■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, preface.
Ordinary people often say: Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been natural enemies. But this sentence does not seem to be finished, that is, men are useless, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. In fact, the so-called mother-in-law relationship is originally a by-product of marriage, so that two mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law who only have interests and no direct relationship can coexist peacefully in a family for a long time, and they must reach a point of water and milk.
Therefore, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must let go of possessiveness, knowing that two people come together because they love the same man deeply, and if there is a conflict, it will undoubtedly make him feel deeply embarrassed in the middle. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, the family is happy and harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the chicken and egg fight will never have a peaceful day. And when the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is deadlocked, sometimes, stay away from each other, perhaps, this is also a seemingly helpless, but it is also the right choice. Otherwise, such a practice as netizen Zhang Xiaofeng is really a sad thing.
02, the woman is not high or low, married to the phoenix man at the age of 30.
After graduating from university, Zhang Xiaofeng came to work in the beautiful city of Jiangsu. In order to settle down in this city full of red maple leaves in autumn, Zhang Xiaofeng has made a lot of efforts. She knows that if a person wants to really gain a foothold in a city, he must learn to integrate into the work and life of the city, so she works very hard and works very seriously. Slowly, thanks to her efforts, she finally settled down in the city.
However, when she had her own house, she suddenly found that she was already a woman of thirty. It is said that "men have forty-one flowers, and women have thirty tofu scum", although this sentence has some demeaning meanings for women, but women are really old when they reach the age of thirty. As a woman, once you miss the flowering period, if you want to get married, you have to lower your requirements and put down your body. Later, under the introduction of the second aunt, she met a phoenix man named Song Shaojie. After a period of contact and love, she finally made the decision to marry Song Shaojie.
03, for the marriage she looked down, did not expect that the mother-in-law had to inch forward.
Zhang Xiaofeng has a deep-rooted idea of "marrying a chicken with a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog". She knows that a real marriage needs to be managed and requires the hard work of a woman. To this end, she returned home from work on time every day to take care of housework, and chose to bow her eyebrows to her husband, trying to keep her family quiet and organized. Zhang Xiaofeng believes that it is very necessary to rely on his own patience and dedication, and when he has a child, he can let his child live in a quiet environment. However, Zhang Xiaofeng's forbearance and dedication began to change after her mother-in-law came to her home.
Originally, this house was bought by Zhang Xiaofeng, and her mother-in-law came to her home, although she said that she came to help take care of housework. But because Zhang Xiaofeng has not yet given birth to a child, there are not many chores in the family. And the mother-in-law stayed in this home for a long time, so she slowly regarded this home as her hometown in the countryside. She grows vegetables on the balcony of her home and raises a few chickens in a corner of the neighborhood. Every day at home, he used the living room to serve some local souvenirs in the countryside. The originally orderly home, since the mother-in-law came, began to change, and the mother-in-law also had a big posture, saying that she wanted to take some products back to process and sell for money.
04, for three years she has worked hard to make money, but her husband and mother-in-law are getting lazier and lazier.
Zhang Xiaofeng did not interfere much with her family, for marriage, and in her mother-in-law's behavior. She knows that if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to be good, they need to understand and give in to each other, although she will also talk to her husband about her mother-in-law's behavior. But her husband Song Shaojie always said that her mother was a rural woman in the countryside, and she liked to do it, and she liked to do it, so let her do it. After the child is there, she will not have time to deal with these things.
However, for three years, Zhang Xiaofeng has not been pregnant. Maybe it's because I'm older, maybe it's because I'm too busy at work. However, in the past three years, she has been working hard to make money, and her family has added a lot of things, most of which she bought with her money. Zhang Xiaofeng worked so hard for the family, but her husband Song Shaojie and her mother-in-law seemed to be getting lazier and lazier. Sometimes Zhang Xiaofeng returns home from work, and the family's meals are still waiting for her to cook. Although Zhang Xiaofeng also complained, she still showed generosity and forbearance, and did not show it on her face.
05, the mother-in-law often brings relatives to come, and she uses the daughter-in-law's home as a residence.
