"Dear Child" ushered in the finale, at the beginning, the show was criticized as selling anxiety, but at the end of the day, we all underestimated the pattern of the show, it is not to attract attention and sell anxiety, it is really teaching us a deep truth in many lives.
Hehe's illness touched everyone's heart, especially in the end, the extremely weak Hehe and Su Jingwei said their secrets, that episode made people cry, it turned out that Hehe knew everything, and the words she said made people cry!
On this side, Xiao Lu saw Hehe in a fairytale tone, telling his views on death, but a peaceful look, Xiao Lu could no longer hold back, He He drew a star on Xiao Lu's hand, and also drew a star on his own hand, He He told Xiao Lu that after hearing that after a person dies, he will become a star in the sky. "I'll make you a mark now, and when I become a star, when you look up at the sky, I'll wink at you, and you'll recognize me!"
Hehe's innocent and desolate words, for Xiao Lu, who was at a loss for Hehe's illness, he instantly felt like he had been plucked from his heart and liver, and the pain was deep in his heart! In just five years, Xiao Lu got married, divorced and remarried, and suffered a serious illness from his daughter, and his life was much more tortuous than the average person.
And why not Fang Yinuo? Fang Yinuo once complained to Lei Wen, "Why is it that my life is still stormy after the storm?" "People often say that there is a rainbow after the wind and rain, but the life of these years, for Fang Yinuo, is indeed all wind and rain, which is depressing and suffocating.
Before Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu had children, they were like-minded loving little couples, and their parents kept urging them to have children, and they only wanted children, but after they had children, everything slowly changed.
Fang Yinuo was very aggrieved, pregnancy caused her to be full of freckles on her stomach full of stretch marks, on the day of giving birth, Xiao Lu was not waiting at the door of the operating room, when she was in pain, Xiao Lu worked overtime to watch TV and drink beer at home and fell asleep, after giving birth To Xiao Lu went to send a placenta to her mother-in-law, resulting in the empty door of the operating room, she was sent back to the ward by the nurse alone.
After giving birth to a child home, is the beginning of all friction and dissatisfaction, just after giving birth to the child Fang Yinuo, due to changes in body hormones, became sensitive and fragile and suspicious, and no one can get along peacefully, experienced and thoughtful sister-in-law, she is not at ease, a big grin of the enthusiastic mother-in-law She is even more uneasy, at this time Fang Yinuo, the body is like a hedgehog full of thorns. People dare not come closer.
Xiao Lu worked for a day at night, sleeping too dead, the child's crying could not wake him, Fang Yinuo looked at the sleeping Xiao Lu, felt aggrieved and disappointed, the marriage gradually cracked, Fang Yinuo's accusations against Xiao Lu were more and more, and in the end, Xiao Lu would rather nest in the car for a night than go home to rest.
This is because Xiao Lu has no sense of responsibility, is it Xiao Lu slag? Many people may think so. But who really thinks about it from Xiao Lu's standpoint? At that time, Xiao Lu's boss was Su Jingwei, and his requirements for employees at work were simply as harsh as the extermination division.
Xiao Lu turned day and night, and there was no complaint, because he wanted to give his wife and daughter a better life, which was not wrong! On the contrary, it can be seen that Xiao Lu's responsibility and responsibility, but as soon as he returns home, he also has to face various contradictions and frictions of his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, on the one hand, his mother and his wife, saying that no one is good, and the grievances are only borne by himself, and his mother and wife have to be coaxed on both sides, and they are tolerant and accommodating everywhere, but they are like rats in the bellows, and both ends are angry.
In fact, here Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo who is not really cut and messed up, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo, are novice parents, everything needs to adapt to the process of running-in, it is impossible to do everything as expected, but Fang Yinuo does not understand this truth. At this time, Fang Yinuo was unreasonable everywhere, and did not rub sand in his eyes, this was true for Xiao Lu, and it was also true for his mother-in-law and little uncle!
After the specious night when Xiao Lu and Zhu Zhu were plausible, Fang Yinuo was even more unreasonable, in fact, Xiao Lu was completely put together by Zhu Zhu, Xiao Lu did not have the heart to cheat at all, he cherished his wife and children, and did not want to divorce at all, but Fang Yinuo stood on the moral high ground and did not give Xiao Lu the opportunity to explain and save at all.
No matter how Xiao Lu begged her, Fang Yinuo was determined to divorce her, and what was even more inhumane was that Fang Yinuo unilaterally deprived Xiao Lu of his right to be a father, and from then on he not only did not let Xiao Lu see his daughter, but also did not tell his daughter that there was a father named Xiao Lu.
She let Hehe miss the good time to get together with his father, the father-daughter affection, just because Fang Yinuo's reasoning was not spared, it was interrupted by life, which was unfair to Xiao Lu, even more unfair to Hehe, before Fang Yinuo married Xie Tianhua, Hehe saw other children in the playground with their fathers, and Hehe's envious and lonely eyes made people very distressed!
Fang Yinuo also missed Xiao Lu, a good man, from the follow-up plot point of view, Xiao Lu is really a rare good man, as a son, he is filial to his mother, as an older brother he loves his brother, as a father, he loves his daughter to the bone, as a husband, he has a sense of responsibility and tolerance for his wife, as an employee, he has outstanding ability and flexibility, but he is honest and frank and righteous. Xiao Lu's affection for Hehe even healed Lei Wen, who had been at odds with his father for many years and rebelled.
At first, Fang Yinuo did not spare anyone, and beat Xiao Lu to death with a stick. After the incident of Hehe's illness and seeing Xiao Lu's series of performances, Fang Yinuo suddenly realized how wrong he was at the end!
When Xie Tianhua told Fang Yinuo that he had gone to the hospital to report that Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu were not husband and wife, Fang Yinuo was shocked and finally had an epiphany.
She turned to Xie Tianhua and said, "What a selfish thing! People are so selfish! I don't blame you anymore! ”
"When I married you, I didn't love you, I was selfish, one person wrong, turn over!" 」
"I used to be stronger!" I didn't forgive people, and I suffered a lot! ”
"After having you, I softened, Tianhua, I think someone can lean on, I am not afraid."
"Xie Tianhua, I love you!"
Until the end, Fang Yinuo didn't know how much suffering he had suffered in his past style! What she missed was life!
To put aside her former nature, Xie Tianhua made such a thing behind her back, Fang Yinuo would definitely not forgive him, but at this time Fang Yinuo had an epiphany, she understood that the world is not black and white, and also understood the consequences of not forgiving people to themselves, and fang Yinuo, who understood understanding and tolerance, would not lose another life.