College students read at night
Most of the students around me are asked, "When you are in love, will you tell your parents?" Whenever he hesitates, most of the people who blurt out are: "No." ”
The relationship between love and parents is always difficult to solve. Especially in such a university period when there was no economic independence and the people around him were from all over the world.
Pingping talked about her first relationship in her junior year.
But she didn't want to tell her mother that she was in love.
Pingping was born beautifully since he was a child, and when he was in middle school, there were little boys who were in the spring heart to express their "love" to Pingping. But Pingping's mother taught Pingping to do the right thing at the right time since she was a child, so she never thought about falling in love.
Pingping entered the university, and her mother told her before the start of the semester that she had already gone to college, and she would no longer manage Pingping in the matter of falling in love, but Pingping also had to make her own choices.
After Pingping fell in love this time, he didn't want to tell his mother.
After the flat roommate Mengmeng fell in love, she couldn't wait to share it with her parents, but her parents poured a basin of cold water on her.
In the university, students come from all over the world, everywhere. Mengmeng's boyfriend's hometown is separated from Mengmeng's hometown by more than half of China, which makes Mengmeng's parents very resistant.
Girls who are in love can't help but plan the future of the two. In the dream's mind, I don't know how many times I have updated the "blueprint" of the future of myself and my boyfriend. Therefore, she firmly told her parents that she recognized him.
However, this also makes Mengmeng's parents more and more resistant to Mengmeng's boyfriend.
In fact, Mengmeng's parents did not do anything excessive, but when Mengmeng returned home, they would tell Mengmeng about the pain of long-distance marriage; in the economy of Mengmeng, they did not give Mengmeng the support to fall in love; they would also forward it to the family group when they saw videos and articles about the bitterness of far-distance marriage, and they would also specially apt Dream Dream...
Mengmeng's love affair ended in less than half a year.
Ping Ping felt from the bottom of his heart that his mother would not be like this, and in Ping Ping's heart, his mother was the most enlightened parent he had ever seen.
But PingPing didn't plan to tell his mother either.
Even if you can't get the material support of your parents, even if you can't let your mother witness your love, even if this will make you even send an "official" circle of friends to block your parents, and you have to establish a label, because you will have to block it in the future.
Because Ping Ping felt in his heart that he should not appeal to his parents for a newly developed relationship, he at least had to wait until the relationship was stable to let his mother know.
Even if Ping Ping does not want to admit it, in Ping Ping's heart, love and marriage are completely different, and she is not sure that she will definitely go on with the other party.
"A relationship that doesn't have the purpose of getting married is a hooligan." But in Ping Ping's heart, she really seems to be "playing a rogue", Ping Ping feels that she knows these points very well in her heart, and she does not know if she will always go with him.
Ping Ping felt that he was very realistic, not at all like a little girl who had just fallen in love.
Ping Ping knows that her mother is very open-minded, but her mother can't help but nag.
For Pingping, marriage must follow the advice of his parents, because his parents' experience is incomparable to his own. But now I am in love, and what I want to enjoy in love is pure feelings, and I don't want to think a lot in love.
For Pingping, falling in love is a matter for himself and him, and when he is really determined that he wants to go with him all the time, it is not too late to tell his parents. At that time, I would carefully consider the suggestions of my parents.
Love is a wonderful thing.
Most of the love in college is very pure, afraid to tell parents, there may be inner uncertainty, may be afraid of parental obstruction, may also be afraid of the seven aunts and eight aunts after knowing the questioning.
If you are in love, do you want to tell your parents? Everyone will have their own considerations, think clearly, and don't be self-defeating.
Author 丨 Liang Yaru
Editor 丨Yang Qinyu
Audit 丨 Wang Longlong
Review 丨 Wang Cen Yu
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