Mengmeng is 23 years old this year, met her husband Xiaolei at a friend party, and the love between the two quickly warmed up at first sight. During the contact, she learned that the other party was five years older than herself, divorced and had a child. The mother is worried that she will choose the wrong path when she is too young, and hopes that she will not marry the other party, because there are too many things to bear after marriage. But the other party was very kind to her, and after more than half a year together, the two decided to enter the palace of the newlywed. After marriage, although the life of the two children is not rich, it is also very sweet, and she feels that she is happy like a princess.
More than a month ago, the two families moved back to Xiao Lei's house because of economic tension, but since moving back, contradictions have gradually emerged. The two once mixed their mouths when they were eating, and the mother-in-law was afraid that they would quarrel, so she said two words to her, although there were grievances in her heart, but she did not want the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so she did not say anything again. When her husband returned home, she told her grievances, although she and her mother-in-law also opened up the conversation later, but this matter seemed to become a knot in the hearts of the two little people. Now her husband is determined to divorce her and let her take away her three-month-old child, which makes her incomprehensible for a while, even more unacceptable, so she has not been out for half a month.
Mengmeng said that usually do their own nail art, the husband gives people a tattoo, the two borrowed 100,000 yuan together to open a studio, originally planned to work hard together to repay the money, but now all this imagination is broken. Then the reporter met Xiao Lei, and did not expect Xiao Lei's resolute attitude, and there seemed to be no room for maneuver. So why did he want a divorce with an iron heart? Xiao Lei said that his wife did not go to work after she became pregnant, some time ago because there were fewer people doing tattoos, in order to increase his income, he went to the morning market every morning to sell meat, and his mother worked in the kindergarten, and he had to rush back to cook for his wife at noon every day.
Aunt Liu, the mother-in-law who was talking about the dream, also returned from outside, and she looked helpless when she talked about her son and daughter-in-law. She said that Xiao Lei and his ex-wife have a daughter of more than four years old that she has always brought with her, she has to go to work during the day, but also to take the children home, but also need to cook, wash dishes and do housework, and the last contradiction has become a difficult hurdle in the family's heart, and Mengmeng now asks her son to give her two credit cards. Then Xiao Lei showed the reporter an IOU, which said that the husband and wife jointly owed 30,000 yuan, repaid in installments for one year, and had to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce procedures after paying off the last period, and there were fingerprints and ID card numbers of Xiao Lei and Mengmeng below.
Mengmeng said that at that time, the two negotiated that her husband would bear half of the money owed in her name and pay it off in installments for one year, but seeing that the repayment date was coming, she could not repay the money, so she wanted her husband to settle the money at one time. As for why she wanted her husband to bear her debts, Mengmeng felt that the loan was borrowed by the two of them together, and it was reasonable to let her husband bear half of it, and she still had children in her belly, and the damage caused to her body should also be compensated to a certain extent. If Xiao Lei repays the money in installments, one day she will not be able to pay for it, and she will not ask for money like Xiao Lei. But Because Xiao Lei owed a lot of money last year, he did not have the conditions to take out tens of thousands of yuan at a time to Mengmeng, who said that he would take away the child after paying off the money.
Under the persuasion of the reporter, the two closed the door and had a long and calm conversation. The next day, the reporter came to Xiao Lei's house again, mengmeng said that both of them have decided to end this marriage relationship, at present her credit card owes about 30,000 yuan, asking Xiao Lei to pay her a one-time payment of 35,000 yuan, of which 30,000 yuan is used to return the card and 5,000 yuan is used for surgery. Because he still has 40,000 yuan to repay, he can't support a child, so he can only do surgery. After a while, Aunt Liu's mother and son also walked over, and brought a divorce agreement, the content of which was probably that Mengmeng received the divorce certificate on the same day and gave her 10,000 yuan after induction surgery, and the rest of the money was paid later.
But Mengmeng did not agree with the practice of installment payment, and she repeatedly stressed that she was in a hurry to pay back her credit card, and paying back one day late meant one more day's interest. Now Mengmeng and Xiaolei do not trust each other, Mengmeng is worried that he has done a divorce and did surgery, Xiaolei regrets not giving money, and Xiaolei's family is worried that Mengmeng took the money but insisted on giving birth to a child, and things will be more troublesome in the future. After ten minutes, Aunt Liu called the reporter into the house, and she said that she could give the money to Mengmeng at one time, but only if Mengmeng needed to write down what the money was used for. Mengmeng agreed and wrote a letter of commitment on the spot, and XiaoLei and she both signed the pledge.
This marriage is already Xiao Lei's second divorce, Xiao Lei said that this matter does have a great impact on him, he will seriously think about how to go in the future, how to protect those who love him. And the young dream has also grown a lot from this matter, and will listen to the advice of parents in the future, since the choice of marriage, should assume the responsibility of each other in the marriage, when holding each other's hand, we must understand that this hand is not casually taken up by the household registration, which is a responsibility, the responsibility of the two families, and the cultivation and cultivation of the future. Marriage is not a child's play, do not easily hold hands, do not let go at will, divorce should not be a weight of gambling.
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