The husband proposed the AA system for two years, the wife gave the mother-in-law 5,000 per month, and the husband: My mother needs more than your mother

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When marriage falls into selfishness, let alone talk about feelings and mutual affection.

So he took the lead in money, afraid that his interests would be touched by his partner.

The heroine in the next case met her selfish husband after marriage, and finally had to divorce and flee with her children.

Since Qin Jingyi gave birth to a child, her husband and mother-in-law have not looked good to her.

She originally thought that her in-laws were patriarchal, and she hated that she was a girl.

But slowly, she found that her husband hated more than the inability to have a son.

First of all, after the birth of the child, the mother-in-law was not willing to take care of her. Her mother's health was not very good, and Qin Jingyi wanted to invite her sister-in-law.

But when her husband Cheng Long heard that he still wanted to invite his sister-in-law, he was not very happy in his heart.

Although their young couple did not have a mortgage and a car loan, Cheng Long's income was more than half that of his daughter-in-law.

Although he was not happy to spend more money before marriage, it was not too much of a loss to marry his daughter-in-law.

But after having a child, the cost can be large, Qin Jingyi is more than five thousand a month, and the cost in this family must be borne by Cheng Long.

Therefore, when it comes to asking Yue Yue, Cheng Long directly refuses: "Jing Yi, please Yue Yue at least more than 20,000, do you have enough money on you, if it is enough, I have no opinion." ”

These words immediately choked Qin Jingyi, and she let her spend her own money with her husband.

A little angry, she teased: "Then you are my husband, now you give birth to a child you don't care." If your mother hadn't come, I wouldn't have wanted to spend this money!"

Seeing that his wife was getting angrier and angrier the more she talked, Cheng Long left impatiently.

In the end, this month was still Qin Jingyi's mother to take care of, no way, her salary was not much, and she really did not have spare money to hire a nanny.

Two months later, she sent her mother away and paid more than 3,000 yuan to wrap a red envelope for her mother.

And her husband Cheng Long always felt that it was also right for her mother-in-law to come and serve Yuezi.

Although the child is small, but the cost is not small, when it comes to drinking milk powder in the back, four thousand a month can not be stopped.

Seeing that the pressure was getting bigger and bigger, Cheng Long's mother said to him: "Son, her salary is only half of your salary, and it will definitely be a loss to throw the child to you." Her mother has no pension, don't be stupid, you have to grow a heart. ”

Cheng Long thought carefully about his mother's words and felt that it made a lot of sense.

So he immediately decided to go his separate ways with his wife in the future. Children spend half of a person,000 AA system.

One day, taking advantage of his wife's coaxing children, he said in a relaxed tone: "Jingyi, my mother is not in good health, and now I buy thousands of health care products for her every month." So I can't cover the child's expenses, AA you see the line. ”

Qin Jingyi was stunned at once, and her first reaction was anger, so she gambled and agreed without thinking about it.

Later, she guessed that her husband hated her low salary and was afraid that he would have to make an AA system if he suffered losses.

After being required to make an AA system, she learned of her husband's thin feelings and disgusting, and simply devoted herself to working hard to make money at work.

Although she only has more than five thousand a month, she can still save a little of the more than three thousand that she spends on the baby.

Since then, in addition to work, she has gone home to accompany her daughter, and she will also pay attention to others.

Only her husband, she no longer treated her like before, there was no smiley face and she did not want to talk more.

This AA system really broke her heart, and she didn't tell anyone about it, and she silently endured it.

Although she had no feelings for her husband, she had not considered divorce. After all, the baby is so small, I really can't bear to let the child have no father.

Fortunately, the kung fu did not pay off, Qin Jingyi after a year of hard work, in the unit a good praise.

Just when a department director seat was vacant, the boss pushed Qin Jingyi up, and even the salary rose.

After Cheng Long saw that his wife's income was equal to his, he felt a little strange in his heart, and subconsciously wanted to ease the relationship with his wife.

But Qin Jingyi did not pay any attention to his courtesy at all, but threw himself more desperately at work.

