"The demolition house is divided into a set for my brother", in the face of the wife's insistence, husband: This is my family's house

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In fact, in a marriage, bland is the norm, but many people just because they can't stand this bland state, resulting in married life from the beginning of romance and surprise to the end to slowly get used to each other's life, of course, this process may be extremely long.

When the husband and wife adapt to each other's existence, then the contradictions and conflicts in life will be infinitely magnified, and the contradictions accumulated in the long past will be mentioned everywhere in ordinary life, and the feelings between husband and wife will also be affected.

When it comes to demolition, it is a happy thing, but in this, there are often many unpredictable things.

01 The family was demolished and two houses were acquired

After graduating, Xiao Wu stayed in the city where he went to school to work and work hard, and in the city, he met his wife.

The wife and Xiao Wu's hometown are in the same city, plus the two get along very happily during the love period, and later, Xiao Wu and his wife, who was still his girlfriend at the time, returned to their hometown, and under the witness of their parents, the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.

Soon after getting married, the two had the crystallization of love, and at this time, Xiao Wu worked harder to make the small family live a happier and happier life.

However, after marriage, Xiao Wu gradually found that his wife always seemed to care too much about her family.

This kind of care of the wife is not the usual concern, but the number of times she returns to her mother's house is too frequent, and she seems to be overly concerned about her mother-in-law's brother.

But for this situation, although Xiao Wu is unhappy in his heart, he sees that his wife has also paid a lot for this small family over the years, and Xiao Wu has only inadvertently reminded his wife a few words after careful consideration, and there is no other action.

Later, because of the demolition of Xiao Wu's hometown, each family was divided into several houses, and when he arrived at Xiao Wu, he got two houses.

This was originally a very gratifying thing, but what Xiao Wu did not expect was that it was because of these two houses that there was a serious disagreement between him and his wife.

02 The wife wants to give her brother a house

Xiao Wu's wife and brothers, when they first got married, their wives had talked about her brother with Xiao Wu, because the conditions of the wife's original family were not too good, so the marriage of the younger brother has always been a place where the family is more concerned.

At that time, Xiao Wu saw that his wife was so embarrassed, so he was relieved: In the future, if we have the ability, we can help your brother.

So the wife wrote down this sentence that Xiao Wu said until now, so after the demolition of the house came down, the wife meant to give one of the houses to her brother in the mother's family for him to use when he got married.

In the face of his wife's decision, Xiao Wu naturally disagreed, Xiao Wu's original intention was to help her brother, but this did not mean that Xiao Wu was willing to give the house from the demolition to her brother.

Xiao Wu and his wife discussed: Do you see this way? We first lent one of our two houses to your brother for marriage, and if we gave him the house, then we would have no place to live in the future.

But the wife does not think so, she believes that now boys must have a house of their own when they get married.

Seeing that his wife was so stubborn, Xiao Wu's heart was full of mixed feelings.

He had thought that his wife would subsidize her mother's family, but he did not expect that she would covet the demolished house, and she would actually think of dividing a house for her brother because of her brother's marriage.

03 The house is mine

Faced with his wife's request, he was naturally rejected by Xiao Wu.

However, what Xiao Wu did not expect was that the husband and wife had a great contradiction because of this matter, and even reached a situation of mutual indifference.

Xiao Wu did not expect to reject his wife's request, and finally ended up in such a situation.

But Xiao Wu did not want to get into such a fight with his wife, so he found a suitable opportunity, hoping to solve this situation with his wife.

When Xiao Wu calmly analyzed the origin of all this with his wife, at the beginning, his wife still insisted on her own opinion, and always insisted that unless Xiao Wu agreed to her request, there was no possibility of reconciliation between the two.

However, when Xiao Wu said: If we give the house to your brother, in the future our children will need a house to get married, where will we live, after all, there are only two houses, and now I plan to leave one set for our children, and one set for us to live in the elderly after we are old. What's more, this is my house, in fact, it has nothing to do with your mother's family.

When his wife listened to Xiao Wu's words, she was silent.

Yes, she only considered the situation of her mother's brother, but after her husband's reminder, she clearly realized that just the two houses demolished were only enough for her family to live.

Only then did the wife realize her mistake, and she said to her wife with some chagrin: I'm sorry, this matter is indeed my mistake, maybe it is the years of uneventful life as a couple, let me gradually ignore your feelings.

After hearing his wife's words, Xiao Wu hugged her tightly.

Conclusion: Although the long-term married life will make the freshness of each other continue to decline, after encountering things, if you are based on family-centered, you believe that your opinions will eventually be accepted by your partner. And this is also the key to the harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

Husband and wife together for so many years, it is not easy to stay together until now, as a husband and wife, we should cherish this hard-won fate and perseverance, for everything in the future, hand in hand, this is what a normal couple of love should look like.