Uncle Lover's Introduction:
The reason why many couples who love each other become halfway couples is because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, resulting in the outbreak of family conflicts, and finally the man's wife and daughter are separated. It can be seen how important the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays in marriage and family. A woman's happiness is not only to marry a responsible and responsible man, but more importantly, to have a mother-in-law who can understand herself and tolerate herself.
Liu Lili's story
Liu Lili and her husband Wang Ming are college classmates, and the two people have secretly had feelings during college, and their feelings are also very sweet.
After graduation, the marriage process of the two people is also very smooth, there is no parental opposition, there is no material desire, as if everything is developing in the direction that Liu Lili expects.
After getting married, Liu Lili did not have much contact with her mother-in-law, and her in-laws did not live together and there were many contradictions. The relationship between Liu Lili and her mother-in-law has always been so shallow.
This kind of getting along should be very harmonious, but life will not always come the way you want. After a year of marriage, Liu Lili was pregnant, and when she learned the news that Liu Lili was pregnant, her husband Wang Ming was very happy and quickly told his mother the news.
However, Wang Ming's mother was not half happy, and even felt that there was no need to talk to herself about pregnancy. Liu Lili learned of her mother-in-law's attitude, and her heart was also very unhappy.
Although Wang Ming loves Liu Lili, but also loves his mother, he said to Lily: "Our mother is also lazy and used to it, and she is not suitable for having grandchildren, you are more tolerant."
Later, Liu Lili did not say anything, but during the pregnancy, the mother-in-law did not have half a word of care and greetings, which made Liu Lili feel aggrieved.
Liu Lili's morning sickness was very serious during pregnancy, she could not go to work and quit her job, at this time she offered to let her mother-in-law come to take care of herself, but the mother-in-law refused.
When the mother-in-law learned that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, she was not half happy or willing to give half a point. Liu Lili said her grievances to her husband, who was casually perfunctory every time.
Liu Lili also poured out her heart and lungs and said to her mother-in-law: "I am not comfortable with pregnancy now, I hope you can take care of me for a while, I will also remember your good." But the mother-in-law does not eat this set, the mother-in-law feels that the daughter-in-law's pregnancy is her own business, and she does not have to bother.
Not only that, the mother-in-law also deliberately posted her own travel photos, completely disregarding the feelings of her daughter-in-law, which also made Liu Lili's mood collapse. She understood that her mother-in-law was never a mother, and she couldn't be good to herself for no reason.
And the husband Wang Ming, who lives together, has always stood on the side of her mother-in-law, which also makes Liu Lili chill. Liu Lili called her mother-in-law who was traveling: divorce after giving birth.
Liu Lili is not a woman without work and ability, and she firmly believes that she will not have a worse life than she is now when she is divorced. When the mother-in-law heard the news that Lily was going to divorce, she realized the seriousness of the problem.
In the marriage relationship, the attitude of the mother-in-law, the position of the husband, these are very important to women. October is the most sensitive and fragile time for a woman to conceive, and if she does not get care and companionship, she will remember it for a lifetime.
Uncle Epilogue:
Many feelings have not yet reached the point of being separated, as long as they understand and take care of each other more, then family conflicts will be much less.
Marriage is a practice, and the handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a course that requires mutual efforts to learn and understand. It is not easy for a woman to conceive in October, and it is not an obligation for a mother-in-law to take care of her daughter-in-law, but if a mother-in-law can treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter, then everyone must be a happy home.