Xiao Hao [pseudonym] and Xiao Mei [pseudonym] are a couple who met in the third year of high school, although they were busy with their studies at that time, but the two people still liked to die and live happily, the two were not the kind of children who did not understand things, although they also occupied some academic time for love, but the two people's family conditions were similar, they were not from rich families, and the family for them to study was also frugal, so the two people chose to focus on their studies at the sprint college stage and meet on the university campus.
Although the girl's score line reached the admission notice line of a normal university in Shenzhen, but the boy was not admitted, but was admitted to a teacher training school in the provincial capital of the province, there was no way for the girl to give up the admission quota of Shanghai Normal School for love, and chose to be with the boy, so a couple went to the same university, although they were divided into different classes, but they were really together.
In the four years where the university is located, the first 3 years of the two people are tired of being together as soon as they are free, Xiao Hao because he is a boy, so most of the love expenses are borne by him, and the girlfriend is not poor and loves to be rich and does not understand that love is the truth of mutual payment, so she also took her own money to spend with two people, until the last year of college, the relationship between the two has undergone wonderful changes, after all, no matter how much money the two people save, but because Xiao Hao has always had the habit of loving to buy hands, the result is often because of an excitement to buy hands, As a result, the food expenses of the two people have been reduced, almost because of this matter, the two also moved their hands, naturally Xiao Hao just pretended to look, raised his hand and gently put it on the girlfriend's head to touch, but the girlfriend belongs to the girl with a hot temper, out of the hand without mercy, every time is fierce, the result was once fanned on Xiao Hao's face, so that he had Venus in his eyes for a long time, Xiao Hao was tinnitus at the time, and he was angry, but he couldn't do anything with his girlfriend, and he was going to leave when he turned around. What did he really want to be the object of such a Hedong lion roar at that moment? Sooner or later will be hit out of the problem, or not to divide it, but did not go far, I heard my girlfriend crying behind me, so I turned back with a soft heart, my girlfriend is indeed too pure and beautiful, and it is my first love, I really can't bear to let go, it is really Zhou Yu playing Huang Gai, killing without a word of complaint, who let him want it!
However, the gap between the two people still came inadvertently, a boy who likes to buy a hand, must also be an anime fan, after all, the hand is an anime image, if there is no obsession with the anime story, how can you be willing to spend a lot of money to buy the anime image of the hand? And the girlfriend began to dislike his childishness on this reason, can't save the money? Even the two people's meal money has been affected, about to graduate, the job is important, and there is no responsibility for not having a family here, which has made the girlfriend a little confused. The most important thing is that the time to accompany his girlfriend has begun to decrease, every time he asks is that his favorite anime has begun to have a new update, must watch, but also let Xiaomei drunk, how to stall such a childish boyfriend, actually or first love!
Just when she was about to graduate, Xiaomei still took the initiative to break up with Xiao Hao, not for anything else, even for her parents, she could no longer carry out the childish feelings of the two people, she said that she had been thinking about it for a few days, she had to be inseparable, she felt that the two could not have any future, but she was too stupid and naïve, the good Shenzhen school did not go, for such an anime fan wasted her future, she was really sorry for her hard-working parents, I hope Xiao Hao can let go, he will meet the other half who matches him.
Where Xiao Hao is willing to listen, think that Xiao Mei is not someone outside, but carefully think about Xiao Mei around and do not find anything abnormal, so he began to beg Xiao Mei not to be so desperate, you are my first love, how can you be so sloppy.
Xiaomei also fell into confusion for a while, and finally took Xiaohao to find the head of the department, the head of the department is a female professor, at least 30 years older than them, usually approachable, and many classmates have a good relationship like friends, the key is knowledge and knowledge, but also willing to answer questions for students in life, so Xiaomei pulled Xiaohao to see the head of the department, hoping that she can answer questions about her love.
The head of the department led them into a separate room, listened to their fights, innocent love stories, meaningful and red eyes said, I missed me too much, this innocent love without interests is encounterable and unattainable, many years later they will definitely recall today's sweetness, that is the most precious experience in life.
Xiaomei seemed to be thoughtful after listening, but Xiao Hao was straightforward and fast-talking, look, the head of the department is also optimistic about our pure love.
But Xiaomei always felt that something was wrong, although it did belong to innocent love, but in the end, why could she still not tolerate Xiao Hao and began to resent his childish behavior? In the end, Xiaomei still chose to break up with Xiaohao when she graduated, and she really couldn't really integrate her boyfriend's naivety into her life.
26 years old when Xiaomei married, the man is a 31-year-old self-employed small boss, high Chinese, to tell the truth, the family still has objections to this marriage, after all, there is a gap in the academic qualifications of the two people, during the period of being a teacher, the school pursues Xiaomei's male colleagues, there are also teachers from outside the school, including the original love Xiaohao, or Yu Xin is not dead to ask for a compound, but Xiaomei is unable to accept these stunned youth, and this 31-year-old object makes her willing to marry without hesitation.