In half a year, she completed two planning projects excellently, which won a lot of benefits for the company.

Finally, with a lot of energy, she made her salary rise again in the second year after her promotion.

Now her monthly income of more than 20,000 yuan has already exceeded her husband.1 And Cheng Long's income is still standing still, and he is left behind by his wife.

After Qin Jingyi's income rose, the first thing she did was to buy herself a brand-name bag and decided to give her mother five thousand yuan a month as a pension.

After cheng long knew these few things, he dared to be angry and did not dare to speak, and in his eyes, how his wife's money was spent was also subject to his consent.

So after a few months of putting up with it, he could no longer accept his wife's money to his mother-in-law.

He quarreled with Qin Jingyi after a dinner: "Wife, I am happy for you that your income has risen, but you give your mother five thousand a month, and you have suffered a loss." We are family. ”

Qin Jingyi smiled and said, "Let's count which door couple, just go through Cheng Long." You can't control my money, my mother doesn't have a pension, then you have to point at me. ”

After Cheng Long's temper came up, he said indifferently, "Your mother needs it?" My mom needs it more than your mom! That's your mother-in-law, and you have to give your mother the same amount of money as your mother-in-law, otherwise you will get divorced!"

Qin Jingyi took a deep breath and agreed to the divorce without any waves.

This time the husband was dumbfounded, just now he was obviously talking about angry words.

In fact, as early as when his wife's income was equal to his, he regretted implementing the AA system.

It was only because his wife did not forgive him that he spoke angrily and rudely today.

Even though he apologized and called out to his mother-in-law to intercede, he still failed to change his wife's determination to divorce.

For the first time, Qin Jingyi told her mother about the grievances of these years, from the resentment in the month to the despair of implementing the AA system.

They still divorced a month later, and Qin Jingyi felt much more relaxed when she held her daughter...

The heroine in the case finally chose to divorce and flee in her husband's AA system.

Because too calculating marriages do not linger, too irresponsible men are not suitable to accompany them to old age.

This not only tells us that men are responsible in marriage, but also warns us of the following two truths.

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One: Before marriage, the AA system is the best way to get along. After marriage, the AA system is the worst way to get along.

In recent years, AA production has become a new type of love model, which is quietly emerging.

Not only because it is fashionable, but also because this settlement method effectively guarantees the interests of both parties.

After all, two people do not talk about marriage, and the economic division is clear, which is also the protection of each other.

Therefore, in the love of young people, the AA system is still acceptable.

However, if you get married and have an AA system, it will completely change the taste.

Marriage is not a love game for two people, but a real life.

It is the joint efforts of both sides to support the small family and make the days flourish.

At this time, the AA system is undoubtedly a basin of cold water poured on it, destroying all the love and dedication.

You must know that after marriage, you still divide each other so clearly, and the last day is definitely a mess.

So the moment the line is drawn, it is the beginning of the couple's journey to the strange.

So before marriage, it is the best way to get along with the AA system. After marriage, the AA system is the worst mode of getting along.

Don't ruin your partner's love and hope in life in confusion and incompetence.

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Two: 90% of the postmarital AA system is due to selfishness.

Men and women who mention the AA system after marriage are still too selfish in the final analysis, afraid that they will be taken advantage of by others.

If that's the case, wouldn't it be more convenient not to get married?

Egoism cannot be lost in any way, they want to enjoy the consummation of marriage and protect their own interests and money.

From the beginning, the husband in the case was dissatisfied with his wife's income than he did.

Therefore, after having a child and having pressure, he hurried to draw a line with his wife, afraid that he would suffer a loss.

Finally, when his wife's income exceeded his, he demanded that his wife honor his mother-in-law without any reason.

This robber logic, as its wife only divorces away.

In fact, everyone in life will be selfish, but don't use the wrong place, let the calculation appear in the family and marriage.

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It is not difficult to live a life, that is, to pay attention to one's heart and one mind.

Because of the two people who are separated from morality, marriage is doomed to not go long.

I hope that no matter what role you are, you can manage your marriage with your heart.

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