When it comes to making friends and falling in love.
Initially, you may make choices because of your "preferences".
For example: how tall this person is, how big his eyes are, whether he speaks humorously or not, whether he has a common language or not.
However, when they get along for a certain period of time, everyone does not open their mouths to each other, and one eye knows what the other person wants to say; a movement can understand what the other person wants.
At that stage, "looks, dress, everything outside" will become more and more "unimportant".
The need to "replace it" may become "security and comfort."
The "sense of security" is: how well I know you, how much I can predict your behavior, and whether you will betray me.
Because, as "human beings", we need "food" and the ultimate reason is "to satisfy hunger"; we need "houses" to "shelter from the wind and rain" and seek "warmth and protection".
These are the most "basic" "security" needs.
And "comfort" is: how much you are willing to pay for me, whether you are willing to let me keep "self" at the same time, still choose to appreciate me, accept me.
Therefore, if you look at it from the perspective of the horoscope: many times, we begin to "fall in love and make friends", we generally use the "rising sign" to face "others".
And when we are really together, the characteristics we show are getting closer and closer to the "sun sign".
PS: In my own words, it is: it is really too tired to rise all the time, or the "sun" is warmer.
Therefore, there are many "couples, friends" who can be described as "sweet honey" when they first get along.
But after "getting along for a while", you will feel that "this person is really annoying".
The reason is that you like her "rising sign" instead of her "sun sign".
So, among the twelve zodiac signs, which zodiac signs are the most likely to make people feel more and more "annoying" after "familiarity"?
Let's analyze it in detail:
Scorpio and Virgo:
These two constellations, the author "for the rest of his life" is ready to put them together.
Why?
Because in terms of personality, it is very similar, especially in terms of "feelings, interpersonal relationships".
In the beginning, you will feel the warmth and positivity of these two signs, and then you will be moved.
Choose to "fall in love and make friends" with them.
However, when you enter their "field", you will unconsciously feel the "pressure".
Many times, you yourself will feel: Am I too suspicious of this person?
But in fact, it is not that you are "multi-minded"!
But you are indeed "YaliShan big".
Your pressure lies in the fact that she will constantly inquire into your "privacy", want to know more about you, understand what you like, what you are afraid of, and your "small problems" in all aspects.
When you are with her, if you have a heart, you will find that her eyes are always on you, watching your behavior, watching your behavior, listening carefully to everything you say.
Many people will say: This is a sign of respect for you!
Yes, yes, but to be more precise, it should be a manifestation of "valuing" you.
But for "Scorpio and Virgo," there is a deeper meaning.
She is on closer inspection to judge whether you are "lying"!
Also, look for your "behavior, language" inertia.
It's like why when you talk, there are a lot of people who are staring at other places, and she will look at your "eyes" intently.
That's because she doesn't like to hear what you say, what she wants to know more is: what's going on in your heart!
So, when you're with her, you relax, she's not relaxing; she's probing you for everything.
And the "aura" of people is interconnected if they have been together for a long time.
When she is tense, you will feel like you are with her, there is always a pair of eyes behind her, staring at yourself, and slowly you will feel "more and more pressure"!
So: Why, why do they do this?
Because "they" want to control you, they have to understand all your movements, because then she will have a "sense of security".
For example: if you want to be quiet one day, choose "turn off the phone", find a place where no one is for a day, and many people are looking for you.
Rest assured, the first person to find you is definitely "Virgo or Scorpio" these two zodiac signs "your friend or lover"!
This is where their "sixth sense" comes from.
But if you offend her, she'll let you know how good she really is.
Because, she has too many secrets about you, she wants to make you "uncomfortable" that is, minute by minute.
Therefore, in the relationship, in the dating, it is they who make people feel the most friends in the early stage, and they are also the ones who make people feel the most "annoying" in the later stage!
Because along with the heating up of feelings, at the same time it is "pressure, control and restraint"!
Many times, the author has suggested: Virgo and Scorpio readers, do not "tighten" yourself too much, you often say that you are tired, saying that the reason why no one can help you is because of your "desire to control".
When you think that your "sense of security" is missing, it is not enhanced by "controlling others".
What you should understand most is that in fact, you are a "afraid of the dark" child, and you have chosen to "pretend to be an adult and pretend to be strong".
I had to control everything, but later, I was rejected because "adults are not like adults, children are not like children", and I feel lonely.
This is to "find a block" for yourself.
