Parents pay attention to these 11 details of their children, and their children will become more and more excellent!

Sending a child to school is just about educating the child in school. If parents pay too little attention to their children's life and learning habits, it will lead to some problems in the process of children's growth in time.

The following 11 points, I hope that parents can see and take measures. In this way, the child will get better and better!

1

Writing and pen holding posture

If you have certain life experience, you will realize that writing a good hand is a very valuable skill.

It is the responsibility of every parent to let children write well. If you're young and don't know how to educate your children, start at this point.

Please remember that there are so many students in a class, the teacher does not have the energy to correct the wrong pen holding posture one by one, and does not have the energy to motivate every child to practice.

2

The clash of the rebellious period

When your child reaches the fourth or fifth grade, he dares to talk back with you - this is what you have not done a good job of discipline education and have made your children accustomed.

Remember, you have to treat your child's shortcomings, especially the principle of not giving in. For example, if you can't finish your homework, you can't sleep; if you turn off the computer, you are not allowed to play games.

Please remember that from the age of five or six, if you are reluctant to say "no" to your children, when you are in your 10s, you dare not say "no" to your children. Don't complain that your child is disobedient, you buried hidden dangers when your child is a few years old.

Please also remember that the teacher cannot control the heavy rebellious psychology. Students are often afraid of the teacher, but the child is not afraid of you because you have not made rules for children to respect and fear.

3

Interest in reading

The interest in reading began when he was a child, and when he was two or three years old, children should read books. At this time, whether the child loves to read or not is directly related to the performance of the parents. There are more books in the family, and more children read.

There is no book at home, children do not like to read, parents do not give their children the habit of loving to read, how can children love to read? From the time I can remember, the child has no impression of the parents reading, and the child can only imitate things other than reading.

Please remember not to try to cultivate your child's habit of reading through the teacher. Habits should be developed by parents. When parents set an example, children will follow their parents' example.

If you are busy with your livelihood and have no time to study, then in the future, your children will have defects in knowledge, there will be differences in cognitive ability, and there will be inadequacies in writing articles in the future.

4

Happy education

If parents have always thought that their children go to school very hard, have always thought that foreign education is so good and excellent, foreign children have no homework, can be unrestrained, unless you send your children abroad now, or do not have this parenting concept, because you can not change China's education environment, your idea is ultimately harmful to the child.

Facts have proved that all parents who begin to pay attention to happy education will find that their children will become more and more disobedient, incompatible with the collective in the class, and the process of children's growth is the most painful; all children who have worked hard since childhood will have self-confidence and have a lot of happiness in the future.

Please remember that happy education is not something you as a parent can do. The child accepts your happy thoughts from an early age, but there is no like-minded peer in the big environment, no encouragement and praise from the teacher - because he is contrary to everyone, the teacher cannot praise him every day.

Well, such a person is not actually happy, he will become lonely, paranoid, rebellious, once you find these phenomena, then regret it.

5

Competitive spirit

If parents swear to ask their children to win a certain place and pay attention and price for their children's learning, then the gap between the child's performance and the parent's goal will be greater.

If you ask your child for similar grades, you can get a middle and upper reaches, then your child will not be in the top few.

Therefore, we parents must set a practical goal for our children, a goal that can be improved after hard work, and then encourage children to work hard. If the child's grades decline due to academic slackness, at this time, appropriate punishment and writing are feasible.

Please remember that the parents' morale is high, the child's morale is high, and this genetic temperament is not taught by the teacher. Teachers can't teach either.

6

About the net

For a child with Internet addiction, especially a boy, the process of forming Internet addiction is the process of parental dereliction of duty. Remember, when a child first has an internet addiction, the responsibility lies with the parents.

Parents are not alert to their children's behavior, and once the child slides into the abyss, what they bring to their parents is endless grief.

Remember, from the beginning of elementary school, children must control the Internet devices at home, and cannot use the Internet uncontrolledly. Once you accommodate him, you are feeding your child a mouthful of poison. Believe it or not, anyway, every student who is addicted to the Internet has a pair of negligent parents behind him.

Remember, when the school teacher takes over the management of your child, the child's habits have already taken shape. Don't expect the teacher to pay attention to your child's shortcomings, the teacher is at best in charge of your child on campus and in class. And many bad deeds like this occur outside the school.

7

Lifestyle habits

Parents love hygiene, and children love hygiene. Parents are helpful, and children are happy.

If you want your child to become a noble person, parents must not behave despicablely.

Please remember that the teacher teaches the child mostly textbook knowledge, outside the textbook, especially the living habits, the principle of life, etc., the parents are always every teacher of the child.

8

Face the reality and meet the test

Any parent who complains about the pressure of their children's homework will also feel that they have more academics and are tired of studying on their own. Anyone who tells children that learning can change their destiny, what is this pain in the wind and rain, such parents will educate children, will also be strong, become full of confidence in life.

Students all over the world, if they want to study well, are all the same tired. As parents, whether it is the boss, or the working class or ordinary people, they are working hard to earn a living.

Learning is far easier than hard work to make a living, so why should parents feel tired of their children? Do you want your child to reach middle age and work harder than you?

Please remember that the homework assigned by the teacher to the child is a grind for the child. Don't expect the teacher to develop your child's will. We know that a lot of work is useless, but it is a process of growth, so grit your teeth!

9

Child details on the management

Some children do homework sloppily, some children do homework sloppily, and some children always think of catching homework at the last minute. These bad habits are all pampered by parents.

Parents should learn to supervise their children, use the time in the corners to complete their homework early, so that their children will not be surprised at the end. Especially in the primary school stage, parents must cultivate the good habit of completing homework as soon as possible.

If you accommodate the child, you are harming the child.

After completing the homework, the rest of the time, the child can read extracurricular books, can be leisure. If you have the heart, you can let your child read and enrich your mind more, instead of complaining with your child, let alone complaining with your child about the teacher or school.

Good study habits are cultivated by parents.

10

Obey traffic rules and cultivate safety awareness

No matter how many times the teacher has instructed them, there are always students who violate traffic rules on the way out of school. The education of children's safety rules must start from the doll.

Parents do not run red lights, do not hold a fluke mentality, encounter children running around the behavior, must be strictly reprimanded. Parents do not run red lights, that is, to set an example for their children.

Please remember that the teacher is only responsible for the safety of the school, not the traffic on the road.

Once your child is injured for violating traffic rules, you will be distressed for a while, even for a lifetime.

11

Give your child a harmonious environment to grow up in

Children are bored with school, children skip school, and children jump off buildings, which seem to be children's business, but in essence, it is the result of parents not cultivating their children's psychological quality from an early age. Parents should remember that if the husband and wife are harmonious and the family is happy, the child will not think about it.

Parents are noisy, parents are divorced, parents' living habits are not good, and children's success is a luxury.

Please remember that family harmony is more important than any education; the learning atmosphere of the family is worthy of a good teacher.

Don't complain in front of the child, don't argue in front of the child, don't destroy others in front of the child, especially don't talk to the elderly in front of the child, if that is the case, you may suffer from loneliness in the future.

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