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The plot of "Dear Child" is more and more biased towards ethics, at the beginning of this drama, everyone will think that this is a family drama, mainly about the life of husband and wife, but in fact, it is not about a family drama, but about two divorced people who have formed a new family, and then unfortunately encountered a daughter's illness, facing the fear of losing their daughter, whether it should be in order to save their daughter, two people have a son.
Originally, they had waited for the notice of the success of the bone marrow matching, and as a result, the person who wanted to donate the bone marrow temporarily repented, did not intend to donate, and the hope was disappointed, and the daughter encountered unexpected situations again and again, almost critically ill, and could not wait for the right bone marrow, and was anxious every day.
The doctor told them that it was not impossible, there was also another one, using umbilical cord blood for matching, the probability of success was still quite large, and the problem was thrown to two people who had divorced and started a new family again.
Fang Yinuo really loves the child too much, and is not willing to lose the child, but she really does not know how to open her mouth with Lao Xie, this kind of thing, who can agree to it, if it is to give birth to her and Lao Xie's child to save Hehe, he will certainly be obliged. So she filed for divorce.
And Xiao Lu does not plan to divorce, but also wants to have another one with Fang Yinuo to save Hehe, and dong Fan, who is sensible, does not do it this time, and thinks of filing for divorce for one night. This decision brought a new test to their marriage, and here many people scolded Yinuo, thinking that she was a very selfish woman who did not consider the consequences.
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If she really wanted to have another child with Xiao Lu, the consequences would be very serious.
From the aspect of Lao Xie, he loves Yinuo so much, how can he tolerate his wife having another one with her ex-husband, Yinuo also thought of this, she also felt that she was very selfish in doing so, so in order not to continue to hurt her, she filed for divorce.
But she didn't know that whether he agreed with her and Xiao Lusheng, but did not divorce, or divorced, Xiao Lu could not accept it, and neither of these two choices was what he wanted.
He loves Yinuo very much, has loved for more than ten years, from the time he met in college, he will like her, but because there is no romantic cell, he will not coax people, so he was cut off by Xiao Lu, watching the beloved woman follow others and marry her.
Even so, he still put Yinuo in a very important position in his heart, still liked her, and later divorced, he still liked her, and would not be disgusted because she had a daughter, and he would marry her without hesitation, treat her daughter as his own daughter, be good to her, spoil her, love her.
In the end, in order not to divorce, he chose to agree to her having a child to save Hehe, which is enough to show that he really loves Yinuo, loves to the bone, and would rather suffer his own grievances than be separated from her.
For Xiao Lu, although Dong Fan is very sensible and very considerate of Xiao Lu, this time she can no longer understand, can no longer bear, can not accept her husband and ex-wife to have another child, Xiao Lu's marriage has also encountered a divorce crisis.
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If it is only from the perspective of Lao Xie and Dong Fan, this decision is indeed very selfish, but if both of them are now single and neither of them has a partner, such a decision will never be said to be selfish.
However, if we think from the perspective of Yinuo, this is really the way she can't do it, even if people all over the world scold her for being selfish, she will save Hehe.
The person who scolds Yinuo for being selfish is nothing more than taking the role of Lao Xie and Dong Fan, or maybe he is not a mother, a person who has become a mother, it is difficult to accept that his daughter is leaving himself like this and is indifferent, I believe that even if she is allowed to go up the knife mountain, go down to the sea of fire, and exchange her life for her daughter's life, she is also willing.
A mother who loves her daughter cannot bear the pain and suffering of her beloved daughter, especially when she watches other children in the ward leave like this, when she watches her daughter take medicine, when she is tormented by illness, when she cries hysterically, her heart will hurt violently.
If you think from her point of view, you may be able to understand her selfishness.
Hehe was brought into this world by october when she was pregnant, it was she who raised her little by little to grow up to this day, they are connected by flesh and bone, the body flows with the same blood, Hehe is her lifeblood, ask her how to bear to watch her lose her life a little bit.
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Fang Yinuo embodies the instinct of a mother, it is the maternal love in her body that inspires her to make such a selfish choice.
For her, this is also a sacrifice, may sacrifice Lao Xie's love for her, may sacrifice her own marriage, her marriage is very good, the in-laws are also very good to her, but also very good to her daughter, such a family, she may not be able to find it in the future.
But what can she do, she has no way, she just wants to save her daughter, she has no way at all.
I believe that when something like this happens to many women, they will make the same choice, that is, to save their daughters, no matter how great the cost.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Dear Little Child"