowry and the dowry were inextricably linked to marriage, these two things were only derivatives of marriage, and as long as they loved each other deeply, these could be left behind.
After graduating from Weiwei, she met a boy at work, and the two also spent a period of time together, showing each other their love for each other, and thus making a commitment to spend their lives together.
In Weiwei's best years, it was spent hand in hand with him, and for him, in Weiwei's heart, he had already identified the other party.
The end of love is never a beautiful dissipation, but a shift to another way. After the two felt that the time was ripe, they met each other's parents.
However, I didn't expect that when I saw my parents, everything that I was worried about had happened after all.
In the face of the high dowry proposed by her parents, the boyfriend fell into a long silence, as a slight, she naturally clearly understands the family situation of the boyfriend's family, and this dowry, let the boyfriend's family situation, is really difficult to achieve.
More importantly, yu Weiwei said, she rejected the bride price from the bottom of her heart, and finally Made a decision, she ignored the opposition of her parents, insisted on not wanting the bride price of her boyfriend's family, on the wedding day, her parents even ignored Wei Wei and ignored it, and the whole time she was indifferent.
After marrying Wei Wei, her husband's career did not improve at that time, and everything in the family was taken care of by the mother-in-law.
And the mother-in-law is very touched by her original actions, after marrying over, she treats Wei Wei as if she were her own, just like a daughter-in-law, sometimes Wei Wei and her husband have some contradictions, the mother-in-law will only reprimand her son, and will also comfort Wei Wei, do not have an insight with her son.
It is precisely because of the mother-in-law's deep understanding of righteousness, so many years, Weiwei has never had any contradictions with her mother-in-law, on the contrary, the surrounding families, because the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has caused a big person who cannot be separated from the family, weiwei can't help but feel fortunate that she has met a good mother-in-law.
Of course, as a micro, she naturally knows why her mother-in-law treats herself so kindly, and the reason has a lot to do with her original insistence on not wanting the bride price.
Until later, the husband's career has improved, Weiwei's life situation has improved greatly, in the face of his own parents, Weiwei is ashamed of himself, after all, they give birth to themselves and raise themselves, it is not easy.
The husband naturally also understands Wei Wei's thoughts, and he often advises Wei Wei that there is nothing to do with going to his mother's house for a walk and visiting the second elder more. The mother-in-law also holds a favorable opinion on this.
Looking at her husband and understanding mother-in-law who loved her so much, she couldn't help but be a little moved, and she was already satisfied to be able to marry such a family in this life.
Conclusion: The bride price is a derivative of marriage, in fact, there is no bride price, and whether the husband and wife are happy after marriage is not too much to do with it, and Wei Wei is precisely because she knows this, so she insists on not having a bride price from the in-laws, and the mother-in-law also thinks of Wei Wei's goodness, treating Wei Wei as if she were her own daughter-in-law, and Wei Wei is also very fortunate that her insistence and choice were correct.