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"Dear Child" is too sad to watch.
Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child in the hospital, her husband drank, slept, watched ball games at home, and when she gave birth to the child's delivery room, her husband actually took the child's placenta to her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law said that the placenta was a big supplement, and she wanted to supplement the body of Fang Yinuo's little uncle.
When Xiao Lu finished delivering the placenta and returned to the hospital, he couldn't even find where Fang Yinuo was, and Fang Yinuo had to call him to tell him.
Some people say that if marriage is good or not, you will know if you have a child.
Fang Yinuo could be considered to have realized Xiao Lu's unreliability.
This is not the end, Fang Yinuo loves to be clean, but because of the birth of the child, she pulled the on the hospital bed, and Xiao Lu went in and said: What smell? ”
Let Fang Yinuo awkwardly drive everyone out of the ward, and he was alone and lost and sad.
Although Xiao Lu helped Fang Yinuo clean up in the end, his disgusted expression and the washing of his hands over and over again after cleaning up let us see the man's face.
For Fang Yinuo to have a child, Xiao Lu was unreliable again and again, which laid hidden dangers for their marriage.
When there are no children, Fang Yinuo has his own job, in addition to taking care of himself, he can also take care of Xiao Lu, and his life is at ease.
Because he is enjoying that side, he has not yet been tested by marriage.
Fang Yinuo's birth of a child is the biggest test for Xiao Lu.
02
During the month, Fang Yinuo, like many women, because of the change of life roles and because she had just given birth, her emotions were very unstable and she was prone to sentimentality.
However, as the child's father, Xiao Lu did not enter the role and did not understand Fang Yinuo.
At night, Fang Yinuo finished milking the child wanted to drink some water, shouted Xiao Lu to get up and pour a cup of water, but Xiao Lu couldn't shout at all, or Sister-in-law Yue heard the voice and brought Fang Yinuo a cup of warm water.
At this time, Fang Yinuo broke his defense because of a glass of water and cried in the moon.
When I watched this paragraph, many people resonated.
Some people say that people who have experienced it understand it and are not arrogant at all.
Sometimes the pillow person can't feel that a woman has just given birth, everything has to be faced by herself, the feeling of inner loss, and no choice.
Sister-in-law Yue's arrival was to help Fang Yinuo, to be precise, to make Xiao Lu irresponsible.
Because of the help of his sister-in-law, Xiao Lu can work overtime to the fullest, and he can also sleep peacefully with Fang Yinuo and his children after he returns.
Even when you get home, you can eat delicious meals.
Therefore, Xiao Lu saw the benefits of the moon sister-in-law.
However, as a mother, Fang Yinuo's heart is more delicate, and she is worried that the sister-in-law is not good for her daughter, and she is always concerned about the movement of the sister-in-law.
When a woman becomes a mother, she becomes a detective, and she can always find the problems of the sister-in-law, and she can always find the problems of the children.
Sister-in-law Yue secretly added milk powder to the child, if it were not for Fang Yinuo's discovery, Xiao Lu might never know.
The child's jaundice made Fang Yinuo very worried, although the sister-in-law was fine, but Fang Yinuo always observed the child's reaction, until the child was sent to the hospital, and the sister-in-law also secretly ran away.
In Fang Yinuo's view, there are also times when YueYi is unreliable, but in Xiao Lu's view, the existence of Yue Yiyi makes him a lot more convenient.
Two people have different opinions only because the two people have different purposes.
Fang Yinuo's purpose is to make his daughter well, and Xiao Lu's purpose is to be well himself.
03
Without the help of his sister-in-law, Xiao Lu's life entered a state of busyness again.
Helpless, Xiao Lu invited his mother, that is, Fang Yinuo's mother-in-law.
What kind of person is this mother-in-law?
Love to smoke, like to play mahjong all night, and the family still has a son who has no sense of responsibility, plays games all day and eats the old man.
Fang Yinuo originally did not trust her mother-in-law, but Xiao Lu invited her mother-in-law without consulting her, and she could not refuse.
The arrival of the mother-in-law added to Fang Yinuo's blockage.
Brought Xiao Lu's diaper when he was a child to use for his daughter.
The daughter was sick, the mother-in-law went out to burn paper and fight for people, and as a result, she was injured, and let her son lose money, which really lost the wife and folded the soldiers.
Mother-in-law took the child out for a walk, Fang Yinuo instructed the mother-in-law not to wear too much for the child, the mother-in-law obviously promised to be good, as soon as she went out, she covered the child, so that the child had eczema.
What is even more unreliable is that the mother-in-law took the child to walk, smoked and played mahjong, and repeatedly left the granddaughter hanging aside, and what is more terrible is that due to the irresponsibility of the mother-in-law, the child's stroller slipped directly from the slope, causing the child to fall off the car and be injured.
04
The arrival of the mother-in-law made Fang Yinuo's anxious mood more nervous, because the mother-in-law's big grin made her very worried about the child.
For this reason, her and Xiao Lu's husband and wife relationship also fell into a state of tension.
Fang Yinuo's mother came to help with the child, and she wanted her mother-in-law to go back.
Xiao Lu told his mother about Fang Yinuo's idea, but his mother did not go back and wanted to make up for it, and what was even more speechless was that Xiao Lu connived at his mother's approach.
We all know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along, especially in the month, women are emotionally unstable, and it is more difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along.
However, Xiao Lu's method was to coax on both sides, coaxing his mother to take care of his daughter-in-law and children, and coaxing his daughter-in-law to endure her mother-in-law.
Coupled with the arrival of the mother-in-law and brother Xiao Xu, the smell of gunpowder in the family was even stronger.
This family conflict was predestined as early as the arrival of the mother-in-law.
The unreliable mother-in-law is Xiao Lu's unreliable shield.
From beginning to end, Xiao Lu was the most unreliable person.
He never considered Fang Yinuo's inner needs, and his various practices were all to make himself more relaxed in this family, and he thought not about how his daughter-in-law and children could live better, but how he could live well.
From the arrival of his sister-in-law to his mother, on the surface, Xiao Lu was thinking about Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter, and he also coaxed Fang Yinuo with a smile every day.
His "fierceness" is hidden behind his sister-in-law and mother, and also hidden under his "false coaxing".
He casually said "I was wrong", just to admit my mistake as soon as possible and evade his responsibility.
If a man cannot take on the responsibilities of a husband and father after his wife gives birth, then no matter how many helpers he finds, he will not be able to do these two roles.
If you want to do these two roles well, you must work hard yourself, at least you can think of your wife and children in advance, not yourself.
After watching a few episodes, I found that many people were deceived by Xiao Lu's appearance, and the real reason for their marriage disintegration was not because they had a child and cheated on Xiao Lu, but more because of Xiao Lu's selfishness and the disappointment that Fang Yinuo accumulated over the years.
Therefore, whether the marriage is happy or not has a lot to do with the person you marry, we look at Zhou Bingkun in "The World" and Jiang Defu in "Parental Love", we know how important it is to find the right person.
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