Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, Nie Yuan starred in the family emotional drama "Dear Child" Douban score of 7.9 points, this score is still very good in the realist family theme TV series, and most people give 4 points, 5 points of praise.

The reason why "Dear Child" has such a good reputation is because it is real! The characters, details, and plots in the play are very realistic, but I have always been unable to understand one of the characters in the play, and even think he is redundant.
This character is Xiao Lu's younger brother- Xiao Xu!
The main line of this drama revolves around Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's child Hehe, and the various difficulties and efforts experienced by parents who have divorced and reorganized their families in order to save their daughters suffering from leukemia.
The side line is the emotional line of Lei Wen and Sun Jingwei, originally felt that this line was redundant, but in the end, a scene of Su Jingwei and Hehe matching success was arranged, which made people feel that there was true feelings in the human world, and lei Wen liked Su Jingwei.
And Xiao Xu's line is completely unable to play a role in promoting the plot, and his appearance is to add blockage to his family and the audience.
Looking at the whole drama, Xiao Xu is a delicious and lazy person in the eyes of the audience, with low eyes and high hands, no responsibility, no sense of proportion, and no temper, this kind of role really does not accept whitewashing.
First, delicious lazy Mombao giant baby
Xiao Xu just appeared on the sofa eating instant noodles, making a house full of garbage and waiting for his mother to come home to clean up. Being too lazy to throw away garbage is a waste of life.
In fact, he has nothing to do all day, playing games, playing mobile phones, and has extremely poor self-care ability.
A big man in his twenties, with hands and feet and sound health, but does not go out to work, will say good things to rely on his mother and brother to help, is this not a giant baby?
Second, there is no sense of proportion in how people behave
Xiao Xu's biggest mistake was to make his brother's home his own. If the brother is not married, then it is another matter, but the brother is already married, then going to the brother-in-law's house is a guest, and attention should be paid to proportions.
Fang Yinuo had just given birth to a child in confinement, everyone was busy taking care of Fang Yinuo and Hehe, Xiao Xu's uninvited arrival was already causing trouble for everyone. He is good, does not treat himself as an outsider at all, eats like a "hungry ghost", and lies on the sofa like a salted fish!
But anyone with some quality will also control not smoking in places where there are children, not to mention other people's homes, Xiao Xu is a person with extremely poor qualities.
Smoking in the bathroom is not cleaned, smoking in the house and burning the curtains is still dead and does not admit it, which makes Fang Mama misunderstand Gao Caiping. Because of Xiao Xu's relationship, it caused a family dispute, so that his brother Xiao Lu was caught in the middle of the dilemma, such a brother should not stop.
Third, talk but brain, thick skin
Xiao Xu quarreled with Fang Ma for the first time at his brother-in-law's house, in order to protect his mother, the intention was good, but the words he said were only brains.
He said twice: "I came to my brother's house and ate the food my mother cooked. ”
This sentence is superficially fine, but it also scores the situation. Not to mention that it was his brother and his sister-in-law's home, even if his brother came to the door, he was also a guest.
Moreover, at that time, his brother and sister-in-law just had a child, Xiao Xu did not help, even if he did not help, he still added chaos everywhere, and no one could accept it.
There is also a sentence: "Mom is almost sixty, is it time for the daughter-in-law to serve?"
Xiao Xu can say this sentence to show that he is not a good man, this sentence itself has a problem, the family only has to take care of each other, how to daughter-in-law to serve the mother-in-law or mother-in-law to serve the daughter-in-law this statement.
Moreover, the situation at that time was that Fang Yinuo was confinement, and it was reasonable for her mother-in-law Gao Caiping to take care of her, and everyone took care of each other. But even if this is not the case, is it not this son Xiao Xu who lives at home and eats at home, who should take care of the sixty-year-old mother the most?
Fourth, the eye is high and low, and one deception is accurate
He Hedu is 5 years old, Xiao Xu is still the same kind of hanging child Lang Dang, every serious job, idle all day.
Until Hehe was sick and hospitalized and needed to match, Xiao Xu did the matching for the first time after learning about it, which was really touching. When everyone thought that Xiao Xu had grown up and understood things, he would change, but unfortunately, what he did later told us that he did not.
Xiao Xu was deceived again!
Invested in the nanny company, borrowed ten thousand with his brother, his mother's pension was also secretly taken away by him, and finally achieved nothing, in vain was cheated of tens of thousands of dollars, and finally his brother Xiao Lu took his own money to make up.
It is known that before this time, Xiao Xu had been deceived by thirty thousand, and he still did not have a long memory.
After the investment nanny company was deceived, Xiao Xu and his girlfriend Jingjing promised that they would start working in peace and security in the future, and Gao Caiping also asked someone to help Xiao Xu find a job as a driver, but after a few days, Xiao Xu was restless again.
He began to be fooled into micro-business, and as a result, he was deceived by a hundred thousand. The debtor came to the door, he hid outside and did not dare to go home, and it turned out that his brother Xiao Lu helped him pay the bill, which was hehe's urgently needed medical expenses.
At the end of the play, xiao Xu's character actually has the intention of getting lost and returning, and Jingjing actually does not abandon him, I really do not understand.
I saw some people say that Xiao Xu was easy to be deceived because he was too kind, and his ability to match Hehe showed that he was still kind.
This kind of view is difficult for me to agree with, Xiao Xu is easy to be deceived on the one hand, he is low in his eyes and low, and he wants to dream of getting rich; on the other hand, because he has a "brother-in-law" brother and a mother who dotes on children, Xiao Xu himself is a waste of firewood.
Then there is the matter of matching, Hehe is Xiao Xu's niece, under this relationship, but anyone who still has a little conscience will do the matching!
The most incomprehensible point of Xiao Xu's role is that he actually has a girlfriend who can't be abandoned! A person who is lazy and lazy, has low eyes, is extremely unqualified, and is angry with his girlfriend at every turn, which point does Jingjing look up to him?
Here, Xiaobian would like to advise all girls, meet people like Xiao Xu or stay away from it, do not easily take their youth to grow up with a ma bao male giant baby, in the end will only lose it will be yourself!