The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
In a normal family, there are many aspects of the problem that need to be dealt with, in addition to the feelings between husband and wife, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also one of the important factors affecting whether the family is harmonious.
As it was written in a book about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: To some extent, the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can even cover the degree of harmony between husband and wife, and sometimes the quality of getting along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can determine the future direction of the family.
It can be seen how lucky it is to meet a reasonable mother-in-law.
01 Fortunately, I met a good mother-in-law
So far, Xiao Ke is very fortunate that he has met a good mother-in-law, for so many years, if it were not for the mother-in-law to make decisions for herself, I think she would have suffered a lot of grievances in this family.
Although he and his husband met through self-talk and had a certain foundation for love in the early stage, after marriage, the ordinary life soon erased the enthusiasm from marriage, and the living state between the two was like a mess.
In addition, the two did not plan to have children at the beginning after marriage, and after a long time, the feelings between husband and wife slowly faded a lot.
At this time, the mother-in-law said to Xiao Ke: Daughter-in-law, in fact, I do not plan to urge you to have children, but what you do not know is that after a long time, it is very normal for the feelings between husband and wife to be flat, if there is a child at this time, the attention of your husband and wife will shift to the child, and life will not be as plain as it is now.
In the face of the mother-in-law's good manners and bitter mouths, Xiao Ke thought about it and felt that the mother-in-law said something reasonable, and finally out of trust in the mother-in-law, Xiao Ke finally decided to have a child with her husband.
As for why Xiao Ke trusts her mother-in-law so much, the reason is that since she got married, everything her mother-in-law has done Xiao Ke has looked in her eyes and remembered in her heart, and her mother-in-law is kind to people and treats Xiao Ke as if she were her own daughter.
02 The whole process is taken care of by the mother-in-law, and the husband proposes the AA system when confinement
Since Xiao Ke became pregnant, she has returned to her hometown, and until then, she has been staying with her husband and working hard in the big city.
After returning to her hometown, the mother-in-law's care for Xiao Ke is more meticulous, and the mother-in-law will carefully prepare some nutritious meals in the early stage to let Xiao Ke supplement her body, and in the later stage, the mother-in-law will not leave Xiao Ke's side for a moment.
In the face of such a dedication from her mother-in-law, Xiao Ke was also very touched in her heart.
Later, during Xiao Ke's confinement period, her husband happened to be unemployed at home, and during that time, Xiao Keben wanted to take this opportunity to close the feelings between her husband and her husband, but perhaps the pressure of life made her husband's mood very unstable, and in the face of Xiao Ke's initiative to show kindness, her husband always looked like he did not answer.
In the face of her husband's attitude, Xiao Ke was also very uncomfortable in her heart, and the mother-in-law saw this situation, reprimanded her son a few words, and then comforted Xiao Ke for a long time.
After eating one night, the mother-in-law had something to go out, but then the husband took the initiative to speak: Xiao Ke, in the future, our children are born, the pressure will be much greater, and in the future we will make AA.
At this time, Xiao Ke, who was confinement, heard her husband's words, suddenly stunned, she looked at her husband in disbelief, although the feelings between herself and her husband had weakened a lot since they had been married for so long, but in terms of family expenses, her husband had never been stingy, and suddenly proposed the AA system, which caught Xiao Ke off guard.
But Xiao Ke did not say anything more because of this, but his mood was much lower.
After the mother-in-law returned, she saw that Xiao Ke's mood was much lower than before, and after unremitting questioning, Xiao Ke finally told the truth to her mother-in-law.
03 The mother-in-law poked at her husband's ear: You say it again
After listening to Xiao Ke's confession, the mother-in-law went directly outside the house to talk to Xiao Ke's husband, and Xiao Ke also came out.
Xiao Ke just arrived outside the house, he found that the mother-in-law was pinching her husband's ear, and the mother-in-law said with a strong voice: My daughter-in-law has paid so much for this family, and now she is still confinement, you actually want to make AA with her, do you have a little conscience, anyway, I don't agree with what you said, as long as this family has me for a day, you don't want to press my daughter-in-law.
Seeing the way the mother-in-law poked her husband's ear, Xiao Ke couldn't help but laugh a little, but her heart was more warm, recalling so many years, every time she had a conflict with her husband, as long as the mother-in-law knew about it, she would reprimand her husband, and never said a word about Xiao Ke's no.
And this time when she heard that her husband wanted to make a home for herself, her mother-in-law immediately made the master for herself, and in the end, the husband personally apologized to Xiao Ke under the reprimand of her mother-in-law, and deeply reflected on herself.
Since then, the relationship between Xiao Ke and her mother-in-law has also risen, and later, under the careful mediation of her mother-in-law, the life between Xiao Ke and her husband has gradually returned to a normal level.
Conclusion: As a girl, they have played many roles in this life, from daughter-in-law to mother-in-law is a long process after all, they have also experienced the hardship and bitterness of being a daughter-in-law, when they are in the mother-in-law, under normal circumstances, they can also appreciate the mood of the daughter-in-law at this time, exactly the same as their original.
Therefore, for most mothers-in-law, they will actively mediate when facing the contradiction between daughter-in-law and son, treat daughter-in-law, and they treat daughter-in-law as if they were their own daughters.
Living in this environment for a long time, if you ask where the feelings of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be, the daughter-in-law will naturally have no second thoughts about her mother-in-law.