Are your children sure they want their parents to bring it?

This is a photo taken on the subway, and the positive image is not because it involves privacy, after all, no one wants their appearance to be casually posted on the Internet. Briefly, what happened, a great uncle took his grandson, and as a result, the child could not control it at all, all kinds of restlessness, and wandered around. Some of the people around them were expressionless and somewhat displeased. The great uncle, too, felt embarrassed, spanking his grandson's ass, pulling his hair, and even lifting it up and pressing it in the corner. We are going to talk about the problem of the elderly with the children.

Now many young people are really under pressure, all kinds of mortgages and car loans to repay, you have to go out to work, which leads to the matter of taking a baby has become a problem that plagues many people. Some old people just let her take her and don't want to take her, even if this baby is her own grandson, I believe that this is not a minority. Others call the elderly to take turns taking care of them. There are also some more absolute, directly get the baby to the hometown, their own small two monthly money in the past and nothing else. Thinking of waiting for the situation on their side to be better and then get a little bigger, there are not a few people who do this.

In life, I believe that you have seen many elderly people with children, and even their own elderly people are also carrying babies. It is indeed a good thing that the old people and the old people can enjoy the happiness of the world, but there are also many problems. Say some of the most intuitive phenomena. For example, I have seen the phenomenon of the old man crossing the road with his grandson, and many times, but the young man has done this less, at least I have not seen it; there is a very exaggerated dress of the big mother with her grandson, I look at the result of the grandson suddenly fell from five or six steps, and a large bag was immediately erected on the forehead, and the result was that the big mother's approach made people stunned, and the baby was so painful that she couldn't cry out, and the big mother used to slap her ass a few times, and I thought that if his mother knew such a thing, he couldn't say that the big mother tossed it around There are also many lost babies, which are also brought by the elderly. Am I criticizing the elderly? No, just talking about phenomena.

The disadvantages of the old man with the baby are only immediately able to see, and there is no seeing, until a few years later to reflect the growth of the baby. Is there anything wrong with this? There are big problems.

Let's talk about the last one, out of his sight and directly to his hometown by his grandparents. Some people will retort that there is something wrong with this, I am that they brought up now is not very good. What you are very good is that you think it is very good, not really very good, and sun Zhuo, who was abducted, still thinks that his adoptive parents are very good, but compared with his biological parents, he is directly scum, and the growth environment is not comparable at all. The times are different, the previous children were full and clothed warm is the first priority, raising white and fat is very good, but take the white fat fat, really good? Some children are particularly small but have frighteningly high fatty livers.

And their education is also a simple education, it is difficult to adapt to this era. In the past, my classmates did not go to junior high school new concept English four books are well memorized, and many of us go to junior high school or even high school to know what new concept English is like. What was the result, that is, his English score was one or two points away from the perfect score at a time. The completion of the new concept book four is the level of level six, and you say that it is not a piece of cake to cope with the exam of level four. Not to mention the quality education aspect, directly throwing away eighteen streets. Where the grandparents understand this, even if they can understand, but the hometown also lacks that cost environment. Some people will say that I just let him enjoy his childhood and grow up freely. What are you talking about? One step can not keep up with the step can not keep up, and a series of problems that arise in later life are inextricably linked to this. There is no problem with happy education, but the average person can't hold it. Healthy growth under the concept of happiness education, and later achievements, this kind of happiness education is completely different from the happiness education you understand. At every important node, someone has made the right guidance for the child, and the happiness education of ordinary people can only grow barbarically, and the results are naturally self-evident.

More importantly, it's about your future relationship and his own state of physical and mental health. Children who grow up with their parents and children who grow up with their grandparents grow up very differently, whether it is good or bad, everyone has their own opinions. Speaking of the last point, the child tries not to be out of his sight for a long time.