The mother-in-law seems to be a very enthusiastic person. But the scope of her enthusiasm is only expressed in her own relatives and friends. The mother-in-law's home is in the countryside, and many people from the hometown in the countryside come to the city to find a job, and the mother-in-law always likes to bring people from her hometown to the family. Sometimes, she also warmly invited her hometown to stay at Zhang Xiaofeng's home for a day or two. Although the mother-in-law did not care about these people living at home, Zhang Xiaofeng cared. After all, she bought the house, and she didn't want outsiders to disturb her family's quiet life all the time.
However, in order to save enough face for her mother-in-law and her husband Song Shaojie, Zhang Xiaofeng still retains an excellent connotation. When her husband's hometown people came to live in her house temporarily, she also took the initiative to buy vegetables and cook for them, retaining the good side of a woman. However, these relatives and friends from the countryside came and went, went and went, and came and went, and visited frequently, which really caused her a lot of trouble, and she really did not like these people to disturb. However, the enthusiastic mother-in-law and the husband who did not think so made Zhang Xiaofeng fall into helpless distress.
06, the Spring Festival mother-in-law called friends and friends, and the woman's home became a food stall.
After the Lantern Festival in 2022, Zhang Xiaofeng's family came to a group of people. They came to Zhang Xiaofeng's home with local souvenirs, saying that they had come to the city to visit their mother-in-law, and hoped that Song Shaojie could help them find a job. Since she is a relative and friend of her hometown, her mother-in-law naturally behaves very hospitable, and she directs Zhang Xiaofeng to go to the supermarket to buy a lot of fresh meat and fish and shrimp, and also let Song Shaojie take out barbecue utensils. A group of people ate and drank at Zhang Xiaofeng's house and started a barbecue.
Watching his home become a barbecue stall, Zhang Xiaofeng was really angry and helpless. Those relatives and friends, greeted by their mother-in-law, also regarded Zhang Xiaofeng's home as their hometown in the countryside. Under the command of Song Shaojie, they spoke loudly, drank happily, and even moved the barbecue to the hall. Seeing that her good home had become a food stall, Zhang Xiaofeng felt that she could no longer endure like this, and she wanted to find a way to make this phenomenon end from now on.
07, the woman's birthday did not even eat a hot meal, she desperately overturned the table.
This day is Zhang Xiaofeng's birthday. However, Zhang Xiaofeng was busy all day for her mother-in-law's relatives and friends from the countryside. When those people had eaten and drunk enough, they gathered around Zhang Xiaofeng's house to watch TV, chat loudly, and say short words from their parents. Zhang Xiaofeng, on the other hand, was cleaning up the mess and washing vigorously in the kitchen. She washed the dishes, but the tears fell without a fight. At this time, the mother-in-law shouted at Zhang Xiaofeng in the living room, saying that she wanted Zhang Xiaofeng to come out and tidy up the dining table so that the hometown people could play cards.
At this point, Zhang Xiaofeng was desperate, she felt that she was no longer angry, and if she did not give these people a little color to see, her home would never have a peaceful day. So she strode out, flipped over the dinner table, and then shouted hysterically: "Today is my birthday, and none of you care about me!" And they turned my home into a food stall, I don't want to get used to you anymore, you all get me out! Those relatives and friends saw Zhang Xiaofeng, who had always been quiet, and quickly left in a gray and slippery manner, leaving only her mother-in-law and Song Shaojie standing at home stunned.
08, Concluding Remarks.
Friends, Zhang Xiaofeng bought the house herself, but she has always tolerated her mother-in-law and relatives and friends in her hometown to disturb, is it too humble for her to do so? For the sake of family and marriage, Zhang Xiaofeng chose long-term forbearance, she did this, right? And the mother-in-law and Song Shaojie forgot Zhang Xiaofeng's feelings for the sake of their relatives and friends in their hometown, and when they did this, did they not care too much about Zhang Xiaofeng? Finally, Zhang Xiaofeng angrily rushed to the crown and overturned the dinner table, was it too much for her to do so? Next, will Zhang Xiaofeng continue to choose to be patient, or choose divorce? Please leave a message in the comment area, let's communicate together. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.