"Dear Child" has come to an end, and since the beginning of the story, this drama has really earned us enough tears.
Compared with the entanglement of enmity in the adult world and the deep and desperate love of parents, what makes us most distressed is the disease of Hehe.
Thinking about it carefully, all the contradictions in the story have begun since Hehe was born, if it were not for Hehe, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo might not have divorced; if it were not for Hehe's illness, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo would not have reconciled.
Standing at the end and looking back at the whole story, we will find that although Hehe's illness has put the three families in trouble, this lovely child has been curing all of us in his own way.
To paraphrase the bullet screen, a child like Hehe is completely what God has come to teach us to grow.
The most typical is Xiao Xu——
In the story, Xiao Xu has two visible growths.
The first time was when Fang Yinuo asked Xiao Xu to inform Xiao Lu to do matching, Xiao Xu instantly understood things, whether it was taking the initiative to go to the hospital to do matching, or the interaction with Hehe in the hospital, let us feel the preciousness of family affection.
The second time was after Xiao Xu was in debt, after Xiao Lu took out the life-saving money prepared for Hehe to help him pay off his debts, Xiao Xu finally saw himself clearly, no longer lofty and far-reaching, but steadily delivered takeaways.
There is also Su Jingwei, at the beginning of the story, Su Jingwei is a very irresponsible person, bent on making money, getting married and having children, these things, for him, is completely a superfluous burden.
At the end of the play, he tells Hehe that he is likely to become Lei Wen's husband.
All along, we have seen Hehe's understanding, but deep down, we have always regarded Hehe as a ignorant child, but later we found that Hehe actually knew everything.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
A long time ago, Hehe already knew that Xiao Lu was his father.
Xiao Lu went to the hospital to do matching that time, Hehe must Xiao Lu hug himself, in my impression, Hehe rarely has such a stubborn moment.
At that time, I was still lamenting that the power of the bloodline was too strong, although no one told her all this, but there was an innate closeness between her and Xiao Lu.
Later, we learned that at that time, Hehe already knew that Xiao Lu was his father.
At the beginning, when Fang Yinuo had not yet married Xie Tianhua, Xiao Lu often bought toys for Hehe and sent them to Fang's father and Fang's mother, and when the old two were chatting, they once said that Xiao Lu was Hehe's biological father.
The speaker has no intention, the listener is intentional, and the old two just say it casually, but they don't want Hehe to have this matter in mind long ago.
After Xie Tianhua married Fang Yinuo, considering the friendship between herself and Xiao Lu, she often secretly took Hehe to see Xiao Lu, and every time Hehe wanted something, Xiao Lu would "play lai" and let Hehe call himself daddy, and after a long time, she also identified Xiao Lu as another father of her own.
(There is only one thing I don't quite understand, in my impression, such a big child, when encountering things, will ask their mother, but Hehe has never asked.) ）
The reason why Hehe wanted Xiao Lu to hold himself may be to show his attitude, although she liked Xie Tianhua's father, but it did not mean that she was not attached to Xiao Lu.
During that time, Xiao Lu was busy for Hehe, and Hehe was all in his eyes.
Therefore, she will draw stars on Xiao Lu's hand, just to tell Xiao Lu that she knows that he is her father, and she will always accompany her Father Xiao.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Since he was admitted to the hospital, Hehe had already guessed his condition.
In order not to increase the pressure on Hehe, everyone protected Hehe well, not only did not tell her what kind of illness she had, but even when other children died, they would not let Hehe see.
But he didn't want to, Hehe already knew about his condition.
However, it was normal to think about it, although Fang Yinuo would try to suppress his emotions every time they faced Hehe, so as not to let Hehe see the signs.
But what happened in the ward, especially the process of Xiaoying's mother from full of hope to despair, Hehe was all in her eyes, coupled with the sad face of the adult, she still guessed something.
In Hehe's cognition, she didn't know what leukemia meant, but she knew that she was very sick.
Everyone loves Hehe so much, in other words, any request she made, everyone will be satisfied, but in the hospital, everything has changed——
Obviously he didn't want to take those medicines, but the adults didn't agree; he knew he wanted to go home, but the adults kept asking her to be hospitalized; although Fang Yinuo had been encouraging Hehe, he was always crying...
Although everyone said that Hehe would soon get better, from shaving his head to vomiting blood and comatose later, coupled with the feeling of getting worse and worse every day, Hehe knew it.
It's just that this child is very sensible and doesn't say what he thinks.
"I know that some children fall asleep and never wake up again." When I heard Hehe say this to Su Jingwei, I burst into tears in an instant——
We always say that the elders have endured too much, but they don't want to bear much more than the adults in the little brain melon, because in addition to the fear of death, there are many problems that she can't understand at all.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
The Xie family attaches great importance to the child in the mother's belly, and Hehe also knows it.
After Fang Yinuo became pregnant again, the Xie family was very happy, and even Xie Dan personally went to the hospital to visit Hehe.
For them, it is the importance of the Xie family's bloodline and the recognition of the other party's promise, but in the eyes of Hehe, it is that everyone loves the unborn child more.
"Dad also said that he loved me the most, but after having a little brother, he looked at me that day, why was he suddenly unhappy?"
"The first time I saw them so happy, but wasn't I still not well?"
Parents, when facing multiple children, although they all want a bowl of water, but in the process of actually getting along, it is inevitable that they will take more care of one of them.
Maybe it's because the crying child is painful, maybe the sensible child is pleasing, but the parents don't know that some of their inadvertent small actions, the child will look in the eyes, they will think that the parents prefer others do not like themselves.
I believe that for most parents, each of their children can be treated fairly, but it is because of those inconspicuous little details that the children are resentful.
Of course, as the child grows up and becomes a parent, he will definitely understand the pain of the parents, but over the years, the pain that the child has endured in his heart cannot be compensated in any way.
Just like the Xie family in the story, they are not unloving of Hehe, but for them, although Hehe is very obedient and sensible, it is not the bloodline of the Xie family, and it is reasonable for Fang Yinuo to be happy about pregnancy.
But they didn't expect that their happiness, in Hehe's eyes, had become a manifestation of their lack of love for themselves.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
Of course, for a child of a few years old, there are still some problems that she can't figure out anyway.
We all know that the adults did not tell Hehe the truth about her illness in order to protect her, but Hehe did not know, and she also felt that everyone hugged her to disinfect because she was dirty.
She didn't understand why the kind man had said he was going to help her, but after waiting so long, the kind man didn't come.
She didn't understand why she was already so uncomfortable, and everyone had to trick her into taking injections and medicines to make her live in pain.
She didn't understand that "Uncle Xiao" loved herself very much, but why did her mother always lose her temper with "Uncle Xiao", was it wrong for "Uncle Xiao" to love herself?
She didn't understand that "Uncle Shaw" said that he loved himself very much, but why he wanted to leave him.
As Hehe herself said, she doesn't understand adults and doesn't understand the world, but she doesn't want to make adults sad, so she will paint a star for Xiao Lu, just to leave a thought for Xiao Lu.
Although there are many questions that she does not understand, one thing she knows is that the elders love themselves.
We always felt that the grandparents in the story were the most transparent people, and now it seems that the youngest Hehe is the most transparent--we think she knows nothing, in fact she knows everything.
As in the adult world, the more people who know, the more they bear.
It is really impossible to imagine how many things are loaded in the little brain melon of Hehe, and how much burden should not be borne by children of this age.
Hehe said that she did not understand the world of adults, but from another point of view, how could adults ever understand the world of children?
In the pure world of children, there are also different landscapes that belong to them.
Screenshot of the TV series "Dear Little Child"
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