As the saying goes, three years old to see the old, in fact, to see the child's heart and the level of emotional intelligence, there are some three or four-year-old children, in fact, in some behaviors have shown that they are next a high emotional intelligence child, or low emotional intelligence children, if you take the child also has the following performances, indicating that the emotional intelligence may be relatively low, parents must pay attention.
Many parents will send their children to kindergarten when they are about four years old, but after getting along with children, some children's performance will always surprise people, which is some children with low emotional intelligence, their main performance defects lie in the following three aspects, first of all, they do not like to communicate with classmates.
Generally low emotional intelligence of children, he has no way to integrate into the collective life, which and introversion does not have much to do with, but in the process of getting along with everyone, he is prone to grumpiness, and even feel that there is no need to get along with everyone often will have a small temper, or only consider their own feelings happy or not, and will not take into account the feelings of the surrounding classmates, paranoid that everyone should think the same as themselves, to play the same with themselves, in this case, we must pay attention to correct the child's behavior, Let the child learn to integrate into the group, if you have a special favorite project, you can apply with the teacher, let the teacher organize the children who are interested in this project to play together, rather than the child to intervene in the behavior of other children.
This time the emotional intelligence of low children often can not control their temper, always like to other children on the nose on the face, a little careless will export scolding or at that time to confront the teacher and other behaviors, for some children with relatively low emotional intelligence development, they have no way to restrain their emotions very well, so when encountering some things, they will follow their own temperament, if the guidance is good, the child is straightforward, frank, but if the guidance is not good, Children can easily make others hurt or not be welcomed by others in the process of future interactions. Finally, if the child often gives nicknames to classmates, and these nicknames are often ironic, such as not in the child's height, he deliberately asks people to sweep bean sprouts or other children, may be relatively round and toot, he will call people fat, fat pigs and the like, for children, these words are not just childish words so simple, the reason why they will give children such a targeted nickname, indicating that they are also deliberately observing and imitating, so I hope that parents can pay more attention.
For parents, do not think that some of the child's innocent and lively language is the so-called fairy tale, sometimes they are because of excessive imitation of the parents' words and deeds, such as giving the child some harmful nicknames, etc., which requires parents to pay special attention to, because this will affect the child's future emotional intelligence development.
Want to cultivate a high emotional intelligence of the child, first of all, parents also need to have a considerable emotional intelligence can be, parents in adjusting their own state at the same time, can also subtly affect the child, in fact, high emotional intelligence for children in the future is still more helpful, after all, everyone likes high emotional intelligence people, but also hope that parents can pay more attention to the child's growth process, pay attention to their emotional intelligence development, because emotional intelligence and intelligence, play a very big role in the child's future.