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The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to avoid, especially if the mother-in-law does not agree with the daughter-in-law, even if the daughter-in-law is pregnant, in the eyes of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law cannot be allowed to take advantage, let alone ask the daughter-in-law to be warm.
There is a daughter-in-law who is 8 months pregnant, and the in-laws do not care, but the daughter-in-law's belly is getting bigger day by day, and she can't cover it.
Eight months pregnant, the in-laws do not pay money or greetings, what should the daughter-in-law do?
1. Mother-in-law's attitude
Although the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are two generations, there may be a certain generation gap between each other, but the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is more contradictory, and there are fewer who can get along well.
The daughter-in-law is pregnant with her own grandchildren, is the son's child, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law have a big contradiction, should not implicate the grandchildren, the child is innocent, if the in-laws plan to ignore it, then in the end the daughter-in-law is too disappointed, with the child, away from your son, so that is the biggest loss.
2. Husband's attitude
In fact, the mother-in-law's attitude towards the daughter-in-law is not the most important, mainly the attitude of the husband, I don't know if you have a license to marry?
If you are married, the husband is busy with work, there is no time to take care of pregnant women, let the wife go back to her mother-in-law's house to live, with the care of the mother-in-law, he can also rest assured, then it is also another way.
If you are not married, or if you are upset with your husband and go back to your mother's house to live, such a situation is extremely unfavorable for pregnant women.
Pregnancy is the hardest time for a woman, if the husband does not see, you suffer because of pregnancy, how can he hurt you? He accompanies you to the obstetric examination, and when he sees the fetus growing up day by day, he will feel empathy and sincerely look forward to the arrival of the baby with you.
If he is not pregnant, after the baby is born, he may also be a hand-thrower, the child is still your own, and the last to suffer is yourself.
3. The daughter-in-law should correct her own mentality
Many daughters-in-law are actually not rare in-laws' money, but since they have married into this door and are pregnant, they hope that the in-laws can affirm her and accept her, no matter how much money they have, they do not require good treatment.
If the mother-in-law can't come to help, at least greeting the daughter-in-law on the phone should be polite. Treat strangers, the old man can still treat each other with courtesy, let alone his own pregnant daughter-in-law?
As a daughter-in-law, the cost of pregnancy and raising children should be borne by the two small families themselves, the elderly do not have such responsibilities, the elderly are willing to pay, it is a good thing, unwilling to pay, but also the common sentiment of people.
After all, the old man raised his son, and now that he is old, his living expenses are also quite large.
Pregnant women have been living in their mother's house, is this good?
If the pregnant woman has a conflict with her husband, try to negotiate with her husband to solve it, the baby is born, he is also responsible for raising the child, otherwise you insist on giving birth to a child in the mother's house, he does not come to pick you up and the child, then your situation will be more embarrassing.
If you still want to live with him, let him bravely take responsibility, either communicate with your in-laws to pick you up, or you move out together.
If your husband still loves you, your feelings are also very deep, just temporarily live in the mother's house, then it does not matter, but you should also discuss where to confinement, which family to take the child.
If the in-laws don't want to care, then you live a good life of two small families, although the original intention is good to live in peace with the in-laws, but some things, but also reluctantly come, there is no need to be sad because of the attitude of the in-laws, you are a mother-to-be, to maintain emotional stability, it is also good for the development of the baby.