Therefore, if you also have the above problems and want to seek change, it is really better: to be a child in the sun, in the wind and rain, and then choose to be an adult!
Cancer:
Sensitivity is a good thing, but when sensitivity turns to paranoia, it's unbearable.
It is precisely that many Cancers are the kind of people who are more familiar, the more attention, the more doubts, the more complaints.
Therefore, her favorite day to chat is to talk to the third person about her "friends, lovers", and the language is basically based on "burying and counting".
In fact, many times, Cancer does not say these words with "malice".
She just thinks about it in her mind because "something" is repeated, and she feels uncomfortable, and she must express it through this language expression.
But she didn't know that many of the friends around her were also the kind of "speakers have no intention, and listeners have intentions".
When they reach the ears of others, these words all "change their taste."
In this way, people who originally felt that "Cancer" was gentle and got along with her, and those who fell in love with her would "alienate" her because of this, from saying anything to saying anything to "carrying" her.
This undoubtedly makes Cancer, who has a large number of "inner theaters", more likely to have "doubts".
And Cancer's good temper comes from "no entanglement in the heart, peace of mind".
But when there are some people she can't understand, some things she can't think through, she will feel unfair, and her temper will get bigger and bigger.
Many people say that "Cancer" is a more sullen constellation.
But in my opinion, she really doesn't like to be "sullen" because she can't hold back her words.
So, when Cancer trusts you, you'll be very comfortable with her.
But when she doesn't trust, all kinds of temptations, all kinds of suspicions, all kinds of inquiries, will make you particularly irritable.
Moreover, Cancer is basically "difficult to control" in this regard.
If she is willing to have something to say, the key is that when she thinks about the problem, she will also "reverse thinking" and stage the "inner theater": if I ask him directly, he will not be angry, if I ask him directly, will he lose face; if I do this, he will not look down on me.
So, there are many times if a Cancer is "suspicious" plus "duplicitous" at the same time.
When you are with her, you will feel more and more that she is "neurotic", and your "irritability" will become stronger and stronger.
Deep down, you will want to "avoid her" more and more, and more and more want to "stay away from her"!
In fact, Cancer's "suspiciousness and sensitivity" comes largely from "excessive self-esteem and duplicity."
When your "purposefulness" arises, you are not willing to choose "direct"; and "euphemism" is not when your "summer sign" is good at it.
Your whole being will be weird, and eventually, you will become a "nasty" type under the premise that you will "hate yourself".
So, if you want to change yourself, abandon those so-called "self-esteem" and let yourself be born into the light.
In this way, it should be the best choice for "Cancer"!
Aquarius:
The zodiac sign that cares most about their feelings, in addition to feeling different, will also have an idea that all the people around them should "serve her".
Therefore, in Aquarius's "view of love and friendship".
There is basically no concept of "I can do something for you".
All she thought was, "Can you do something for me?"
Therefore, when you first meet her, perhaps "unique aesthetics, dressing, good looks, and elegant conversation" will be the place that attracts you.
But the longer you "spend together," the more you feel that the person is "selfish."
Two people play umbrellas, the umbrella will always be biased to their own side; eating, always eating, can remember that there is still a person standing next to them.
No matter what two people do together, the credit for becoming one is always hers; if it fails, the responsibility is always yours.
When she tells you the "big truth", if you question her, she will be very angry, thinking that you are a person who "cannot be carved in decaying wood": such an excellent person, when giving you a "lecture", you will also choose to "refute".
But when you give her advice or advice, she will always be dismissive, she will feel: what qualifications do you have to give me advice?
So, when a sense of "superiority" that comes from nowhere occupies her.
She's motionless and feels like she's "great" and you're "bad."
She meets you as your gift, and when you meet her, it is a kind of "high climb."
When this "domineering and double-standard attitude" is getting longer and longer, it will make the people around her "hate" her more and more.
So, if you're an Aquarius and you're lonely, consider whether the author's above is in line with your personality traits, rather than choosing to be angry right away.
Because, each of us wants to be "different and stand out from the crowd".
However, all "uniqueness" is built on the "ordinary".
Therefore, if you really want to have a "good future", the first thing you have to do is not to be "unique", but to embark on the "ordinary road" - to live worldly!
Okay, the author summed up the above constellations, and everyone entered the seat to see if this was the case.
At the end of the article, if you are one of these zodiac signs and do not have these personalities, do not be angry.