Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them.
They have broken their hearts for us all their lives, time is merciless, years are like a ruthless sword, looking at the old face, can't help but sigh, parents are running for their children, when can they not worry?
In fact, their wish is very simple, that is, they hope to see their children start a family as soon as possible, form a family, and obtain a happy and happy married life, so they urge marriage year after year.
Children are not in a hurry to marry and have children, no matter how much parents urge, it is useless, and when the time comes, the two sides will compromise.
Even so, parents still can't help but think about their children, worried that if their children die alone, what can they do in their future lives? How do you feed yourself?
Netizen: It's really sad old lady
Recently, a certain place of netizens posted a picture, people sighed, nearby residents inadvertently saw two women planting vegetables in the vegetable garden, watched for a long time, gradually understood the good intentions behind this, the photographer said that they are mother-daughter relationship, girls are more than 30 years old this year, so far has not started a family.
Poor parents in the world, the mother is very worried, afraid that the child will not be able to support themselves in the future, there is an idle vegetable garden at home, even if they are unemployed or old in the future, they can still eat delicious food by growing vegetables.
The mother directed and taught her daughter how to cultivate the land, not far away put a lot of farming tools, full of equipment, although the garden is not large, but it is more than enough to plant some fruits and vegetables, enough to feed a small family.
Seeing this scene, first of all, I think it is funny, the old man is not afraid of overdoing, the daughter will not be mixed to the point of not being able to eat, and then think carefully to understand her good intentions, can't help but make people wet eyes, the grace of parents is greater than the sky, we have no way to repay in our lifetime, even if the parents are old, they still miss their children, and hope that their children can rely on them.
No one in the world loves us as much as our parents, and they are willing to give their all to make our lives better. Parents will one day grow old and eventually leave our lives, but before that, the most reassuring thing is the child.
There is a 47-year-old unmarried daughter's mother told me: My girl can only find a second marriage now, but the second marriage she does not want to marry, so many years I am most worried about her lifelong events, after finding the best marriage age, the people I meet in the future are not as good as a stubble, delayed to today, can only admit their fate.
At the end of the conversation, in the eyes of this mother, I saw a lot of worry, she was afraid that after she died, her daughter would not be able to take good care of herself, and her tone was trembling.
Perhaps before the age of our parents, we can't understand what it's like to be truly lonely, and the humility of Chinese-style parents is painful to watch.
Every cautious parent has an unbridgeable chasm with their children, watching the scene of the mother patiently teaching her daughter to grow vegetables, and guessing how much the old man has before.
Even if she is not married, she should be reassured, a person can also live a good life, instead of every day muddy, even the basic trivialities of life can not be handled, the best way to make parents feel at ease is to live every day with hard work, enrich their lives, do valuable work, get along with them more, life has always been to see one side less, accompany their parents more, don't let them get old in an instant.