Looking ahead, I have already talked about some educational experiences in bits and pieces.
Some friends want me to write about my son's upbringing, because she also has a naughty egg in her hand. Hope to see the naughty brother's complete growth experience.
This suggestion is also in the middle of the heart - and it is precisely the intention of the emperor.
In the face of grown children, I need to try to remember the beauty of children's childhood, and the memories have become blurred. Fortunately, I made some preparations earlier, there are a lot of photos left, and there are a lot of videos to help me remember.
So, I began to chase the little story of my son's growth - although it was a little slow, but you have the spirit of an old cattle, perseverance, steady and steady, and non-stop plowing (heaven and earth please give me strength). The next article should be the boy knocking on the door of wisdom in the elementary school.
Recently, a friend in the background said why not write about the boss's growth experience, saying: My family is a well-behaved little princess, I want to see how the "xueba" sister has "dominated" all the way. The two children can't favor one over the other, they have to dry.
There are also friends who ask me if I can accompany my children to write homework, children are too Buddha to compete and be competitive, children can't make up for classes, and so on...
Such a problem, ten sentences and eight sentences in the chat are also unclear, and the child's growth for more than ten years will not be clearly expressed in a few words.
My two babies are quite interesting, the eldest has a stronger personality since childhood - Shanghai is called: people little girls want oh.
When the eldest was studying, she especially liked her parents to come to her room - of course, you can't disturb her - otherwise you will be invited out, she said that she has a sense of security and a solid heart.
I usually say that I have been busy with housework and have no time to idle (not to deceive, the children are really busy when they come home), and I want to refuse some reasons for prevarication.
I don't like to sit by a low cabinet, drink tea and watch dramas, and pretend to read and practice calligraphy. I am more comfortable in the living room or bedroom.
The second oldest has been more Buddhist since childhood, the primary school is busy to no time to study, the school activities are more, at night to go home at 6 or 7 o'clock, weekends and holidays also have to play ball, learn the piano.
Until now, the second eldest did not want us to stay in his house for a quarter of an hour. This is very detrimental to my "unconscious" spying on the enemy, even if I bring tea and water, and sometimes give me an iron general to open the door. Greatly stimulated my emotions. So I often ridicule: learning is a bright thing, and some people sneak around in the house and don't do good things.
The homework of the two children, we adults do not care. The child went home to complete the homework in time or went out to play enough to go home and write, and the child arranged it himself - I did not deliberately bother to think about it, it was just a matter of course. However, I have also seen children who write their homework like going to the execution ground.
The boss's achievement aura from childhood is too strong, does not mean that she is very proud, people are still very modest. In high school, I often showed anxiety, and my father and I could only patiently give relief and comfort.
The second brother may be because of the pressure of the elder sister above his head, after junior high school, he is "silently working hard" (I guess), which is too Buddhist in our eyes, so it will usher in the father's explicit and secret supervision and comparison.
On the road of parenting, who does not have regrets, who has not spent money to buy three or five lessons. We are all new parents and don't need to be anxious and self-blamed. However, it is necessary to learn more and learn more and have less regrets.
For example, our lessons: some children can experience the Olympic number training class, exercise for two years to see if the child is that piece of material, the child is under pressure, do not be embarrassed that the child must insist, if the child appears psychological shadow, the resistance to the mood increases, it is not worth the loss.
Neither of my children have participated in this kind of training class, and the children have also participated in the mathematical physics competition test, and the results are not bad.
I know that if my child attends the Olympiad training class early, the results should be better. We used to proudly insist on happy education, and resolutely rejected any form of extracurricular classes, and now it seems that there is still some blind confidence.
The boss now comforted me: Mom, don't you have any regrets, we didn't participate in the Olympiad class, we had time to learn the dance violin badminton programming, I didn't care at all, didn't we still get the results we wanted in the end. A good child who understands things, so relieves his mother's worries, and his mother's heart feels much better.
I have a cousin, the child is in the third grade, both of them are math doctors, university teachers, at first they also insisted on happy education, no sense of the Olympic numbers. According to the talent conditions of their children, I firmly support their children to participate in the Olympic training class.
In the face of the difference in the learning attitude of the two children, we seem to have used the corresponding educational means, not modestly said: we also learned to use the old master Kong's "teaching according to aptitude" education method, that is, clumsy, hahaha.
Therefore, in order to respond to the call of friends, I want to recall the story of my child's growth, I want to start catching up with the growth experience of the boss, if there is something worth learning, I am still very happy.
Before I did not record the growth story of the boss, there is another reason, this little girl, self-proclaimed, among the people we are familiar with, has always been the image of the bully.
Every time people say it, they say: This is innate. It's not easy to write a story that way. In fact, I know that the little girl has some learning habits and attitudes towards learning that are worth learning from.
Now I often reflect that I still have a lot of places that I could have done better, such as we adults did not control our emotions very well, and even now we often have a relationship.
As parents' wisdom in parenting, our parents today are a never-ending new frontier, and we need to constantly expand our horizons and keep pace with the times.
Educate your children well, in the future, you may as well use your residual heat to continue to educate your grandchildren - now look, in the future, it is not whether you choose to be willing or not, but you must choose to be willing, hahaha.
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