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The parents of the previous generation seem to have admired "filial piety under the stick", and now many parents have begun to believe in the so-called happiness education without principle.
Yo-Yo is a 7-year-old girl who is currently in the first grade of elementary school. Some time ago, she was a guest of the "Teacher Please Answer" program with her parents and brother, and as soon as she came up, she said to everyone: "I don't like my brother, I hope my mother will give my brother away." Even backstage, she found another little girl involved in the show and told them, "I'll give you my brother!" ”
Because Yo-Yo was complaining about her brother's various mistakes as soon as she came on the court, everyone was taken astray by this little girl at the beginning, thinking that the family must have focused on the second child, which caused her a lot of psychological shadows, so she would breed such thoughts.
As a result, after watching a short video, everyone was shocked to drop their jaws! The picture in the video goes like this —
At ten o'clock in the morning, my brother played with toys in the coffee table in the living room, and lay down on the sofa comfortably. When the younger brother laid out a toy, Yo-Yo lifted his foot to the coffee table and deliberately knocked the toy down for his brother. After the younger brother straightened the toy, Yo-Yo put the toy down for the younger brother, and also deliberately threw his brother's dinosaur toy on the ground. By the time her brother was crying and telling her not to let go, she was already running around alive.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, Yo-Yo and her brother played with their mother in bed. Taking advantage of her mother's lack of attention, she quickly got up and violently pushed her brother, who fell directly from the bed and cried sadly, while at this time, Yoyo covered his mouth and laughed, and asked: "Why do I want to laugh so much?" ”
At four o'clock in the afternoon, Yo-Yo took her mother's mobile phone to watch cartoons, and she was still reluctant to return the mobile phone at the specified time. Her mother compromised to let her watch another episode, but after one episode, she was still reluctant to give her phone to her mother. She took the mobile phone and ran to the bedroom, and her mother also followed, at this time, you were angry, and the slap of "snapping" hit her mother's arm, and her mother endured it like this, without even a word of criticism.
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The statement that Yu Yu just entered the house was in sharp contrast with the real situation at home, and it really stunned everyone present. At this time, a teacher suggested that Yo-Yo and her brother go out to play first, because some communication with her parents needed to avoid the child.
At the scene of the show, Yo-Yo's mother told everyone: "I think that a harmonious family cannot raise extreme children, so so far, I feel that there is no problem with all the situation of my daughter now." Our principle is that childhood is to be happy, and as long as two children fight without bleeding, I feel acceptable. Even if it's hitting me, hitting my brother, hitting my grandmother, etc., I think it's all right. ”
At the same time, the younger brother who met in the background was poisoned by Yo-Yo. You can see her brother playing over there, and as she walks toward her brother, she chants, "Stinky little stinky!" As soon as she walked up to her brother, she took the phone watch she had taken down and punched him hard. The younger brother was so frightened that he quickly ran away, but Yu Yu said with a dissatisfied face, "I don't want to play with him, he is the most smelly!" ”
When she caught up with her brother, she immediately extended her hand and punched him hard, scolding while hitting: "I hit you stinky little." The younger brother ran away again, she continued to chase, after pressing the younger brother to the ground, she used the telephone watch to desperately slap her brother's face, and the younger brother kept begging for forgiveness, but she still did not want to stop.
At the scene of the program recording, Yo-Yo's mother is still arguing on the basis of reason, she feels that her daughter's education is just happy, she can do whatever she wants. When asked what it was like for her children at school and outside, she said: "So far I haven't heard any bad feedback. ”
At this time, the teacher of the Yoyo drama class invited by the program team told everyone: "When I first saw Yoyo, my impression was very good, because she was a child on the scene. But from the moment we were in class together, her performance stunned me—she disrupted the order of the class for no reason, lying on the ground inexplicably for a while, suddenly jumping up again, and when other children didn't listen to her, she began to beat people..."
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Seeing the yo-yo performance, and then looking at the educational concept expressed by its parents, this is undoubtedly a family that believes in "happy education". Xi Xi's mother couldn't help but sigh: "What is the boundary of happy education?" Is coddling a child for no reason really good for a child? The answer, of course, is no!
In fact, the current situation of Yo-Yo is already extremely serious! As her drama teacher put it: "She has no rules, she always looks solipsistic." If she can reach a consensus with her classmates, they will get along without problems. But when her classmates didn't listen to her, she was extremely grumpy, and while she pounded her chest, she frantically asked, 'Why don't you listen to me?' Everyone at home wants to listen to me! ’”
Indeed, as Yo-Yo Dad said, "Childhood is short. "But if you indulge your child's lawlessness and no one's sight because your childhood time is fleeting, I am afraid that it is the greatest harm to your child!"
If you do not establish rules for your children when you are a child, not only will your child form a distorted personality in the process of growing up, but also exacerbate the difficulties faced by children in growth. We can not believe in filial piety under the stick, but we must not take a conniving attitude toward all the actions of our children!
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!