The phenomenon of husband and wife, getting along for a long time, is becoming more and more similar?
In real life, we can often see a couple whose appearance, way of speaking, and even some small movements become more and more similar as time goes on. This phenomenon is jokingly referred to as "husband and wife". Husband and wife are not formed overnight, it requires long-term coexistence and influence between husband and wife in life, in order to slowly leave traces on each other.
There are many reasons for the formation of husband and wife, among which genetic selection is an important factor. Studies have found that people often choose people who are genetically similar to themselves as mates when they are unconscious. This phenomenon is especially evident in the case of twin marriages. Since twins possess highly similar genes, there is a great deal of similarity in both their appearance and personality, making it easier for both partners to be attracted to each other.
In addition to the influence of genes, the common living environment and habits of husband and wife are also important reasons for the appearance of husband and wife. At the beginning of the marriage, there may be some differences in the lifestyle of the couple, but over time, they will slowly influence and imitate each other. For example, in terms of diet, if one party likes spicy food, the other party is not very spicy, but in the long run, they will slowly adapt to it and like spicy food;
These small things in life may seem insignificant, but the long-term interaction will make the husband and wife become more and more similar in their living habits. In addition to the external living habits, the inner character and values of the husband and wife will also change subtly. For example, the party who originally had a cheerful personality will become calm and introverted in the process of getting along with the introverted party, and the party who originally valued material pursuits will also pay more attention to spiritual things after getting along with the other party who values the spiritual level.
This mutual influence and change is a manifestation of the feelings between husband and wife. When two people really come together and start to get along and live together for a long time, they will unconsciously absorb some of each other's characteristics, thus making themselves more compatible with each other. This fit is not deliberate, but a natural process, just as a person who has lived in a place for a long time will be affected and changed by the customs there.
The formation of conjugal physiognomy is also related to emotional experiences and unconscious imitation. Studies have shown that couples who have been living together for a long time have similar wrinkles and lines in their facial muscles by mimicking each other's micro-expressions. This is because when couples experience the same emotional experience, their facial muscles react similarly, leaving similar marks on the face over time.
For example, when the couple experiences a happy event together, they will smile involuntarily and the laughing muscles of their faces will be touched, and when they experience a sad event together, their brows will wrinkle involuntarily. These seemingly insignificant small movements, when repeated over a long period of time, will leave a similar mark on the faces of both husband and wife.
The phenomenon of husband and wife is not only an external similarity, but also an internal fit. With the passage of time, the husband and wife will reach a high degree of agreement in terms of living habits and values, and this internal similarity is an important basis for the formation of husband and wife.
To scientifically explain the formation of the phenomenon of conjugal physiognomy, we need to rely on the results of some empirical studies. A study by the University of Michigan found that married couples have higher physiological index similarity than unmarried couples, and this similarity increases with the number of years of marriage. The researchers measured some of the participants' physiological indicators, such as body mass index, blood pressure, respiratory rate, etc., and found that participants with marital status were more similar in these indicators.
The results of this study show that the appearance of husband and wife is not only reflected in their appearance, but also in their internal physiological conditions over time. The reason for this phenomenon may be related to the lifestyle shared by both spouses. For example, their eating habits, exercise amount, stress levels, etc. tend to be the same, resulting in similar physiological indicators.
In addition to physiological indexes, some genomic studies also provide a scientific basis for the phenomenon of husband and wife. Studies have found that marital spouses have a higher degree of genetic similarity than the general population, a phenomenon known as "hereditary marriage pairing". Although humans do not deliberately consider each other's genes when choosing a mate, they are subconsciously attracted to certain genotypes and choose to marry someone who is genetically similar to their own.
This phenomenon is more pronounced in some special groups, such as in some relatively closed villages, where the population movement is less and the villagers' gene pool is relatively limited, and their unintentional choice of mates is more likely to have similar genes. Some researchers have even found that this genetic marriage pairing can affect some of the couple's behavioral traits, such as whether they are addictive and athletic, which may be related to their genotype.
The formation of the conjugal phase is also related to the microbial environment. There are a large number of microorganisms in every human body, and they are closely related to the health of the human body. Studies have shown that couples who have lived together for a long time have a more similar microbial community in their bodies. This is because husbands and wives not only share the same living environment, but also transmit microorganisms to each other.
The similarity of the microbial environment affects some of the physical and psychological states of people, such as mood, dietary preferences, sleep quality, etc., so that the husband and wife become more and more similar in these aspects. Some researchers have even proposed that the microbial environment can be used as a way to trace the living habits of couples, and through the microorganisms in the couple's body, their lifestyle can be understood.
Husband and wife relationship is not only an interesting phenomenon, it also has a certain impact on the couple's relationship and family life. In general, the formation of a husband and wife will deepen the relationship between the husband and wife. When two people become more and more similar in appearance, personality, living habits, etc., there will be more common language and resonance between them, and their understanding and tolerance will become deeper and deeper.
For example, in life, if the husband and wife have a high degree of consistency in their schedules and eating habits, they will not have too many conflicts and quarrels because of differences in lifestyle. For another example, if the values of the husband and wife are highly similar, they will have a more tacit understanding in educating their children and handling family affairs, and there will be a lot of unnecessary disputes.
The formation of husband and wife will not only affect the husband and wife themselves, but also have a certain impact on the growth of their children. Parents are the teachers of their children, and their words and deeds will imperceptibly affect their children. If there are obvious differences between parents, children may be confused and don't know who to imitate. But if the parents are highly similar, the child will be more receptive to their influence, and thus form stable values and behavior patterns.
In addition to having an impact on the family, the husband and wife are also seen as a positive symbol in society. If a couple is highly similar in appearance and personality, they will give people the feeling of "born to be a couple" and are regarded as a "model couple". This will not only enhance the sense of pride and identity of both spouses, but will also earn them more respect and goodwill in society.
Husband and wife are not all things that couples have to pursue. Everyone is an individual, and it is important to maintain certain personality differences. Excessive similarity can lead to a monotonous and boring life, lacking freshness. Couples should seek a balance between similarities and differences, keeping basic values in line while also respecting each other's individual traits.
Husband and wife is an interesting and common phenomenon, and its formation is not only due to objective reasons such as genes and environment, but also closely related to the emotional experience and lifestyle of both husband and wife. The presence of husband and wife will deepen the relationship between husband and wife, affect the growth of children, and improve social status, but it is also necessary to maintain moderate differences to ensure the diversity of life. Husband and wife are witnesses of a husband and wife who love each other and love each other, and it is they who interpret the promise of "growing old together" with their actions.