10 ways to ruin a child:
1. The lack of companionship for the child makes him unable to feel the warmth of the family.
Many parents spend their days outside pushing cups and changing lamps, indulging in mahjong tables, and leaving their children alone at home to do homework or watch TV. Children simply do not experience the love of their parents and the warmth of their families.
2. I don't have a little patience with the child, and often yells at him and scolds him.
When tutoring their children with homework, some parents do not have a little patience with their children and treat them roughly, either sneering or yelling and scolding loudly. As a result, the child is worried all day long, and when he thinks about doing homework, he is afraid to go home.
3. Chatter to find fault with the child.
If parents nag their children about their shortcomings every day, they will make them feel worthless. Everyone is the same, if you are always provoked by others, you will have an inferiority complex and give up on yourself.
4. Compare him with other people's children.
As the saying goes, "there is no harm without contrast". In front of the children at every turn, praise other people's children, and use this to belittle their own children. Parents treat their children in this way, which can seriously hurt their children's self-esteem.
5. Enroll your child in too many cram schools and interest classes.
As the old saying goes, "One piece is the way of civil and martial arts." Anyone's time and energy are limited, let alone children. If parents are driven by the psychology of hoping for their son to become a Chan, they will enroll their children in too many cram schools and interest classes, which will increase the child's learning pressure and make the child overwhelmed.
6. Control the child too tightly and do not give the child personal space.
Keep an eye on the child all the time, manage the child, for fear that the child will do something out of the ordinary, and leave no time and space for the child to be alone. Parents treat their children in this way, which will make them feel very depressed and irritable, and make them rebellious.
7. Excessive pampering, clothes to reach out, food to open the mouth.
Parents are overly accommodating and doting on their children, protecting their children, and getting used to their children, which will lead to children being timid, selfish, and domineering. Not only are children unable to adapt to real life, but they also have difficulty facing difficulties and setbacks.
8. Let yourself go and ignore your children.
When children are addicted to mobile phones and online games, parents do not interfere, restrain and guide, but adopt a careless attitude. When children can't extricate themselves, they will start to get bored with school and skip school.
9. Let children make a fool of themselves in public.
The child's heart is fragile, and making a fool of the child in public will make him feel ashamed and embarrassed, and his self-esteem will be seriously hurt.
10. Hit the child mercilessly.
When a child encounters difficulties, instead of helping him, they belittle him and give him a mental blow; when the child makes a mistake, he does not tell him what is wrong, but directly starts to beat him.
