More and more parents will promote happy education.
Today's parents' concept of education has long been not stick education, but to promote a variety of happy education, after all, everyone has experienced the pain of stick education, as far as possible to make up for their children, let them have a happy childhood.
In fact, the happiness of children is very simple, it is also to complete a task, parents change their guidance ideas and ways, you can make them become very satisfied, and even have a different experience.
The 3 kinds of "happy education" that are the most pitted, some parents are doing it every day, and they still don't know it
The first: the so-called democracy, is to let the children give up halfway
Education experts often advise parents to cultivate a democratic and equal relationship with their children, whether in daily life or about their learning, to seek their opinions, not to influence their children with their own ideas.
This is firmly remembered by many parents, vowing to give their children enough democracy, in their own home, children have the right to control the start and stop, once they are unhappy or unhappy, they can immediately stop.
Even some parents will let their children give up halfway, at first the children like a certain sport because of 3 minutes of hot blood, but after a long time they lose enthusiasm and motivation, they immediately say to their parents, I will never do this exercise again!
Hearing the child say this, parents will naturally let the child give up halfway. Because in their thinking, democracy is understood very narrowly, and they feel that such arrogance is democracy!
The second kind: the so-called freedom, that is, the child can have no scruples
In the process of growing up in many parents, there is no freedom to talk about, and they are forced by their parents to learn this, forced to do that, and every day is like a non-stop machine, no stop, no rest.
When they become parents, they will ban this feudal thinking and satisfy their children's free growth as much as possible. It is also possible to learn and refer to free-style education abroad, but this kind of learning has only learned the skin, and has not yet learned the essence.
They only see foreign education indulging children, allowing them to grow up as they please, not caring about the eyes of adults or worldly evaluations, and freely according to their own understanding of life and growth.
But they do not see how foreigners guide children to make the right choice, the so-called free growth is not to let children do whatever they want, but also need a certain degree of intervention and guidance, after all, the child's three views are immature, they can not be responsible for their own behavior, parents should watch them decline and ignore it?
The third kind: the so-called happiness, that is, children can play silly
In addition, many parents will also say that my children must grow up happily and be happy every day, after all, the carefree childhood is only a few years, and it is necessary to protect them as much as possible!
So when other children come into contact with the outside world, they are still stuck in their own ways, do not carry out social interactions, do not carry out deep guidance and education, just let them run crazy for the silly play they want, how does this help them grow?
Although at their current stage, it is a kind of happiness to feel that they can not be forced, but by the time they are a little older and see that others are full of special skills and they don't know anything, it is already too late!
Correctly understanding happiness education is a compulsory course for every parent
For happy education, it is not only necessary to respect the child's ideas and wishes, but also to actively cooperate with the child, but the most important thing is to let the child accumulate and precipitate!
After all, education is initiated by adults, helping inexperienced children to accumulate experience, children without skills to learn skills, develop correct three views, abide by discipline and law and honor the elderly, this is the meaning and purpose of education.
It's just that the way of happiness education is more easily accepted by children, reducing the contradiction between children and parents, and every time they recall, this experience, both sides are happy and happy. Nature is not something that can be achieved by letting it go unchecked.
If parents just blindly compromise and exchange themselves for their children's happiness, the final result can only be that the children have bad deeds, because they do not have the ability to control themselves, nor do they have the vision to take into account the overall situation. What parents should do is to be the best guide and helper for their children.
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