A lifetime of not marrying or marrying the wrong person, which do you think is more terrible?
What is it like to like someone?
What are the prerequisites for measuring whether a person is worth loving?
I believe that male and female friends, there are in the hot love period, there are also hand in hand to marry, do you have any special feelings now?
A few friends chatted together and said, "It's very simple, didn't you all come for the face value at the beginning!" ”
In the era of looking at faces, where is there so much time to look at something else?
Men and women, do you believe in the phenomenon of aesthetic fatigue?
Humans are the product of emotions, and other animals are also emotional, but few people pay too much attention to it!
This is why many people like to have pets, people who like cats, dogs and dogs in the family must believe that pets are full of real emotions, and they also firmly recognize that people and pets can establish a good connection, and understand each other's mood in seconds!
Yeah, that's right, people are the same!
We have just met a friend of the opposite sex, or a strange friend, and there is an inexplicable desire to be paid attention to by others, so that people can value themselves and recognize themselves!
If you think about it, are there any of these feelings?
As for aesthetic fatigue, I believe that many friends are still out of reach, and they can't understand it for a while!
We can look around us to see if there is a phenomenon of aesthetic fatigue!
For a simple example, if we dig into some reasons for those men and women who have been divorced many times, we will slowly find that they may be getting along in the fatigue stage at the moment, but they are deeply trapped in it and cannot extricate themselves!
Some time ago, several old friends who had not seen each other for many years got together by chance and talked happily!
If life is only like the feeling of first sight, it is especially strong!
When a person has been in contact for a long time, suddenly has not seen each other for a while, and reunites again, that feeling must be experienced by friends!
There was a little episode during the dinner, that is, there was a friend who was married three times and divorced three times!
That's right, I'm alone now!
The specific reason is unknown, maybe there are too many sweet and sour, bitter and spicy!
This friend said something that is still worth remembering!
If you like a person, you want to fight desperately; when you have the right to win, you can't learn to cherish it!
You taste, you taste, do you perceive any taste coming?
The nature of animals, survival of the fittest!
Who wouldn't want to find a high-looking opposite sex to be with?
But after being together, I found that there were too many problems with each other, at first it was okay, the two people could still talk calmly, but after talking, things did not fundamentally change, more and more problems, from time to time at a certain moment, it will cause conflict, emotional control may occur at any time!
At this time, if there is another confidant, the fresh curiosity of human beings will begin to flood!
People get along with each other, saying that it is simple is simple, and saying that it is complicated becomes complicated!
Especially the boyfriend and girlfriend who have been divorced many times, perhaps overlooking one point, that is, after getting married, after the polishing of time, both sides have lost their original interest and freshness!
Couples who have been married for many years, sincerely sigh, most people at first think that they are married to the right person, but then slowly found that we just deceived ourselves, many times, especially in the process of reality, the so-called love, is nothing more than our naïve fantasy!
For young men and women in love, two people holding hands with each other will be heartbroken and excited!
But compared to couples who have been married for many years, it is as simple and boring as holding the right hand with the left hand!
Divorce is just two people who have lived their original fresh lives into boring, and then boredom begins to become suspicious of love!
As everyone knows, the two people just started together, but it was also an ordinary day, and the only thing that changed was that there was an extra heterosexual being!
A person's appearance will also be slowly consumed with time!
I have always advised young men and women that there is nothing wrong with liking looks, there is nothing wrong with liking a person, and the only thing to pay attention to is that there is no continuous exploration of each other's advantages, and then give good feedback!
Lovers who have just come into contact, but anyone who sees a small advantage of the other party, will show it off!
But how can a couple who have been married for many years stare at each other's shortcomings everywhere and have been grumpy?
There is no need to love someone for any reason, and there may be too many excuses to leave someone!
What is love? When you stare at a member of the opposite sex for more than 5 seconds, maybe then love begins to brew in your heart!
What is trouble? When the one next to you, in some trivial things of daily life, cannot understand you in time, repressed emotions begin to arise!
It is said that it is easy to love someone, but the hard thing is to always love each other, continuous love!
Many people have achieved a short love like the moment of volcanic eruption, and what is missing is a mentality of thin water and long flow!
Love, beautiful love, from the value of the face, from the like, do not lose to the ordinary life!
Between people, speak frankly, get along gently, live well, there is no flame mountain that cannot be crossed, you say?
Two mouths together, you can also transform the dissatisfaction and conflict in life into a driving force for progress, mainly depending on whether both sides have the determination and perseverance to work together!
Learn to laugh at life, it is not impossible!
Young men and women, we need romantic love, but also need to spend a lifetime of confidants; reality and our desired vision after all, there is a gap, it does not matter do not have to worry too much, two people struggle together, is not to let the so-called gap narrow, and strive to achieve a beautiful dream!
Not marrying for a lifetime, or marrying the wrong person, will make people afraid; not personally experiencing the happiness brought about by marriage is far greater than the trivialities and troubles in real life; marrying the wrong person is not a big deal, isn't every day of life a choice to start over?
Friends, you say?