Child, forcing you to work hard now is for you not to whisper in the future! It's so well written

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Friends from many years ago sat together and talked about each other's recent situation. Some entered central enterprises after graduation, some entered foreign-funded enterprises, and some worked in public institutions... Friends are successful.

Friends talk and laugh, and some take out their mobile phones from time to time to deal with their busy business, but this is the state of the beginning of the topic. After three rounds of drinking, some friends began to complain:

"Foreign companies are good, high wages, good benefits, but the pressure is not small, recently the company let me do a corporate style report, really difficult." If nothing else, English speech alone is very difficult for me, knowing that English is so important, I should have studied it in the first place! ”

"The requirements of public institutions are now also high, and there are assessments every year. We do copywriting work, relying on the ability to write articles, only to find that the language was not learned well, otherwise this year's evaluation can be upgraded..."

"If only I had learned some talent, I would have run an interest class by myself, and I didn't have to look at the boss's face all day..."

Hearing the complaints of my friends, I also reflected in my heart on my own original efforts. But where in the world are there so many "ifs"?

I think that even if you can go back to the beginning, if no one forces you to work hard, if no one forces you to study, you will still become what you are now.

After all, learning is not an easy thing, not only the efforts of children, but also the patience of parents!

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In everything, only through their own unremitting efforts and hard work can they have the possibility of success.

Learning is the same, who did not work hard all the way to the exam, who was not a lot of homework when he was a child, and sometimes did not do well and was criticized twice by the teacher?

As students of a few years old, they are mentally immature and do not feel any happiness in the process, so they can easily choose to give up.

So it becomes very necessary for parents to "force" their children to persevere.

But unfortunately, I don't know when the "forced" child's learning was replaced by the idea of "respecting" the child, which advocates "happy education", allowing the child's nature to be allowed to develop "freely".

As everyone knows, such an education method will bring much trouble to children in the future, not to mention, "happy education" is just an excuse for their educational dereliction of duty.

These parents just lip service their children to study well, so as not to be absent in the future. However, he is immersed in various forms of entertainment, and even throws his children to the elderly, and rarely pays attention to his children's education.

Compared with persecuting children, this kind of laissez-faire is indeed less "cruel", but in the face of such a fiercely competitive society, letting go of children is undoubtedly putting children at the end of failure.

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As far as children's learning is concerned, when children want to participate in interest classes, parents do not say a word to register their children.

However, the child began to be impatient after learning for a while, and the parents "respected" the child's decision to give up. Comfort yourself, child, as long as you are happy. This is a kind of laissez-faire.

Children's interest often comes from curiosity about new things. But when curiosity wanes and interest wanes, the child will see learning as a form of torture.

However, as long as you stick to it, the interest becomes the specialty, and the next thing is enjoyment. And this enjoyment will promote the next step of learning.

Therefore, at this time, parents need to "force" their children, and they cannot let their children "do not want to learn and do not learn". If not, the child's learning can only stay in the stage of shallow taste and stop, and will never experience the joy of deep learning.

I remember when Youyou was 4 years old, I saw my sister playing roller skating and wanted to learn it myself. So after many visits, I enrolled her in class.

The little girl liked it at first, but she didn't want to go after a few days. One night, the little girl said to me, "Mom, can I not go to class?" ”

I asked her why?

"Learning roller skating is too tiring, and it's easy to wrestle," she said, pointing to her legs, which did have two green marks.

I was also heartbroken, but I finally firmly said to her, "I have to go tomorrow!" Since you have registered for the name, you must persist to the end, is your mother with you? ”

The little girl began to "confront" me with her mouth, and whispered, "It's good to be an adult, what you want to do, we children still have to listen to you." ”

I didn't make a sound, and nodded at her, the meaning was clear - no need to discuss, now you have to listen to me!

Before I didn't have children, I used to think very well, to be a friend of the child, to make her happy, and never to force her to do anything she didn't want to do.

But later, I gradually understood that before parents become friends with their children, they are first parents, especially before their children's values and outlook on life are not established, parents must make the right decisions for their children and force them to do things they are not willing to do, especially learning.

Today, Youyou's roller skating is already able to participate in the competition.

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As parents, we all want our children to grow up healthy and happy. But the child is still young and does not have the ability and insight to make the right decisions, and parents must make choices for the child.

Parents must also let their children know that any road to certain achievements is always accompanied by twists and turns, full of hardships, if you want to have good academic results, you must work hard, you have to work hard.

Tell your child that if you don't study well early in life, you will inevitably regret it when you grow up.

The process of children being "forced" to learn may be "cruel", but behind the cruelty, it carries the determination of parents to cultivate their children to success.

Therefore, we all have to shoulder the sense of responsibility of parents, when the child wants to give up learning, we should say to the child: Baby, you insist on it again.

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