In the spirit of honesty with her husband, Xiaomei also asked her husband about this matter, after all, although her husband's education is not as high as hers, but in her eyes she feels that her husband is really the kind of person who can be her life teacher, the husband is not the kind of warm man, nor does he belong to the rich man, but it is such a man who is neither considerate and romantic, nor enough to be rich in gold and assets, but it makes Xiaomei feel extremely loving, of course, the husband is not handsome, and you still think that his appearance is lower than the middle in the crowd. It is this man who is not superior in all aspects, but he occupies Xiaomei's entire heart steadily.
The husband listened to hey hey a smile, said: The answer is actually very simple, first, there is data showing that the coefficient of couples in the university to successfully become husband and wife is less than ten percent, which is part of the problem of two people being separated after graduation, but the real prevention of two people together, in fact, is the second article: girls mature earlier than boys, and as a mature woman, the first reason to understand will be to choose self-motivated boys, and self-motivation says that the popular point is careerism, the responsibility of supporting the family, The initiative and ability of the independent side, and most of the men in college to mature late, even if some of them mature early, it will be a very small minority, and even if they are mature, his cognition of the world is just beginning, the insight into life is half-understood, and the mature thinking of girls began to establish their own re-perception of the world to know the values of men, that is, women always prefer men who can make themselves look up. Many men and even society generally think that women are sensual, they understand: gentle, considerate, romantic plus gold is the premise of women like men, this is only the applicable standard for women born poor, and in fact, a mature highly educated woman, not a man's gentleness, thoughtfulness, romantic plus gold, but precisely the man's mature cognition plus the charm of the side, this is the so-called interesting soul, absolutely does not refer to humorous conversation, but has a brilliant plan, wisdom, and foundation in the brain. As long as there are these, in addition to the gap in the house is not easy to cross, the bride price plus the car ticket are floating clouds, which is like Liu Bei saw Zhuge Liang after a long discussion on the knees after seeing each other and hating the feeling of pity, to put it bluntly, mature women prefer talented boys, and a talented boy Do you think he will be poor for a lifetime? After all, the head decides to pocket, you say? As the old saying goes: Lang Cai's female appearance can be described as a sharp point.
Xiaomei looked at her husband's tenderness like water, and her husband was actually a perverse reasoning and heresy, but the words were pearlescent, profound and eye-catching. Xiao Hao really can't compare, although Xiao Hao is younger and more educated and is still her first love, but now women are pursuing their own love, she can't deceive her heart.
So now everyone is talking about the high material requirements of women, so there are so many elderly leftover women, do you see this? Xiaomei asked again.
The husband continues to witty remarks: part of the requirements for high material foundation of the elderly leftover women, the so-called lack of what in life is more like to ask for what from the object of love, and the other part is that they have a material basis, so the material basis can even be reduced to zero, but for the man's talent requirements are rising, just like the Tang Dynasty great poet Li Bai, married four wives, two of whom are the daughters of the prime minister, two are the daughters of rich merchants, and wrote down the famous sentences of the ages: Thousands of gold scattered and returned, The thousands of gold in this are also inseparable from the contribution of his four wives, after all, the daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family is a family foundation of more gold, can you say that the older leftover women are left because of the high material basis requirements? That Li Baiming was poorer than his daughters-in-law's family, so why did everyone rush to marry him and pay him money to spend? Understand what women really like about men, and then talk about why there are more leftover women, because Li Bai, Zhuge Liang's talented men are really too few,
Since you can't use your head to decide your marriage, you can only use your money to prove your sincerity
In other words, there are too few high-quality and talented boys, and most of the people in the world, especially ordinary people, know that women only recognize money, in fact, a man without money can still let a beautiful woman elope with him, or he does not know enough about the world, there will be a misinterpretation of the real needs of the elderly leftover women, and even some older leftover women are not even clear about their real mate selection standards, because they are also born ordinary, such as xiaomei, the real reason why you broke up with your first love, I don't say you can recognize it clearly?
Xiaomei thought carefully, this life is planted in the hands of her husband, although she is born with a beautiful appearance there is no lack of suitors, but the mind decides to act, see the sages and think together, life is not easy to know oneself, the depth of the husband's view of the problem is a kind of talent, let her see each other and hate late, even if the family opposes her marriage, but she is the right to like, must marry, but also with him white head with the old age! The love that emanates from the depths of her heart is the real love, and at this time she understands that the so-called first love does not refer to her first love, but her first love that is really wholehearted, which is the first love, such as now that she and his beloved husband, this relationship is the unforgettable first love, and Xiao Hao, even if she recalls that kind of non-utilitarian love in old age, what can it mean? Is that pure love? In fact, no, if you think it is, to put it bluntly, you really have not met a man who has matured you, a man with talent and wisdom and a lot higher than you, even if he looks ordinary, it is estimated that you will also like to go deep into the bone marrow, because the lover's eyes are out of the west, all shortcomings can be tolerated, just to be able to work with him hand in hand, this is true love!