Hrabar said that when he meets the right person, he will spoil you and love you and tolerate you, even if you were full of armor and thorns before, you will become a childlike childishness, a childlike laughter and life.
When you meet the right person, you will feel that this life is worth it, and you will willingly enter the marriage and be willing to accompany him to take care of both parents. Even in times of crisis, you will stand up, regardless of gains and losses, without asking for returns.
Therefore, what is the key to living a life for two couples? It is mutual tolerance, mutual support, mutual understanding and consideration. Instead of competing with each other, testing each other, and losing both.
01, the mother is sick, the husband takes the mother-in-law to travel
Before getting married, her parents blocked her, and her friends and girlfriends advised her, but they couldn't make Mo Qin give up her husband and marriage. Because in her opinion, parents and friends are snobbish. They marry for love, not compromise for material purposes.
Mo Qin's stubbornness broke the hearts of his parents. It's just that the parents also feel sorry for their daughter, or buy her a dowry house. However, the parents have left an extra eye, although the dowry house is full payment, but the real estate certificate is in the name of the parents.
Therefore, when the husband asked to add his name to the dowry room, Mo Qin was not impressed, thinking that both people were married, and adding or not adding names was the same. Fortunately, the parents prevented it in advance, which avoided the property deed from falling into the hands of others.
It is also because of the vigilance of parents that her husband is very uncomfortable, thinking that Mo Qin's parents are deliberately doing it. Since then, my husband's attitude towards Mo Qin's parents has also changed greatly, and he no longer shouts shortly from his parents.
Even when Mo Qin's mother was sick and hospitalized, her husband completely ignored Mo Qin's feelings and directly took his parents out on a trip, and even the children were left to Mo Qin to take care of himself. Mo Qin had no way to ask for help, so he had to hire a nurse to arrange such a large family.
02, five years later, my mother-in-law was hospitalized, wife: no time, accompany my parents on travel
Mo Qin's mother successfully recovered and was discharged from the hospital, and her husband returned with his parents. Mo Qin did not quarrel or make trouble, and her husband thought that everything had passed, but he did not know that all this was five years later, and his mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized and broke out.
For the sake of her children, Mo Qin did not choose to divorce, but maintained an AA system with her husband. She no longer interferes in the affairs of her in-laws' families; and in her own mother's affairs, she does not let her husband half distracted and give half a penny.
The husband thought she was gambling, but only Mo Qin knew that she had seen through this man, so she no longer expected any warmth from this man, and she naturally would not paste her in-laws as stupidly as before.
The mother-in-law took the child at the little uncle's house, tired of illness, the husband was distressed, and rushed back overnight to send the mother-in-law to the hospital. But the husband is a big man, it is not very convenient to take care of the mother-in-law, and the sister-in-law has to take two children, and she is also lacking in skills.
Eventually, the husband turned his attention to Mo Qin. He did a good job of ideological work with Mo Qin, hoping that Mo Qin could ignore his previous suspicions, look at his face, and take care of his mother for a while.
Mo Qin did not agree, but very coldly told her husband: There is no time, travel with my parents, you find your brother-in-law or nurse to take care of it. When my mother was sick, you also said that I would solve it myself.
03, I would rather travel than serve my mother-in-law
Mo Qin hung up the phone, booked tickets overnight, and took his parents and children on a trip the next day. As for her husband calling twice to urge her to go back to take care of her mother-in-law, Mo Qin did not pay attention.
The mother-in-law did not bring her children tired of illness, when the husband gambled to let her take care of her parents, Mo Qin could not refute it, and could only swallow this breath. But now that she no longer had to ask for this man, why should she force herself?
Mo Qin turned off the phone, no longer wanting to answer her husband's one call after another urging him to go back. It wasn't that she was cruel, but that she had come this way. Since her husband had never taken care of her feelings, why should she take care of her husband's feelings now?
If he hadn't experienced his mother's illness, perhaps Mo Qin hadn't seen through her husband as a person. But now the reason why she refuses to divorce is only for the sake of her children.
Today's Topic:
Do you think That Mo Qin would rather travel than serve her mother-in-law, too much?