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When in love, if two people really sincerely want to be together, then the inevitable two people will make a lot of considerations for future things. After all, two people really want to work hand in hand with each other and spend a lifetime together.
Therefore, in daily life, you will put the other party's affairs on your own heart, and you may even say a casual word from the other party, and you will try your best to complete the other party's wishes. This is what a normal couple should do for each other.
After getting married, as a husband, you should also maintain your wife everywhere in the marriage. And in the family, you must also know your wife's hardships, so that life can become more and more improved, and there will not be so many contradictions in the family.
The contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is sometimes due to the lack of mediation by the person in the middle. It can be said that the husband wants to act as a mediator in this matter.
When Lu Xiao first fell in love, he found that his boyfriend was a person who was very considerate of girls. During his menstrual period, his boyfriend can even be said to be able to arrange everything for Lu Xiao. Even after getting married, he still put Lu Xiao on the tip of his heart and never let Lu Xiao be wronged in his own family.
01. Boyfriend's thoughtfulness towards his girlfriend
When Lu Xiao was in college, he was with his current boyfriend Qiao Hai. When the two people first talked about love, they were particularly shy when communicating with each other. Often two people are together, even if they hold hands, they dare not look at each other.
But even if it was like this, Qiao Hai and Lu Xiao didn't like each other in their hearts. Even if two people don't say a word together, they feel very happy when they are with each other. Two people eat together three times a day every day, and they usually go to the library to study together if they have any learning activities.
After the conversation partner arrived, he became more and more familiar with the communication mode with the other party. And it also figured out how two people should get along with each other when they are in love. So later, the two people get along more and more naturally, and you can know from other people that the feelings of the two people are really special.
Sometimes when Lu Xiao is menstruating, due to his physiological period reaction, he always can't go out to dinner and date with his boyfriend normally in the first few days. Qiao Hai would always get up early in the morning to buy food for Lu Xiao, and all he bought was what Lu Xiao should eat during this time.
Qiao Hai would remember everything about Lu Xiao, no matter how small the details were. For example, what Lu Xiao likes to eat and what he does not like to eat, some small problems in his personality will also be firmly remembered in his heart. So two people will not quarrel in these aspects, and when they fall in love, they have always been a model couple in other people.
After graduating from college, the two people still found jobs together, and after having a fixed income, the jobs of the two people gradually stabilized. Two people usually care more about the time with each other, and usually when they are on vacation, they will also set a goal together to travel. Every day is a very fulfilling life.
And the two of them had never blushed over anything in so many years, not even arguing with each other loudly. This made Lu Xiao more and more satisfied with his boyfriend, and his relationship with the other party became more and more stable.
02. Life after marriage is still honey and oil
When the two reached the age of twenty-five or six, the family began to prepare for the marriage of their children. The two people also clearly confessed to the family that they had a good partner. So in love to get married has always been a person, so that two people feel that this relationship is really hard-won.
So after getting married, Qiao Hai still treats his girlfriend as his favorite as before. Even if Lu Xiao casually wanted to eat the cake, Qiao Hai would go around the long way to buy it back when he got off work the next day. Such details always made Lu Xiao feel very happy.
In life, two people will often say something to each other to express their love. It's even about preparing a small gift for the other person on some memorable day. Such romance is endless in the lives of two people, and two people will not feel that there is anything bad about being with each other.
The two people have such a good relationship that their friends are particularly envious in their hearts. It is a particularly strange thing to think that two people can be together for such a long time and not have any quarrels. But the two men did.
03. After the mother-in-law came, she broke the calm
The two people's lives were very stable, and Lu Xiao also felt that such a day was like the married life he had imagined before. Have people you love and live happy days. There was simply no more satisfying to Lu Xiao than his current state.
After saying these words, Qiao Hai also heard it from the side. Just say to The Landing Shin, if there is some discomfort in the heart. He told himself directly, and said that his mother was somewhat unreasonable, even if it was not a good attitude towards his son. Moreover, Lu Xiao has been spoiled by his parents since he was a child, and indeed he has not done anything to serve people.
When the mother-in-law came, the mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with the daughter-in-law. I always felt that my daughter-in-law was a person who could not lift her hands and shoulders.
04. The mother-in-law's false crying
Sometimes Lu Xiao would tell his mother-in-law at home that he hoped that her mother-in-law could help her take something. No, he was always very unhappy, and he said something very ugly to Lu Xiao. This made Lu Xiao's heart also feel very wronged, and when Qiao Hai returned in the evening, he would talk to Qiao Hai.
She actually called me like a. You wife, I really can't look at it. I see that sooner or later you two will have to divide, and when the time comes, find me a person who knows how to be filial piety. ”
Before Lu Xiao could open his mouth to speak, he heard Qiao Hai's mother crying to her son about her daughter-in-law's filial piety, and Lu Xiao also felt very wronged. How could this mother-in-law of his own open her eyes and speak blindly, and the evil person sued first?
What the mother-in-law did not expect was that her son actually said, "I let it, my wife is too late to hurt." How can you do all those dirty things? If you want to find a presence in this home, you don't have to. Whatever day you want to live, we can all be satisfied with all our hearts, but I also hope that you will not break my stable days. ”
After Qiao Hai said this, sure enough, the mother-in-law changed her attitude. I also know that I have behaved like this, but I just let my relationship with my son become worse and worse. Later, he didn't argue with Lu Xiao and the two of them at home much, and he never had a disagreement with his daughter-in-law again.
In fact, as a mother-in-law in the family, as long as young people can live a better life. Then don't interfere too much in other people's lives, and don't point fingers at other people's lives. Don't impose the same ideas of your older generation on the young people of today.
For young people now, because more information will be obtained on the Internet. Therefore, many of the young people's thinking is generally more advanced and very modern. People of the older generation can even be said to have undergone earth-shaking changes in thinking, and they have different solutions in handling things.
Therefore, in life, just maintain a correct understanding of your existing life. Then don't arbitrarily change the lives of others, even if you are an elder, don't raise your status too high in the family.
There will be all kinds of things in life, and no one knows what kind of situation will be encountered tomorrow. Therefore, harmony in the family is very necessary, after all, it will not bring more power to young people.