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Probably in real life, many male friends have given their girlfriends or wives a nice and special exclusive name, which is a very common thing in the process of interpersonal communication, especially for those male friends who are in a state of love in their feelings.
When they give their girlfriend an exclusive title, the mouth is sweet as if it is smeared with honey, and even can say that the sugar content is completely sweeter than honey, what sweet to no call, anyway, is a variety of ambiguous and crooked to no call endlessly, all kinds of sweet words and honey waves, completely can not stop.
But once the two of you have passed the period of hot love, after the freshness and enthusiasm have basically completely passed, the treatment is not good to say that it gives people the feeling of suddenly sunset. So I have always felt that if your other half can still maintain an ambiguous or sweet title as before after the enthusiasm and freshness have passed, then it can definitely be regarded as a man who really loves you, and in today's society, this kind of man is also very rare, and it must be cherished when encountered.
In fact, in the relationship, two people from the two love to fall in love, until the final relationship between the two sides can also blossom and bear fruit, girls can put on a beautiful wedding dress, boys can wear handsome suits, two people can work together to enter the palace of marriage.
As long as the relationship between two people changes, then the title between men and women will naturally have a corresponding change, although the title between men and women seems to be a very small thing, but it can reflect a lot of things, especially for lovers in the process of interpersonal communication, or partners who have entered marriage. If the two of you can often use some more loving titles between you, it will make the relationship between the two of you go further, and the two hearts will be closer.
In the end, how high is the temperature of a relationship between men and women, whether the relationship between two people is good or not, it can be seen from the male title of the woman, in general, men call their own women have these nine names, see which one you are?
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Type 1: First name or title with the other half's surname
Maybe in real life, some men are ashamed to express their feelings for their other half, or feel embarrassed about some too sweet and greasy titles, and will directly call their own women's names. There is also a kind of, that is, it is possible that the husband and wife get along with each other, and the feelings between each other are like guests, and it may be that for them, calling each other's names is already a very shy thing.
But there are also some male friends who are more possessive in their feelings, and when they are outside or at home, they often give their other half their surnames, such as surname Zhang, and they will call their women Mrs. Zhang or Mrs. Zhang. A title like this with the other half's surname also sounds very sweet and loving.
Type 2: The other person's nickname or superposition
We all know that a person's nickname, or a nickname that is not known to outsiders, can only be known if we have known each other for a long time or because the relationship between two people is relatively close. Therefore, men can call their women nicknames or overlapping words, which shows that the relationship between the two people is very close and the feelings are very deep.
Although seriously, most of our nicknames or breast names are not very good, and some of the titles are still funny, it may be because our parents, grandparents and other elders believe that children have a low name to support, so many people's nicknames or nicknames are such as "fat man", "two dogs", "fat girl" and so on.
Even if their nicknames or nicknames are not so good, but in private, lovers or lovers call each other, laugh and play with each other, and feel really quite loving, full of love.
Type 3: Daughter-in-law
I know a friend Xu Ge from the northeast, every time we have dinner, when listening to Xu Ge talk about his wife, he always bites a "daughter-in-law". It can be seen that the title of "daughter-in-law" is mostly found in our northern region, especially our friends in the northeast region.
According to online information, the word "daughter-in-law" appeared very late, before the Song Dynasty, it was generally written as "shi woman", referring to a married woman, China's first dictionary "Erya" once explained that "the wife of the son is a wife", is to "shi woman" is to refer to the wife of the son, and the Northern Song Dynasty Zhang Shi is in the "Zhi Yi Zhi Sun Hanlin" there is written "is to summon the son of the woman to cross the line, cloud: the old woman said that when the Japanese Lang Jun wants to feast and drink in the woman's room, he blames him for his nonsense, even if he goes out." ”
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Type 4: Honey
In feelings, the title "dear" is often applied to small couples or lovers who are in love in ordinary daily life, as well as between newlyweds who have just married, or even if two people have been married for many years, but the feelings are really good and good.
And there is no restriction on the title of "dear", whether it is a male friend who uses to call his other half, or a female friend who uses to call his other half, there is no sense of violation. There may be some people with more direct personalities who will think that such a title is more fleshy, and more seriously, it is a little disgusting, but imagine if two people have a good relationship and call each other "dear", so that it does not seem that the relationship between them is extraordinary, and to outsiders, they will also be very envious of your loving feelings.
Type 5: Mrs
The title of "Mrs." naturally corresponds to the title of "Mr.", which is mostly used in southern cities or between literati and inkers, especially in our Republic of China period, the title of "Mrs." is very popular, in fact, the title of "Mrs." also has its own historical origin. It is said that it is 3 women from the founding of the Zhou Dynasty, because their names all have the word "tai", so the word wife is derived.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", there was such a description, a young lady came and laughed: "Mrs. Said, please ask Aunt Lin to sit over there." "You see, the title of 'mrs.' doesn't it sound like a different status, the style is very high, and it also has a taste of talent. It is said that the title of "wife" was in ancient times, but the wife of a high-ranking official and noble person who has reached the age of thirty can be worthy of the title.
Type 6: Wife
Regarding the title of "wife", compared to the previous titles of dear, wife, etc., it sounds a bit official, and it is also a bit written, usually men talk about their wives outside, or talk about their other half.
Because in daily life, if men also use "wife" to call their wives, it sounds a little strange, and it will make people feel as if the relationship is a little distant.
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Type 7: Home
For the title of "family", most of them are common in our rural or small urban areas, and some elderly people also like to call their other half. After all, the elders of the previous generation are not so open-minded compared with our generation, and they are still shy, embarrassed, and more afraid of being said or ridiculed by other people around them when they call their other half.
But even for couples or lovers who are in love, walking closer on the street, acting more tired and crooked will also be talked about, do not care too much about other people's opinions, you can like it, like the title of "home", there is a feeling of mastering the power of the family, in fact, it sounds very loving and warm.
Type 8: Baby
To know the two words "baby", the dictionary above explains that it is "rare" things, is used to describe very valuable, very precious things, so use the title of "baby" to call their other half, is used to describe people who are very precious to themselves, generally applicable to couples during the love period, if men dare to use the title of "baby" to call their own women, then needless to say, men must be very important to women, occupy a very important position in men's hearts.
Type 9: Wife
In fact, for the title of "wife", it should be the most popular and most common title for men to their wives in our marriage, and the title of "wife" represents a symbol of responsibility, after all, the title of wife corresponds to "husband", and the title of wife plus husband means that a new family relationship has been established.
That is to say, if men do not really regard each other as their other half, as their own people, presumably they will not call each other so. To put it bluntly, what person can be called "wife", "wife" is nothing more than a partner who accompanies men for a lifetime, a man dares to call a woman his "wife", which is enough to show that men really love women, and they also have women in their hearts, and even in their hearts, they identify women, and they identify women as their partners who want to walk together in this life.
I remember that there is a Western proverb: "Happy wife happy life" translates to mean: "Wife is happy, life is comfortable." ”
All in all, the above several male friends to the female friends of the title, for our daily life of the most common 9 kinds of salutations, in fact, in the feelings, for a pair of lovers, "salutation" is not only a simple title, but also represents a kind of emotional sustenance, that is to say, the feelings of men and women are good or not, from the salutations between men and women can be seen, let's see if these titles have you?
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