Author: Li Meixuan
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Recently, a small video was spread by netizens on social platforms, and the content of the small video was about a contest between family affection and money, which was roughly as follows:
A pair of siblings are married, the older brother has a daughter and the younger sister has a son. The younger sister should have married earlier than the older brother, so the son was older than the older brother's daughter.
The brother and sister- and sister-in-law, after the death of their father, their mother and sister-in-law lived together.
The brother-in-law's life is still good, the sister and brother-in-law probably because the money is not very powerful, so the economy is more poor, the sister once borrowed 600,000 yuan from her brother, and wrote down an IOU.
One day, the sister took her son to the brother-in-law's house, and when the sister and the mother talked about their life getting more and more difficult, they couldn't help but choke up tears.
After hearing about it, the brother took out the 600,000 IOUs written by his sister, handed them to his sister to see first, and then, despite his sister's obstruction, he personally tore off the IOU and said the following in front of his mother, his daughter, sister, and nephew:
"Because I think the pressure on your two families is too much, and if I want this money, it is only a number, so I don't want to put more pressure on you."
"I tore up this IOU, but also to prevent the future when I am older and my brain is not clear, I am afraid that my child will ask you for this money, and your child will sue you if you can't give it, so I decided today, while I am still sober, when I still have the ability and the right to make this decision, the big brother will give you a big brother."
"If you develop in the future, you can give me this money or give it to my future children." If you've been living on a shoestring, I'm sure I don't want that money. I'm tearing up this IOU now to avoid trouble. ”
"When you first borrowed money and asked you to write down an IOU, I wanted you to know that it is really not easy to make money, and not everyone lives so easily."
"My father left early, and the eldest brother was the father." From today on, you two should not be stressed, live well, and bring up your son well. This is your eldest brother's responsibility to you in your life. ”
After the eldest brother said the above, he said to his nephew: "In the future, my descendants, such as your sister, really have a bad day, you will help and help." You can't be lazy because I don't want this money from your family, you can't study well and give up progress, you must not give up on self-motivation. You have the ability in the future, you have to learn to help your younger brothers and sisters, this is your responsibility and obligation as an older brother, can you help your sister like I do in the future? ”
The nephew said affirmatively, "Yes! ”
(Note: Because the eldest brother has some colloquial language, so according to the meaning of the big brother's speech, I sorted out what the eldest brother said)
(Note: Sister and nephew in the short video)
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There is a saying in China: "Father and son, clear accounting", it is said that in the face of money, blood and affection can only be ranked second.
In the same way, because there are too many brothers and sisters in real life who fight for money, then this saying can also be changed to: "Brothers and sisters, clear accounting." ”
The eldest brother upstairs, personally tore off the 600,000 yuan IOU that his sister had written, and incidentally exported his own values and family values and family values to his family, so generous brother-sister love and family affection, in real life, is it like some kind of miracle with a very low probability?
Therefore, about this small video, there are many opinions, and there is no consensus, which is roughly summarized as nothing more than three voices:
Some voices say that it is a filming paragraph, and the family made an appointment to deliberately rectify a play for the sake of traffic, believing that they are fools;
Some voices say that the eldest brother still has money, and he also has the right to speak at home, so he can be so generous to his sister and brother-in-law, if the eldest brother has no money, the sister-in-law is a housekeeper, and the big brother's family is not strange if they don't fight.
Some voices say that this is the meaning of the existence of the family, whether this video is true or not, it can make me move, such a big brother to give me a dozen.
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As for me, what were your thoughts after watching this little video?
I admit that after watching this little video, I shed tears with a low tear point, and I also wanted to say loudly: "Such a big brother, give me a dozen!" ”
What kind of big brother is such a big brother?
It is the kind of big brother who has wisdom, responsibility, and the most traditional sense of family responsibility in China, respecting the elderly and loving the young, and the eldest brother as the father.
Most people born in the 70s and 80s will have one or two siblings.
Some families, parents education, or even if the parents culture is not high education is not much, but the natural genes are excellent, brothers and sisters often help each other, mutual understanding, family atmosphere is happy and harmonious, the family affection is ranked in front of money, do not care about each other's money to pay, the picture is that whether it is good times or adversity, brothers and sisters can heal each other, grow together, so that this blood affection becomes the best encounter in each other's life.
However, as Mr. Xunzi said, "The nature of man is evil, and the good is also false." ”
In real life, under the various trade-offs of people's hearts and interests, the sense of existence of human nature and evil is more common, and most people rely on the acquired family education, learning, and circumstances to pay and harvest in family affection.
In some families, parents have no way to educate, brothers and sisters in the process of growing up, not love each other but pouring out on each other, fighting for money, and even repeatedly and continuously hurting family affection, such incidents emerge endlessly.
In every emotion we face, such as family affection, friendship, love, whether you respect each other from the heart, love each other, for the sake of each other, I think the other party must be able to feel.
It is precisely because we can feel, because there are so many brothers and sisters in this world, when we see some warmth and surprise among them from time to time, so we have more expectations for human nature, and I can't help but say aloud: Such a big brother, also give me a dozen!