Text/Flying Fish
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When people are alive, they don't need to find answers, because time will tell you that in their old age, everything will be understood, everything will be seen through, and the answer will be revealed.
People look at it, many landscapes are no longer there, life is limited, life is limited, some regrets will eventually end, and some people will eventually leave.
People walk along, a lot of sorrows and joys, all put down, because at this age, if you don't put it down, you can't live with yourself in this life.
In old age, people understand that life is precious, health is the best, and how much gold and silver wealth is more important than peace and health.
In old age, people understand that with a good attitude, everything is good, and not counting is happiness. Home and everything is happy, it is wisdom to be confused, and life is plain and plain, which is the true meaning.
In old age, good and bad, there will be answers revealed. Toast to the old age with a glass of wine: the rest of your life, cherish!
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In the old age, the children are filial piety or not, and they all know it.
Some people say that raising children prevents aging. In fact, if the child is filial piety, then you can give you a pension, if the child is not filial piety, but still nibble the old, then their old age will be very desolate.
Filial piety children, they will do their best to be good to you, to take care of you, and even take you to their side, live with you, and accompany you to grow old for the rest of your life.
When people reach old age, it is a very happy thing to be able to enjoy the happiness of heaven, but some people are lonely in their old age, but they are in a state of solitude, and the bitterness in their hearts is only clear to themselves.
People in their old age, there is a wife to accompany around, that is fine, if the wife left first, left alone, the child does not often go home, then their own care is also very difficult, even many people have given up cooking, they go out to eat every meal, take care of their own body, is the most important.
03
In the old age of man, who is really good to you and who is false to you, all see clearly.
I have experienced so much in life and finally learned to see people clearly. Many people are actually wearing masks that are good for you, but they just want to do something on you. So after achieving the goal, it disappeared.
And some people, who are really good to you, have been paying for themselves for so many years.
There is a saying that good friends, go together for a lifetime.
In this life, in addition to their own family, the one who is closest to themselves and spends the longest time with themselves is still one or two of the best friends around them.
People in this life, wind and rain life, all the way over, with their company and help, can go to the end, how lucky.
04
In the old age, in fact, there is only one person who can rely on the most, that is, himself.
Relying on parents, parents will grow old, relying on their wives, their wives will also go first, relying on their children, their children will also take care of themselves and have their own lives.
When you are old, you still have to rely on yourself, even if you live alone, even if you eat alone, even if you live alone, you must live better, eat well, sleep well, exercise well, only if you are in good health, you can not trouble others, and do whatever you want.
In the old age, people say realistically, they must have a sum of money for the elderly, can not be casually given to others, can not be squandered casually, money is the most real, no money is difficult to move.
People have a little money in their hands, so that they can live with confidence, buy what they want to eat, and go out to play when they want to.
People get old, spend some money, and please themselves. There are many things you want to do, you can make a list and do it in time, so as not to leave regrets in life.
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In old age, it is the most important thing for people to live according to their own wishes.
Nowadays, many elderly people do not want to rely on their children, even if they live alone, they also want to keep a distance from their children and live their own lives. If you feel that you are too lonely at home, you choose to go to a nursing home, where life is colorful and there are people who talk, so some people choose the life they want when they are old.
When people get old, they live according to their own wishes, it is very good, and they feel that how to live well, how to live the rest of their lives.
78-year-old Grandma Zhang said that she has two women, both married far away, the eldest daughter wants to take her to live in the past, but Grandma Zhang is unwilling, but chose to live in a nursing home, she feels that there are rich activities, but also to make friends, live with people of her own age, have something to talk about, but also alleviate loneliness, and can live a colorful life in her old age, which is what she wants.
Therefore, I hope that each of us can live according to our own wishes when we are old, although we live a bland life, but every day is our own, and the real happiness that we find ourselves is the real taste of life.
Everyone has their own answer in their hearts in their old age, and they don't have to ask others to understand it themselves.
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